I mean if you read my last questions you would know the whole story but to make it short,we met in work 2 yrs ago and since then have become really gud friends,but when were alone it seems shes really into me and compliments me bout everything but when my friend arrives shes all over him,flirty and messing around and doesnt say a word to me like im not there,i dunno as i really like her alot but i dont think im gonna get her and its hard ta deal with to be honest because if you met her you would know why,shes jst perfect in every way..life sucks sometimes doesnt it!
2007-03-12 08:53:00 · 11 answers · asked by John A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If that is perfection I would hate to see your definition of a mistake , she is flirting with another guy in front of you and you still want her? Move on, shes just not interested in you the way you are in her and look up the word perfection in the dictionary...
2007-03-12 09:03:38 · answer #1 · answered by M B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going thru a similar situation with a guy. The whole sending mixed signals thing. I think it comes down to being a better judge of character. People like this aren't good people because they do what they think they need to do to get with you and get you hooked on them so they can always have you around & then they're ready to move on to something else while keeping you on the back burner. It hurts I know and it's hard to swallow but you have to move on. There's nothing that you can do about what someone else does.
2007-03-12 15:58:24 · answer #2 · answered by geminig 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, life does suck. Well, let me be harsh for the moment, would ya? Well, I think that this girl might be into anything that moves. She seems like the go-getter girl, but seems perfect in every way.
OOOOORRRRRRR:
She might be messing with your head and being like that because she wants to show you how sexy she could be. She might want to show you that she is a wild child. This guy could be just bait for you, you never know.
I know, us girls can be super confusing. But what about you guys????? This guy that I LOVE keeps on confusing me. Can you answer that? jk
XOXO,
Katherine
2007-03-12 16:01:19 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she just wants the attention. If I were you, I would just forget about you and her becoming a couple. I mean if she is flirting with all of your friends in front of you, think of what she could be doing behind your back! There are many other chicks out there, get one that treats you right!! Good luck!!!
2007-03-12 16:05:19 · answer #4 · answered by emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just wants the attention. It may be that she looks at you like more of a friend but really doesn't know how to show it (sorry to say but she may just be a flirt) or she is not sure what she wants or thinks....
2007-03-12 15:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by juliet03angel281 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life does suck!!! But you can turn that negative thinking into positive thinking. She's not perfect in everyway...because if she was she would not be treating you like that. I would just try to get her out of your system...I know it will be hard but she's not right for you. Their's someone out their who will treat you like you deserve to be treated.
2007-03-12 15:58:18 · answer #6 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is probably seeing just how much you really care for her...to see if your too soft and you dont care if she flirts around...or if your a tough guy that wants her to be all yours...she probably wants you to take that friend to the side and just remind them, u know that's my girl i'd like it if you would leave her alone...and if they dont then that's not a very good friend to be keeping around...
2007-03-12 16:13:53 · answer #7 · answered by Kaitlyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she sounds like she has a low self esteem, she wants all the attention she can get. If you want her all to urself u need to speak up let her know be upfront. Good luck
2007-03-12 15:58:13 · answer #8 · answered by Sherry A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby! if shes playing you like that then leave her alone. i mean there is many other fish in the sea!
2007-03-12 15:57:35 · answer #9 · answered by laneabridges 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah well i just got dumped by the love of my life... so yes life really does suck sometimes!
2007-03-12 16:02:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋