My gf just broke up with me the other day. How long did it take for the pain to go away from your experiences guys?
2007-03-12 08:39:24 · 12 answers · asked by Matt 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It does take time and depends on lots of things. Your personality, how deep in love you were, etc. People need the lesson to mature, so look at the positive side. There are definetely lots of girls who will love you for who you are. So just find a hobby, new interest, distraction, take your time and you'll be just fine.
Keep your chin up and good luck
2007-03-12 08:48:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 years
2007-03-12 15:42:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the depth of the feelings & the relationships. Sometimes it takes a long time & it isn't because of the person not being there anymore it's more so about the pain of rejection. To be rejected is what causes that feeling of a broken heart. It's what has you asking yourself, why wasn't I good enough or what did I do wrong. Nobody likes being rejected and we hold on the pain of it & the fear of it happening again.
Love yourself & rejection won't seem like such a bad thing, especially when you realize it's there loss.
2007-03-12 15:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by geminig 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how much you really loved her. Could be along time. Sorry. The pain will go away real quick though if you find another person to give your affection and love to and get it back from them in return. As the old saying goes," The best way to get over one relationship is to get into another one." Good luck!!
2007-03-12 15:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by Pierre Patelin Longshanks 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I left my boyfriend of 4years in Sept because I knew I we wouldn't work out in the long run. It still hurts to this day though time has eased the pain. Don't dwell on what went wrong, remember what went right. Keep those memories close to you and move on. Eventually the hurt will subside and you'll be able to move on.
2007-03-12 15:44:20 · answer #5 · answered by Erica B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say count half of the amount of time of the relationship say you two went out for a year then you should be over it in 6 months or if you two just dated for 4 months then you should get over it in 2 months... see so good luck
2007-03-12 15:45:03 · answer #6 · answered by smilingontime 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Takes a heck of a long *** time buddy. Especially if you really liked her. Hey guess what? if u still like her, let her kno, theres no harm in trying =]
2007-03-12 15:43:21 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki.[mmk]. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all in the hands of an individual.Take care and happy days to come.Hey like someone said in here maybe its not to late talk to her.
2007-03-12 15:46:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
o man, it can be a while, it helps to jump on the dating scene with quikness, nothing like a good lay to help get over some chick, but dont worry my man, time heals all,
2007-03-12 15:43:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my relationship ended yesterday :( im very sad indeed
from past experience it took me a few weeks to stop crying everyday but your a man right? men dont cry!
errr still hurts when i think about it but thats life, good luck to you x
2007-03-12 15:43:55 · answer #10 · answered by moomoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋