This girl I've known for a couple of months asked me when we were hanging out "what do you do all day''? I kind of understand why she said it, because I'm always available to hang out with her when she wants to which lately hasn't been very often, but the reason why I'm available all the time is because its during the day when my friends are in school or at work, and we hang out when I don't have class (i'm in college, shes in high school), is the reason why she might not be texting me back or wanting to hang out with me very often due to the fact that she might think that I'm a loner who dosen't have much to do? which is really not true I admit I don't do much during the day when I don't have class because like I said my friends are in class or at work!, I do like hanging out with her, should I just randomly call some of my friends during the day when/if we hang out again just to establish that I DO have friends? I really like hanging out with her.
2007-03-12 08:48:35 · 2 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell her that you enjoy hanging out with her, and know she doesn' t always have the time, so you speacially set time for her. That way it looks like you have plans, you just choose to spend them with her instead. You don't have to be a loner to make sure you have time with your girl ;-)
Good luck
2007-03-12 09:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're worried about that just drop the names of some of your friends into conversation - say what you were doing with a & b last week and what your doing that evening with c... it could just be that you're getting a bit paranoid and she's busy at the moment.
maybe next time you text her you could ask what she's doing & say that you're out with whoever doing whatever (make sure you're actually doing it though - you don't want to start lying to her!)
hope it gets sorted and you get to hang out with her more x
2007-03-12 16:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by aria 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋