Family & Relationships - 12 March 2007

I'm used to applying my fave body lotion & body oil especially after shower & if i'm going out but my beau doesn't like it.
I tried to explain to him that it's important for my skin (girl's stuff). It's an issue to us once in a while & he made it sound like I'm a vain or something. That's why when we were travelling and island hopping together last year. I tried to apply them hurrily while he's not looking at me yet but everytime he smell and notice me using those girly stuffs he will just tease me again.


So Is it really making me a li'l vain & to those girls or even some of the guys who also like to use those stuffs?

2007-03-12 08:55:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it all about looks or is it ppersonality?

2007-03-12 08:55:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How often should you see your bf?? How often should you expect him to call you? I'm just wondering because my ex and I are getting back together and dating "slowly" again to start off to see if we're compatible...How often should I expect to go on dates with him etc? Let me know!

2007-03-12 08:54:39 · 5 answers · asked by pigsrule25 1 in Singles & Dating

My husbad wants to file for divorce - out of the blue - claiming that he didn't love me anymore. He brainwashed me for 3 months making me believe that I was a horrible person and that I caused all of this. Now, turns out, he was having an affair, and still is. I am obviously heartbroken - seeing as I thought things were great (we just had a baby 11 months ago) and were planning for more children. ANyway, after I caught him, I asked him to leave because it is too painful to watch him have this affair - he isn't hiding it very well now. I feel taht it is constant emotional abuse - and I want to know if I can get a restraining order based on this - to get him out of the house until he files for divorce. I know I should just file, but I am not emotionally strong enough or ready to do that. I don't really want him out - for some reason I still love him - but I need him out in order to begin the healing process for myself. Help!

2007-03-12 08:54:37 · 9 answers · asked by k8tk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever thought of dumping your partner but were put off by the fear that nobody else would be as good in bed as them?

2007-03-12 08:54:33 · 20 answers · asked by Miss Piggy 2 in Singles & Dating

Well i am going to a prom event thing, not exactly prom, but im going with this guy who i dated for a while, we still like eachother but arent together now because of some problems with parents but we have known eachother for over 7 months i think it was and there have been moments where it felt like he was going to kiss me but... he hasnt, i know we arent together but if we had it our way we would be, so umm how exactly can i get him to kiss me, seeing as how i havent EVER kissed a guy, so i dont want to do it and end up looking like an idiot, so anyways any advice?

2007-03-12 08:53:25 · 7 answers · asked by Curious girl 17 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for a little over 9 years. Out of these 9 years i would say a good 7 years my husband love to arruge with me. When we do arrgue he threatens divorce, thows his rig at me, tells me i am a waste of time, that the marriage is a waste of time, that I deserve some one better, that he does not want to be my friend, that he does not care anymore.

We do not have any kids we tried back in 2005 and I had reviewed the cell phone bill. I had called my husband asking who this number was he would not tell me so I called the number on speaker. It was another girl she says they never slept together or even kiss. She told me what lies he told her that he is a pilot , he would meet her and some of her friends in a bar, not wearing his ring and then hurry home to me.

He has given me other suppesions though our marriage.

Now I have not been an angel latly and my "friend" he is not to blame.

My husband will take other jobs out of town and or truck drive. I have only seen

2007-03-12 08:53:15 · 22 answers · asked by firecrackertx 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my grandmother is 87 years old and has an apartment and when my family is not taking care of her my uncle goes to her apartment almost every day and does everything for her.
sometimes she comes to our house and practically lives in our living room.she sleeps alll day and is VERY rude to all of us .she does not appreiates everything we do for her.she has to be begged to do anything on her own.my family have wittness her doing things perfectly with no trouble at all that she has asked us to do. she makes my sister extremly mad and annoyed and stresses out my mom.she will never admit anything.and always gets her way most of the time because she is older and my family is afraid to say no to her.she has acted rude and disresecptful to atleast everyone of my family members.she makes calls to everyone of her friends and children at least once a week and tells our personal things to them. my sister has suggested we sit her down and talk to her about this. BUT PLEASE HELP ME!

2007-03-12 08:53:02 · 10 answers · asked by ChikkitaBananaa 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I mean if you read my last questions you would know the whole story but to make it short,we met in work 2 yrs ago and since then have become really gud friends,but when were alone it seems shes really into me and compliments me bout everything but when my friend arrives shes all over him,flirty and messing around and doesnt say a word to me like im not there,i dunno as i really like her alot but i dont think im gonna get her and its hard ta deal with to be honest because if you met her you would know why,shes jst perfect in every way..life sucks sometimes doesnt it!

2007-03-12 08:53:00 · 11 answers · asked by John A 1 in Singles & Dating

Im a guy and theres a hot girl at my school. What is the best way to ask a girl out? Be specific!!

2007-03-12 08:52:52 · 5 answers · asked by ....... 3 in Singles & Dating

If he likes you and you like him...but he wants to take things slow. He is single and says he doesnt want to rush cause he isnt going anywhere. He is about 11 years older than me, and Im in my late 20's.
He says he has rushed before and ppl got hurt, including him.
Should I believe him in what he says?

2007-03-12 08:52:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She discusses everything with her mother. Always plays the wounded victim during arguments. Lies to others so that she looks good in everyone else's eyes. When she wants something she asks her parents instead of us doing it ourselves. She's also constantly telling me she's so independent and was such an independent single mom. However now that I'm married to her I know her parents did everything for her. How can I get her to grow up?

2007-03-12 08:52:36 · 23 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-12 08:52:26 · 30 answers · asked by myspacelover 2 in Singles & Dating

i am looking for missouri marriage records

2007-03-12 08:52:04 · 3 answers · asked by jnymw 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'd like to write something cute to him, a few lines, a poem, whatever. I wanna show him that I still care (ok, and love!). Can you please help me?

We haven't been apart for that long and I hope we perhaps could get back together...

2007-03-12 08:51:54 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 08:51:49 · 8 answers · asked by letsgomason 1 in Singles & Dating

we have a beautiful 3 month old son. we broke up because the drugs where affecting how i treated her. i became a monster and she didnt understand what was making me act this way. she kicked me out 1 month ago. i quit using drugs and told her the truth. i am in treatment to help ensure i dont relapse. she still wont let me see our son or even speak to her. i see know how bad i screwed up. she is a great girl who i love very very much. is there anything else i can do before its to latew? i miss my little family!!! please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-12 08:51:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What is the one thing that your spouse / significant other should, but does not, know about you???

2007-03-12 08:51:15 · 13 answers · asked by lifestar 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently moved to a different city, and don't have many friends here yet. I moved here with my boyfriend. He hasn't really made any friends yet either. The problem is that I have made at least a few friends with people from work. I really want to go out with them for a "girls night out", but feel guilty leaving him all alone. What should I do? We've been together for almost two years. I would feel bad if he did this to me. Am I just being stupid here or what? I don't know how to go about this. I always feel so guilty. What do you guys do? Should I feel bad or not? I just miss having fun...I have no life anymore. I'm in my early twenties and should be living it up at this point in my life. I fee like I'm getting old already and its depressing. Please help!

2007-03-12 08:50:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was on Facebook one day and this one guy requested to be my friend and I accepted. His profile said he lives in Glen Ellen in Chicago and we wrote on each other's wall a few time. When we talked over the phone, he said he's in Boston for school. So I wrote on his wall again and he said he "pretty much" lives in Boston. He just hasn't changed his profile. I just assumed that when he said school, he was there for a field trip. So his Spring Break is coming up soon but mine won't be for another weekish. When would we get the time to meet each other?

2007-03-12 08:50:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Whats the difference between the two,with the Underdogs and do those really keep to there promises??

2007-03-12 08:50:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

smart azz, or be kinda nice,,,im naturally a smart azz but sometimes hold back to get a read on the girl at first, then if she's a smart azz i lay it on her, the pipe that is, cuz smart azzes are usually easy ...agreed?

2007-03-12 08:50:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've never given my wife reason to not trust me or doubt me. I've never cheated or even thought about it however she's so suspicious of me and accuses me of cheating, lying, manipulative behavior and it drives me nuts. I feel like I'm paying for someone else's sins to her. However she said she never had a previous relationship where someone cheated on her. I'm starting to wonder if she's telling me the truth. How should I act when she accuses me of this stuff? I get very angry now.

2007-03-12 08:49:07 · 26 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Can any one tell me y People brake up they say “I want to explore the world” then the next thing u know they are dating a new girl or guy. I am so tiered of people saying lies.
If you want to figure out what u want then Y would u go out and b with other people?????

2007-03-12 08:49:01 · 8 answers · asked by Natural 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 08:48:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl I've known for a couple of months asked me when we were hanging out "what do you do all day''? I kind of understand why she said it, because I'm always available to hang out with her when she wants to which lately hasn't been very often, but the reason why I'm available all the time is because its during the day when my friends are in school or at work, and we hang out when I don't have class (i'm in college, shes in high school), is the reason why she might not be texting me back or wanting to hang out with me very often due to the fact that she might think that I'm a loner who dosen't have much to do? which is really not true I admit I don't do much during the day when I don't have class because like I said my friends are in class or at work!, I do like hanging out with her, should I just randomly call some of my friends during the day when/if we hang out again just to establish that I DO have friends? I really like hanging out with her.

2007-03-12 08:48:35 · 2 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Singles & Dating

i accidently said somesomethings about my stepfather and now i have ruined my familys happiness and now were entering family therapy. i also like my best friend. both things are stressing me out. the first for obvious reasons, and the second because she has a boyfriend and i feel awfull for liking her. i want it to stop, but i cant. i have her next period in class and when she see's how i look, shes gonna ask whats wrong. every time i see her, it feels like i have a new problem to tell her. i like her a lot and i know she woudl listento me and try to help me out, but i feel awful for her having to hear me ***** and whine. i am trying to think of a way to tel her how i feel about me telling her all my ****, but i cant think of anything, and if she sees me like this, she's gonna fret over me, and she has enough worrys. i really care about her and i need help to say something so she dosnt fret over me. help?

2007-03-12 08:48:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

she goes to a differnt school

2007-03-12 08:47:38 · 19 answers · asked by corey b 2 in Singles & Dating

my married friends swear by it and generally feel the less they tell their wife, the less there is to get b#tched at. i have taken their advice recently. my wife was giving me grief because i was going out to dinner with some old fraternity brothers, once every month or two. my wife was fine with this but was getting aggravated that i was picking up one of my fraternity brothers in penn station in newark new jersey (about ten minutes away from me) because he didnt drive. i have no problem doing this but for some reason she was annoyed that i had to do this, so i adopted their policy and just stopped telling her i was picking him up and problem solved. how do other guys and also women feel about the adoption of the "the less my wife knows the better off i am" policy as an effective policy for reducing the amount of wife b#tching in ones life?

2007-03-12 08:46:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in a relationship with a man for 7 years and 9 months. We have been engaged for 7 months. We have our up and down. We solve our problems but, these problems are repetitious..........problems like Lying, cheating, distrust, nonunderstanting............Do we need therapy or end this relationship?

2007-03-12 08:46:49 · 7 answers · asked by ora s 1 in Marriage & Divorce