Ok, why is that men always say that they tell women up front that they aren't looking for anything serious but then they start to call alot & spend a lot of time and then when the women starts to catch feelings & wants something more they don't understand why she feels that way. If all you're looking for is a casual affair then you shouldn't put in so much time & send kind emails or call for conversation so much. Why can't you only call when you want a date or a booty call? Why don't men understand that they are sending mixed signals when they spend a lot of time & act like they're enjoying a woman's company & then when she starts to express her feelings he doesn't want to hear it or be bothered with her anymore. It's always, I told you that I wasn't looking for anything serious. Why can't guys like that just stick to one night stands?
2007-03-12 08:39:46 · 3 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound more like a guy than a girl.
If you are having problems with these types of guys, it's your fault. You are subconsciously looking for this type of guy and that is why they are attracted to you.
You need to change the types of guys you go out with, you can't have your cake and eat it too....and then complain about it!
2007-03-12 08:46:14 · answer #1 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm I'm pretty sure there are plenty of guys who would be happy with a one night stand. Maybe he's not used to a girl who just wants a fling and feels obligated to call you and such.
2007-03-12 15:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you give me your number, I promise to only call for a booty call, ok?
2007-03-12 15:46:47 · answer #3 · answered by Master Richard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋