Family & Relationships - 12 March 2007

I this guy(shaun)but hes very slow..He just stares @me,without makin a move,its been going on 4mnths..Now im kinda fallin for(omar)thats co worker with shaun..But omar backs of when i kinda hint to him that i like him..PS i was never involved wit shaun,he never even knew that i dig him,any advice?How tot deal with this situation?

2007-03-12 09:05:19 · 2 answers · asked by Cassý 1 in Singles & Dating

I really want to meet a "nice" young man that's English or British, that likes "All- American girls", and is willing to have a "serious" long distance relationship. Can anybody help me?

2007-03-12 09:04:50 · 21 answers · asked by Kalin J 1 in Singles & Dating

What would you say to really catch a womans attention. And lead to dating or even a 1 nighter.
(please women only, no jokes)

2007-03-12 09:04:40 · 5 answers · asked by Andrew B 3 in Singles & Dating

What is wrong with her introducing me to her fiance"? I want to know who this man is that she is forcing onto my son...is he a nut case...she has been hiding him even when I asked...this has been going on for a long time now..even when I told her to let me know if she ever met someone so "we can be on the same page together"...why is a man none of my business who is imposing his beliefs on my son...are we as parents always wanting to know who our children's friends are...why doesn't it apply here....especially when my son senses something not right...and neither do I...people say it's none of my business...I think it is my business...it is my son...I am not trying to impose on my ex's relationship.,..it is about my son...why shouldn't I have a right to know who this man is? The ex won't introduce us...and I have asked 3 times....now she is engaged...

2007-03-12 09:04:35 · 14 answers · asked by RealEYES 1 in Marriage & Divorce

but I have never seen her instrument...do you think that she is a liar?

2007-03-12 09:04:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am tired of 'playing the field'. I want to find a good companion. Someone who will share our love rather than just take it from me either with nothing in return or something expected back that makes me feel uncomfortable. I like to get out camping, fishing, going to the beach, ice skating, movies, dinner, walks, faires, anything for fun! It's a drag doing it alone and I'm not sure how to find someone who is looking for the same. Any suggestions?

2007-03-12 09:03:48 · 4 answers · asked by Dee 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 09:03:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

When men say "What she doesn't know, wont hurt her?" But wont it hurt them, because karma. She may not know, but it will come back to him. Why do men think that just because we dont know what's going on behind our backs, that if I were to cheat and get caught they feel so mad and miserable, but they were doing it first. The only difference is I didnt know because he was sneaking around behind me first. Wouldnt that be karma for all the times that "WE DIDNT KNOW".

2007-03-12 09:03:40 · 11 answers · asked by Still Standing 4 in Marriage & Divorce

So, I want to ask my girlfriend to marry me, but I said something stupid a few weeks ago. She has been married before and she was pushed into that marriage by her family. She had a really hard time getting past that being as she was married for 4 years and he constantly beat her. Well, a few weeks ago, we were talking about weddings. Well, we had a little disagreement about how many groomsmen and bridesmaids we would have (her wanting a smaller wedding, me wanting a larger one), and I made the comment like, "Well, you know how you felt pressured into your first marriage...well I feel pressured now!" Stupid, because I don't feel like that at all, and I don't know why I said it. I just was mad, and sometimes I say things I don't mean when I'm mad. I have told her all of this and she says she forgives me. But, I saw it in her eyes how much it hurt her, and she hasn't mentioned a wedding since. I want to marry her, but now I'm afraid she won't say yes. Should I still ask her?

2007-03-12 09:02:49 · 18 answers · asked by traemarlow 1 in Weddings

say if you and your loved one are stranded in an island ..both of you stumbled upon a lion and it is chasing you both andyou have to sacrifice one person to fill its hunger. what would you do ?
When you answer this question ,you swear to god you are being honest . Or else a misfortune will fall on you and your loved ones.

2007-03-12 09:02:36 · 10 answers · asked by the_road_i_am_on 2 in Singles & Dating

I was friends through freshman and half of sophmore year with a guy before I moved away. Afterwards, we never talked until he got my email from a mutual friend and he told me that he was going to ask me out when I went to my old school but he was too shy. We started emailing each other back and forth for about 7 or 8 months before we went out. Now, we've emailed each other just a few times and haven't seen each other again. He's busy with school and work I knwo, buut it seems he's being rude and stand off-ish. Should I just stop emailing, since he's not trying to carry on a conversation or what? I'm just not sure if he doesn't want to go out again, but we both had a good time on our first date.

2007-03-12 09:02:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a bully that keeps bothering me and this is her like 10th time bothering me and I went to the counselor didn't help and principal and teacher they are sayin if I fight with her she is going to kill me and she can fight real good and she looks like she can and she will hit you first I have to fight back if she hits me,I am a nice non-popular girl and hasn't done anything to her it's just someone lying around.she dosen't wont to hear any talk just fight and she really wants to fight my friend!

2007-03-12 09:02:02 · 13 answers · asked by GirlLab 1 in Friends

he is such a coc.kblocker!! agreed? these girls arent 14, the guys going to the house are obviously that smart to know, so really, they should be like im innocent, anyone can say there any age, you just need to check ID, duhhh

2007-03-12 09:01:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 21 yrs. old and pregnant by my b/f who is a lot older than me. He has a 15 yr. old son who is a slob. Im not working right now so I stay home, and I clean the house and what not, but I feel like Im not getting the respect I deserve by my b/f or his son. His son leaves empty boxes in the cupboard/refrigerator, dirty dishes in the sink which we have a dishwasher and load it up each time theirs a dirty dish, but his son leaves it in the sink. Its not ever just one dish either, he will have tons of bowls and spoons, etc in his room and then put them in the sink. I recently had to take care of it and their was moldy milk all in it. He will leave crumbs on the counter, food out on the counters, etc. He NEVER cleans up. I talk to my b/f about it, and he doesnt do anything about it, and says nothing to him. We got in an argument about it recently, and I still ended up cleaning up after him. His son has no dicipline what so ever. What should I do?

2007-03-12 09:01:31 · 2 answers · asked by FutureMrsBeck 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-12 09:01:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want to clear my name and my appearence in saying that I have no birth defects and I am not gay for that matter - If Chica B is spreading her lies about you stand up and be heard - CHICA B MUST BE STOPPED!

and how can I get a coffee stain out of my carpet?

2007-03-12 09:01:19 · 4 answers · asked by ♪♫♪Ginny♪♫♪ 5 in Family

What do guys like in a girl?

2007-03-12 09:01:15 · 5 answers · asked by Ashley Tisdale 1 in Singles & Dating

I really need a gf I'v been trying to get one a school year. Even my friends say i need a gf. please help.

2007-03-12 09:01:04 · 13 answers · asked by Fins2 1 in Singles & Dating

Isn't it possible that guys who have to have a lot of different women around have low self-esteem. It's like they need constant attention, constant admiration, & constant gratification because they aren't happy with themselves. Why do they chose to take advantage of other people as oppose to just taking better care of themselves and learning to love themselves?

Players have blind confidence they really don't love themselves much...do they?

2007-03-12 09:00:57 · 9 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

The affair happened along time ago and i just found out. My wifes lover had us over for dinner, took us out ect. All that stop when the affair started and lasted For 18 months,The second affair same thing, but lasted a very short time becouse she got pregnant bye him. She never told me to the guilt go to much and she asked For my fogiveness and told me everything.

2007-03-12 09:00:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This is just a follow up to my post on Friday. It is intended for those that participated.

To those of you who weren't here on Friday. I am 55, had a date with a 30 year old black man. My question was should I expect a lot of stares when out. Me pretty white woman in her 50's, he a 30 year old black man.

There were stares but no angry stares. I did not see any angry white men staring at us. LOL

2007-03-12 08:59:56 · 16 answers · asked by Momma K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey i know that people go to yahoo answers for advice but I think as I said in anyone need advice part 1 that nobody can really give a teenager advice except another teenager. So in saying that I would like to let every teenager ( including ones that don't speak english) that I am open to any questions you may have I have been through a lot of things such as boys, parents, grades, suicide attempts, best friends, fights, you name it. I feel that I can give good advice because of the fact that even though i have been through that stuff I am now a happy person and is glad to be alive and enjoys life. if you have any questions you want advice on you can post it on here or instant message me at Southern_Cutti3@yahoo.com I am almost always online. In the case that I am not leave me your question, name and email address and I will definetely get to your question when I can. I also want to tell you taht everything you ask is between me and you.

2007-03-12 08:58:39 · 5 answers · asked by southern_cutti3 1 in Singles & Dating

The guy is really sensitive and if i tell him he will be mad @ me
and think that it was all my fault!I really like this guy.

2007-03-12 08:58:36 · 12 answers · asked by *LoLa* 2 in Singles & Dating

what does that mean exactly

2007-03-12 08:57:49 · 14 answers · asked by Chelle J 1 in Singles & Dating

Sorry, this isn't even a question, just needed to yell for a second...

2007-03-12 08:57:41 · 5 answers · asked by leprechaun3833 5 in Singles & Dating

if the secret is damaging to others if you don't tell, but the person told you in confidence?

2007-03-12 08:56:49 · 25 answers · asked by MJPablo23 2 in Friends

OK, here's the situation. I
've noticed that everytime I leave for work my boyfriend looks at naked pictures of girls on the internet. It's not so much porn or videos but just naked girls posing different ways nude and exposing their you know what.

I accidentally came across it in the history files once and now I check all the time and EVERY single time I'm away he looks at this stuff. I don't think it's lack of sex in our life....for example, we'll have had sex and the same day once I leave for work he looks at the naked pictures.

What does this mean? I brought it up once a few weeks ago by making a joke and he just laughed it off and it never got brought back up again. This bothers me but I don't know whether to make an issue of it or just pretend that I don't know what he's doing at let it go cause apparently most guys look at some form of porn. Please let me know why he might be doing this and what I can do about it...

2007-03-12 08:55:47 · 6 answers · asked by Heather 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Although I know that I am the only one who can make the decision, I want others advice on the situation I am going through right now. My baby's father left me when I was two months pregnant, and needless to say, left me heart broken. When iw as 7 months pregnant, I met a wonderful, good-looking guy who was there from me from that day forward, even went with my to the delivery-room and helped me deliver my first child, my son, Payton. Although I am very thankful to this guy for all he has did, I realized after I had Payton that there were still major feelings for my ex who I had a child to. Not just because of the child but because I was still very much in love with him. The father of my child, Ben, wants to be back in our lives and has made efforts to make me believe that, and although he has a lot more to prove, I feel like I cannot let Chris, the guy who I met when I was pregnant, be strung along when I know I love someone else.

2007-03-12 08:55:40 · 13 answers · asked by *mommy to two* 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My parents have been divorced since i was 4 and now im in high school. sometimes my dad will ask me to call him after school and i always forget. however, my mom will call me within 15 minutes of me getting home after school every day. should i be more responisble or should he initiate the calls?

2007-03-12 08:55:22 · 17 answers · asked by seldogg10 2 in Family

I've been seeing the same guy for almost 10 months & he saids that he's afraid to answer my phone calls because he thinks I'm going to make him feel bad. He said that he knew we weren't on the same page to begin with ( I want a committment & he wants to play the field) but I still burden him with my feelings and such and he said that he doesn't want to hear it anymore. He said that I make him feel bad when I tell him how I feel about the situation because he does care but he's just not ready for that type of relationship. He said he loves women, talking to them and being in the company. Different women mind you & he said he isn't going to change any time soon.

2007-03-12 08:55:21 · 16 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating