OK, here's the situation. I
've noticed that everytime I leave for work my boyfriend looks at naked pictures of girls on the internet. It's not so much porn or videos but just naked girls posing different ways nude and exposing their you know what.
I accidentally came across it in the history files once and now I check all the time and EVERY single time I'm away he looks at this stuff. I don't think it's lack of sex in our life....for example, we'll have had sex and the same day once I leave for work he looks at the naked pictures.
What does this mean? I brought it up once a few weeks ago by making a joke and he just laughed it off and it never got brought back up again. This bothers me but I don't know whether to make an issue of it or just pretend that I don't know what he's doing at let it go cause apparently most guys look at some form of porn. Please let me know why he might be doing this and what I can do about it...
2007-03-12 08:55:47 · 6 answers · asked by Heather 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well first of all you need to talk to him. Make sure that he knows that you know whats going on. That you know what his doing. Porn can be an addiction. Maybe at the begging he just did it for curiosity and then it became a habit. Maybe that turns him on or something. If you feel comfortable, try taking pictures yourself. That could be something that you both can enjoy.
2007-03-18 17:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by lol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll take a stab at it. Sex can be an addiction, just as sure as meth, tobacco or alcohol. If he can't break this addiction, he will have a short life because of the STD's he will aquire. (Many addicts (not all) have to have sex a dozen times a day.)
Like any addiction, he has to realize there's a problem, and want to get help. Like any addiction, he would have to have professional help; he won't get over this by himself. His family doctor can probably recommend him a therapist.
Above all, don't think any of this is your fault. It stems from obsessive/cumpulsive thoughts, which are likely biochemical in nature. That's why he needs professional help.
2007-03-12 23:53:27 · answer #2 · answered by James S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a man can't be satisfied with you and your body then he's not the man for you .. get a good man that will look at other women and go " god they ain't got nothing to my girl" and would not even dare to get on and look at other girls unless you two together got on a site... because you want to experience something together. not a guy to do it behind your back its like he's cheating on you him being mysterious and waiting till you leave and making sure he's off when you get home.. get smart dump him there are more hot fish in the sea.
2007-03-20 11:48:59 · answer #3 · answered by Americasgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I may not be a male but this is what I know......
Guys like to look at girls naked
Most men think about sex non stop
Porn is everywhere....
Therefore I think your man misses you when your gone...he gets bored and looks at naked chicks....
Maybe you should give him some pictures of you to look at when your gone! :-)
2007-03-19 01:10:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's addicted. I wouldn't hang around waiting for him to be cured. I'd move on.
2007-03-19 21:14:11 · answer #5 · answered by RoxanneZG 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
roxanne z's answer has my vote!
move on, find a good man!
2007-03-19 22:38:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋