Family & Relationships - 12 March 2007

My sister just finished nursing school today. She has her pinning ceremony late this month. Any great ideas for a nice gift for her? I'm so incredibly proud!

I suggested purchasing some crocs for her. Anything else?

2007-03-12 09:39:05 · 17 answers · asked by Trouble's Mama 5 in Family

I was just curious b/c girls at my school talk about making out w/these guys.

2007-03-12 09:38:50 · 14 answers · asked by Cori S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 09:38:16 · 37 answers · asked by I♥™ 5 in Friends

Should I have a big or small party?
Maybe go to a movie or the mall?
Any suggestions?

2007-03-12 09:38:09 · 8 answers · asked by Liz 1 in Singles & Dating

How do i become more trusting, less insecure, and not jealous in my relationship. We have been together for 2 years,and he has done nothing wrong. But still i act this way. How can i change. I feel like i am ruining this relationship!

2007-03-12 09:37:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend's ex-wife keeps coming around and thinking that she is still friends with him. He can't stand her but the only reason he still talks to her is because they have 2 kids together. How do I know if she is coming around just for the children or if she's coming around because she is still in love with him? I know that he is completely over her but it still bothers me. Help!!!!

2007-03-12 09:37:18 · 5 answers · asked by sbooth17554 1 in Singles & Dating

Honestly, ladies why is it that some dudes are such dogs and have no feelings towars girls or ohers? Comon guys I want your feed back as well. What are some things that make the dude snap to become jerks.

2007-03-12 09:36:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We never wanted to get married or live together, she said she is boken and i dont need to use condoms, we were about to leave each other in couple of months, she was to crazy about sex and always wanted to have sex so i never said no. She always told me we can have fun and move on, no need to take anthing serious.

Now she is pregnant, not ready for abortion and is threating me to drag me to court for child support, if i dont marry her or not live with her. I cannot marry her or liv with her, we r not made for each other, our nature dosent match, apart from that her past was too bad for me to accept her as wife, she has slept with many guys and done many wild things in past.

What should i do now, marry her, have live in relaionship with her, run away, go to court, or what. Please help me i really need some suggessions...

2007-03-12 09:36:10 · 28 answers · asked by dass d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my fiancee that i live with and have been for 4 yrs now...i have a toddler son with him....he keeps farting and it stinks...no matter how much i remind him that it is rude, he says they just fall out and he can't help it but it is so digusting...i dont know what else to do about this situation..

2007-03-12 09:36:08 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am not looking for who is right, or who is wrong- just wanting to know if there is anyone else out there that hears what i am saying... I have a problem. I am madly in love with my husband. He is my only desire. I wish i could be the cool wife and be okay with everything..but i am not. When he looks at porn, i feel the pain in my heart and in my gut. My wish is that he would love me enough to not only not need porn, but not want porn. I wish that it was something he could willingly give up, just because he can see how much it hurts me. He loves me enough to have given it up, but the resentment is coming..i know it. If I could snap my fingers and be okay with it, i'd do it in a second...does anyone else understand how much it hurts to have the love of your life choose to search for videos/images of other women. I feel betrayed. I feel like something must be wrong with me.
for the record , we do have a very healthy love life-wild and fun, just like it should be. We are in love.

2007-03-12 09:36:07 · 2 answers · asked by shasta 5 in Marriage & Divorce

[and dance and dance and dance]

2007-03-12 09:35:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like a guy 6 years older than me i am 17. We went on holiday together in australia and london last week i know him through my bro. We talk alot and laugh together, we often catch each others glance and we stare at each other for what seems like an age, the only thing is he hasnt made a move or made any suggestions or even hugged or put his arm arm me. But neither have i. I am attractive but he might be put off because i am younger and he has known me for so long. How do i subtly find out if he likes me. Any opinions on wether you think he does or not i will be so greatful xx

2007-03-12 09:35:22 · 5 answers · asked by Zalia 1 in Singles & Dating

Like should i break up with my boyfriend?
My boyfriend wants sex, but I'm not sure about it?

Do they really think they will get honest answers from people they have never met? Are they really that naive?

2007-03-12 09:35:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were eating at Acapulco and we were just looking at each other eye-to-eye. She seemed as if wanting to say something to me, but she couldn't. Tears started to roll down her eyes. She then told me that she sometimes doesn't want to see anyone not even me and that she wants to spend some time with her friends. She also told me that she wanted more space. I then told her that that was no reason to be crying and if she wanted to break-up to tell me right there and then. But she began crying more replying that I went too far by saying that. I just don't understand her. Please help me find out what she is trully saying to me...Please...

2007-03-12 09:35:09 · 7 answers · asked by jcr22185@sbcglobal.net 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My partner of one year just called me to tell me that his friend X is losing his job. X brags he has 7K in the bank for just such a rainy day. X has a history of taking advantage of my partner's generosity. As a result, I cannot stand the guy. X says b/c of losing his job, he and his partner and their dog may need to stay with us for a few days as their lease is up soon. My partner called to tell me this and I just lost it. I feel that X needs to act like the 32 year old he is and get on with his life rather than trying to move in with us for an unspecified amount of time until he is, "back on his feet." His partner is a doctor by the way and X has no debt beyond a car note.
Plus, like the lease ending is a shock?
So now I'm mad at my partner for his naivety & he's mad at me for my lack of charity. Does anyone else think this situation is insane? AM I justified in being pi**ed off that M is assuming we will just agree to let him stay with us? Remember the 7K savings!!

2007-03-12 09:34:59 · 12 answers · asked by mufflerbearings1967 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-12 09:34:30 · 10 answers · asked by crystalbutterfly1004 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a girl, and all my friends are guys. yesterday i was hanging with 7 of them. Then something really weird happened, they all suddenly took all my clothes off and took lots of pics. Then they all went home and acted like it didn't happen. they are all down stairs right now. I found a camra in one of their pockets. I am 100% sure they are going to do it again. What do i do? should i try to escape, or just go with the flow?

(P.S. whoever answers the best, i will send one of the pics to.)

2007-03-12 09:33:40 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in my second semester in college. I have a 3.7 gpa and i really have no idea what i want to do in my life. I wanted to be an opera major and whlie i was auditiong something seemed wrong and i found out i had a 50% hearing loss.. on that basis every school rejected me and i had to go to school for business. I am good at this stuff but i am not happy doing it. I am a great writer and a very creative person I feel like if i am not in a program where i can be a music manager or a musician then i want to be in fashion. My parents dont support any of these occupations and are giving me a hard time. I never get to be who i want to be or do what I want to do. My boyferind tells me to shoot for the stars id ont even know how to do it. and if i do how can i get support? Right now i am a dual major in international business and political science ... neither one of these things are me.... what do i do?

2007-03-12 09:33:24 · 17 answers · asked by canthearu12 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a friend that says that she heard someone say that this boy in my history and math class likes me but i don't beleiv her. then i ask him and he said yes !and now my friend is mad at me and i think that the boy is lieing cause alot of kids at school think that i'm popular cause i use to date a football and basketball player and i think that he said that cause he wants me to go out with me so that he could be popular.what should i do,and should i go out with him.please tell me!

2007-03-12 09:32:50 · 2 answers · asked by pamela t 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife who I am divorcing had a protective order out on me. A few weeks later she stated that I violated the order by calling her and threatning to kill her. I hired an attorney, I was sure that I would be found innocent since there was no prove on either side......I was wrong... The Judge said she believe her over me? I was given 2 days jail time. Is it worth appealing If I am innnocent? and by appealing can the sentence change to something more harsh? Is this common for people who are going through a divorce and custody battles? I believe this is an attempt to make me look dangerous so she can be awarded full custody of our daughter. Is there any support out there for men who are in my situation.....

2007-03-12 09:32:27 · 17 answers · asked by JL 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been working with this guy now for a while but I'm not sure if he likes me.He is one of the sweetest persons I know but I'm a bit confused,sometimes it would seem as if he likes me but another time it's just business as usual. We are chefs and we move around alot in the kitchen sometimes we touch to pass each other, espacially if it gets busy,he likes to play around with me, sometimes he blows in my ear when he passes by, and if the work load is too much he offers to help out,he even calls to find out if I get home ok when we work late. The thing is, he plays around with other co-workers too,is it that I'm making too much of this? I don't want him to know how I feel because it will become very uncomfortable for me to work with him.

2007-03-12 09:32:13 · 14 answers · asked by BOBINE 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years and we are expecting our first child. When I say we don't plan on getting married, people always reply "oh your poor baby" and things like that. Why, I don't get it? Is my child any less loved for her parents not being married? Is she going to suffer some how? Do not say she will feel different because many kids come from unwed families. We plan on being together forever and if we are does it matter that we are not married. I believe a home is built on love and we have that. We act "married" we just don't have the piece of paper. Please don't say we are living in sin either, because I will bet 90% of the poeple who say that had sex before marriage.
BTW we are not married because I would rather elope and he doesn't like that idea, but I won't spend a ton of money on a wedding. Also, neither of us like the idea that if we are married we have to pay more in taxes. I guess we are kind of fighting a small battle with the system.

2007-03-12 09:32:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my prom is on april 14. so when is the right time to ask a girl that i want to go with. i only see her at school and right now its spring break.. school starts back on march 19th.

2007-03-12 09:31:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok this question is only for people who have been in successful distance relationships because if I ask the people who haven't been in one they are going to be harsh and won't understand.

Ok I have been in this long distance relationship with a man who I love very much. I have plans of being with him next year. The thing is that we were just friends at first and he came to me in a time when I felt very lonely and depressed, he was with me in my good and bad times, now that we are a couple I feel very happy with him, we are honest and tell each other everything, but the thing is that because I feel happy all the guys are noticing that and I am attracting male attention.

When I was feeling lonely no one would notice me, and now that I am in a relationship now all the guys want to be with me, and I think it would be unfair to cheat on him because of this, he is the one who have been with me when I most needed him and not those guys. They would have come to me when I was alone.

2007-03-12 09:31:36 · 7 answers · asked by Giggi 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance is in jail at the moment and i been with him for over year now. He went in 5 months ago and i have recently been sleeping with this other guy , but i really love my fiance . i get so confused about us, especially since he did not write me for a month. I don't know if i should end it, or tell him, or stay with him and keep my mouth shut about my affair. I need some advice!

2007-03-12 09:31:36 · 51 answers · asked by phantasmal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I can't afford to have a big wedding right now. We want to elope, and have our 3 small children present, as well as our friend to help with the kids and to help take pictures. Afterwards we want to meet up with our immediate relatives and have some cake and punch before we take our kids to Disneyland. I'm my mom's only daughter and she says she feels like I don't want her there, since we had some disputes in the past. She thinks it's all related but it's totally not. We just don't want to be unfare to his family if she is invited etc. Plus the rest of the family that we are somwhat close to would feel left out too. So we think it would be fair to everyone this way. What do you suggest? If my child were getting married I think I'd want to be there, but since it's me we're talking about things seem different.

2007-03-12 09:31:26 · 9 answers · asked by clickynicki 2 in Weddings

Does anyone know how to write a will/whom I could talk with? I am unmarried, but have 2 young boys. (Neither father is around.) I was told to write a Will so that my sons can be taken care of whom I choose. Anyone?

2007-03-12 09:31:23 · 7 answers · asked by chrissy x 2 in Family

i a guy likes u and y kno he likes u but he dosen't kno u kno that he likes u y don't they talk to u?
sorry bout the confusion!

2007-03-12 09:31:02 · 8 answers · asked by greek-a-leek 726 1 in Singles & Dating

The condom broke while i was having sex...i went and got the plan b pill the very next morning and took it like i was supposed to...anyone ever took it, or have any advice?

2007-03-12 09:29:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-12 09:29:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends