is it the excitement of cheating or the attitude of you only live once?
I cant figure it out?
2007-03-12 08:45:17 · 18 answers · asked by Cathy L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We act upon how our flesh feels instead of thinking about the situation at hand. There is absolutely nothing one can do to prevent their spouse from cheating. You really have to know that person within before you get married and talk about things like that. People do not realize that a lot of things we do is sin, and when you get married you are one under God and you both suffer when something goes wrong. These days couples separate everything. Money, children etc. When two people get married they must realize whatever one does will affect the other and the only way to make it work is to realize you are no longer two anymore.
2007-03-12 09:03:46 · answer #1 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has been going on for years when people get marry. Some people get marry too young and don't really realize what they really want out of life until they start living it. Some are missing something that use to be there and no longer is like sex. When they do cheat there's usually something lacking in the home that they can not receive from their spouse.
2007-03-12 17:15:40 · answer #2 · answered by Theresa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that hard to figure out. Both the excitement and only living once is what you'll hear the most, but it's more than that. Most people these days marry for all the wrong reasons and the sad part is most don't even know it until it's done. I could write a book about it and should, but for now that's it. Hope i helped.
2007-03-12 17:04:34 · answer #3 · answered by bojul4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married 20 years and have never cheated on my wife and I can say that I will never cheat on her. I love her too much to give in to the temptation to cheat. I promised to love her only until death and I intend on keeping that promise. Everyone does not cheat. Some people can't control themselves when they lust for someone else. Others cheat because something is missing in the marriage.
2007-03-12 15:50:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not just "these days". People have cheated for a long time. We just have a lot more ways to catch the cheaters now. Computers, cell phones... etc
There are many reasons behind cheating. It will vary for each person. Unhappy relationship, boredom, need for excitment. Who knows.
Cheaters suck!!!!!
2007-03-12 15:52:22 · answer #5 · answered by E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have always cheated on spouses, but in today's world it's talked about and made known - back 50 years ago people would keep it quiet and downplay it; it was a huge taboo.
2007-03-12 15:48:54 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have been cheating on there spouse since Eve gave Adam the apple.
There ain't no real answer to your question.
2007-03-12 15:48:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because unfortunatly, despite the fact the human spirit inventing a bond we all know as "love", our physical instinct in this world is not Monogamy. In a perfect world we would be happy with one partner the rest of our lives, however our animal instinct to procreate with our species is encoded into our genes. Fighting the sexual attraction for someone other than your partner is a hard thing to do for most people because of it.
2007-03-12 17:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by angelofdeath0101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's so much easier to cheat these days because of technology - texting, chatting online, internet profiles.. It's an unfortunate sign of the times.
2007-03-12 16:02:44 · answer #9 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it used to be sort of a social misnomer if you cheated or you divorced someone but now celebrities are getting married and than getting divorced within a few weeks because of some reasons like cheating
2007-03-12 15:49:54 · answer #10 · answered by Dillon C (who else) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋