I am person who do not talk much, so when i went into high school, i talked to people in order to make some new friends. But day after day, after so much bad events like grades decreasing, so i quit concert band, i am so stress that i started to skip school, causng my grade to be even lower, horrible than C classes even though I'm in an A class. So i might as well stay at home. Therefore my interact with friends get lower and lower, I even treat some people whom i talk or friends with like transparent, walk pass them like nothing happen. I really did want to talk to them, but i am just so stress that I can't find any event to talk to them.. I am lack of motivation, even though I had motivation i suddenly think of, it will just be temporary and I will lack of motivation again.. So now I had fewer friends and what horrifying is that I used to think it is OK to be that way! I am really confused, I do not know what to do. So how can i get really motivated again and get into the right path?
2007-03-12 08:43:01 · 3 answers · asked by SKyLaR 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I had now graduate and are about to go to college..
2007-03-12 08:44:18 · update #1
I really do not want to carry on like this and ruin my interaction with friends.. Anyone can help?
2007-03-12 08:48:11 · update #2
Loneliness is the sin, and loneliness is the punishment.
Don't make yourself lonely from choice.
If you even force yourself to smile, talk to people, look them in the eye, think good thoughts of them - try it.
Get on a bus and look at the people. Read these lines slowly, this is no kitsch. Look through the window and smile. Look at all the people. Hardly any of them are smiling. Give your seat to an elderly person. Ask the person near you what the time is. Force yourself into conversations as awkward as it may seem. It may take weeks until you feel a change, but do not give up. Listen to yourslf closely. Listen. Sit in a room all by yourself and talk out your problems for an hour. Don't be embarrassed. Do it alone. Once you listen to yourself, the way will be paved.
2007-03-12 09:39:34 · answer #1 · answered by Dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you are feeling overwhelmed, which can be the result of a depression. Please see your family doctor. Depression is very common and easily treatable. Once you find out what's wrong, you can begin again, start with making new friends and connecting with the old ones, join band again, etc. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-03-12 08:48:01 · answer #2 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you graduate if you write like that? I really can't understand this.
2007-03-12 08:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by Just gorgeous dahling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋