The guy is really sensitive and if i tell him he will be mad @ me
and think that it was all my fault!I really like this guy.
2007-03-12 08:58:36 · 12 answers · asked by *LoLa* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO stay out of it, it will look bad if he breaks up with her based on what you said. You can give him an oppurtunity to find out himself or have a mutual freind tell him, just dont let him think it originated from you.
2007-03-12 09:07:46 · answer #1 · answered by timdadevilsfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! That all depends on how close you are. You can pull a Phoebe from friends. Find a way to prove to him that you would never, ever lie to him about something this serious and then gently tell him. He will be grateful in the long run that you told him. Then, give him some time to heal. If you put yourself out there as a support and are there for her, then there is a chance that you may get close enough to have a chance. Only one down side...it could go in the oposite way in that if you get too close, you could be branded as too close of a friend to date....good luck!
2007-03-12 16:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by juliet03angel281 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh. You should DEFINITELY tell him. Then back off for a little bit and let him sort things out---you don't want to seem to eager. Be there for him, but don't try to make any moves. Then be aware that he's going to be a little hurt for a while. Don't keep bringing it up--people like people who make them feel comfortable and at ease, not those who remind them of painful things. If you play your cards right, he will definitely see you as the great girl who got him through everything, and you'll be a shoo-in for a dating candidate.
2007-03-12 16:04:56 · answer #3 · answered by elusiveoptimist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long has his girlfriend been cheating on him?
if it's been a while then your just telling him so that you can get him and in the long run you'll be the one stuck out. If you tell him and leave him alone for a while then he may come back.
2007-03-12 16:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by live, love, laugh often! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. If things don't work out,then you might be able to have a chance with him but you can't be the one to tear them apart,he might think you did it just for that reason, to tear them apart.Just wait,let him know however in some small way that you have interest in him.Good luck.
2007-03-12 16:06:40 · answer #5 · answered by BOBINE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with bonnie m. if u show sensitivity towards him in his time of need, then maybe he'll see what a great girl u r and maybe end up liking u. hope his helps!
2007-03-12 16:04:04 · answer #6 · answered by rachel13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, u don't have to tell that because u'll be the bad person!
Oh, sweety!
Let him to find out that on his own!
If u love him let him to be happy!
Sorry, dear...
2007-03-12 16:05:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont tell him, but get really close to him. When he finds out he will already be close to you and will latch on.
2007-03-12 16:04:25 · answer #8 · answered by Takeniteasy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not tell him, because he probably won't believe you, he is going to have to find out his own way, and when he does, just be there for him. good luck.
2007-03-12 16:02:13 · answer #9 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get one of your friends to tell him... and then a couple days later tell him that you're sorry about it but you didn't want him to get hurt by finding out by himself
2007-03-12 16:05:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋