I really need a gf I'v been trying to get one a school year. Even my friends say i need a gf. please help.
2007-03-12 09:01:04 · 13 answers · asked by Fins2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know what your going through I really need a boyfriend and my friends think i should date too. Speaking from experience, wanting something so bad especially a girlfriend or boyfriend can lead to some strange behavior such as obsession. Believe me when I say this you should just be friends with some girls first because when all is said and done the most important thing anyway is being friends. Try being their friend and if you still don't get a girl email me at Southern_cutti3@yahoo.com and i will have some tips on how to get you a girl. (make sure you leave your name or anonymous and email address so i can contact you back.
2007-03-12 09:06:17 · answer #1 · answered by southern_cutti3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this sounds contrary, but stop wanting a girlfriend! Women can spot desperation a mile off, and it's a huge turn-off. We start to wonder why you're that desperate. Try making friends with some girls without trying to pick them up. That'll raise your odds of getting a girlfriend.
2007-03-12 16:04:45 · answer #2 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act like urself. Eventually, sum1 will come along. Member, there is sum1 out there 4 every1! &&If ur friends r tellin u that u NEED a gf, then just laugh. Bein single is THE BEST!!!!!!
2007-03-12 16:11:42 · answer #3 · answered by emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach girls you like and strike up a conversation. Be friendly and confident. Don't be desperate or rude. Try not to get too nervous - they're people too and they might be nervous too, so don't worry about it. Consider learning how to play an instrument, then you can start or join a band. You'll learn something new (and incease your confidence), you'll keep yourself busy, you'll have fun and you might attract more girls 'cause a lot of girls love guys in bands. Plenty of guys who couldn't get girls managed to get their attention after being in a band. And don't worry, you'll get a girlfriend eventually.
2007-03-12 16:10:03 · answer #4 · answered by Purple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself dont let it get to you dont act cool shell find the real u and get mad bcause u lied to her find a girl that you have stuff in common with if u do ask her out or see if a girl likes you.Or maybe a girl will ask u out k
2007-03-12 16:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by VaporeonThePenguin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you NEED a gf? Everyone has to learn to exist alone before they can truly commit themselves to another.
2007-03-12 16:05:46 · answer #6 · answered by juliet03angel281 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself...do i really need a gf that bad...enjoy yourself and don't let your friends tell you what you need to do...its them that want to have a gf...when the time comes....just wait
2007-03-12 16:05:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give it some time. It might take a while but you will eventually find the right person
2007-03-12 16:04:05 · answer #8 · answered by Matt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself what is the real reason you want a gf.
Is it because everyone is telling you to?
Or is it because you really do have interest in someone?
Dont dive into something you dont understand why you're doing it.
2007-03-12 16:05:16 · answer #9 · answered by Blood&Wine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly why do you need a gf?
2007-03-12 16:03:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋