Family & Relationships - 11 March 2007

2007-03-11 22:45:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm an 18 yr. old guy, and I feel I'm gonna 'die' when I'm with them.. I just can't stand their presence.. not in a bad way.. but not in a good way either.. It's just that I don't know how to act when they're around.. You might suggest .. "just be yourself" or anything else related to that, but i need a more concrete answer.. Please help.. thanks in advance.. :p

2007-03-11 22:44:33 · 12 answers · asked by phicopacko 2 in Singles & Dating

Several of my married friends all complain about a lack of sex. Why is it that when you get married or enter into a long term relationship the sex dries up? I dated someone for nearly 10 years and in the beginning we had sex daily, after a few years I was lucky if I could be in the same bedroom with her. Why do women do this???

2007-03-11 22:44:09 · 4 answers · asked by DialM4Speed 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been seeing a gal naw for four months.... we were talkin away last night about the summer holidays.. and what we wanted to do..etc etc... and she asked me if i wanted to go on hols with her, in august (she goes to this place every year) august is 5-6 months away... is she seeing me as a possible long term.?

I am finding hard to make plans that far in advance B/C i dont know what she wants...? can i start making more long term plans with her naw..? like booking tickets to go see bands, that are playing a few months away.. ect..?!?!

2007-03-11 22:42:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have met a nice guy and I do think that he likes me and be serious to me.
the problem here is: he less contact me, e.g doesnt chase me like he did.
I am thinking of reasons for this. Wife: no, he is not married. Girls: he doesnt have a GF and he is a good man. He is not interested in me anymore: perhaps.
he is foreigner manager working in my town for 1 year already. Until now, he has not made up his mind whether he will stay forever in my country or move to work in another country, or even he has no idea about it now.
Is that the reason he is not interested in going further in our relation?
What shoud l do now?

2007-03-11 22:40:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I'll keep this brief and to the point. I started speaking to a girl after she messaged me on an online dating site. I will profess to not being brilliant with women otherwise I wouldn't be on there. We then started chatting on MSN before progressing to texting and finally phoning each other every day. We had even arranged to meet up this weekend only for her to call it off at the last minute saying she had childcare issues. She has stopped texting me now and when I went to phone earlier I found that she had gone out and her brother was babysitting. In light of thisI am ready to give this up as a bad job although will admit to being very disappointed. I'm taking it that I've interpreted her signals or lack of them correctly. Just looking for other people's opinions really?

2007-03-11 22:39:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not complaining just curious. I'm in my thirties and I found that there is a wide choice in women. Even my female college classmates are still single.Why? Are women getting married at older ages?

2007-03-11 22:39:15 · 4 answers · asked by Phillip 4 in Singles & Dating

What do you all prefer - a bit tuby, flat, tonned or bodybuilder, I'm currently flat/ tonned and am working out - just wondering weather to go all the way or just to tone up.

2007-03-11 22:38:52 · 26 answers · asked by Soul Reason 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 22:38:37 · 6 answers · asked by noclue 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my girlfriend for 6 months now. We've lived together for 5. I had that fresh feeling of love for ages. That kind of swelling "butterflies" excitement and anticipation all the time. Then on 18th of January it disappeared overnight, I love her so much, but i'm not feeling "in love". I'd like to know whether i'm mourning the loss of a temporary infactuation (over reacting), or whether this is something more serious. I'm not feeling the excitement really... but i know this is the person I want to be with... Hope that makes sense. Advice needed!

2007-03-11 22:37:52 · 7 answers · asked by Nick C 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 22:35:59 · 10 answers · asked by Shy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been in a relationship for 6years.we love each other very much.but whenever we get into an arguement my bf talks to me very rudely and harshly.for which he apologises afterwards and promises not to repeat but he is the same next time also.just bcoz of this we have many times decided to break off but to no conclusion.i m extremely sensitive kind of person and cant take this abusive behviour so lightly.many times i have talked to him about this but its of no use.we have marriage plans also.i am afraid that such cruel behaviour of my bf can even get more harsh in future.i cant live without him but i dont know how to make him understand my feelings.we are also physically involved.plz suggest what should i do?

2007-03-11 22:35:08 · 8 answers · asked by kamya aggarwal 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been talking to this guy online for almost a year. He lives in Mississippi, I live in Indiana. When we first started talking early summer last year, we talked but not a lot. I noticed we started talking more once he wasn't in a relationship. I click really well with him and I asked him if he'd actually be interested in meeting up sometime and he said, "yeah, its definitely something we need to do, but I don't know when". There's just little stuff he says that makes me thinks he likes me, and other times I'm not sure. Like he'll say little stuff like "why are you so amazing?" or constantly tell me i'm awesome or amazing. It really struck me when he commented on a picture on myspace and was like, "hey nice pic, very hot" (he never commented on my appearance before) Or he asked me if I'd miss him this week (his spring break.. he's back home in AL), I was like, "I will. =[", he was like, "=[ I'll miss you too". Does it sound like he likes me or could it be mistaken for friends?

2007-03-11 22:34:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 22:34:00 · 5 answers · asked by Phillip 4 in Singles & Dating

I am 23 yr old.i have a B.F. who is a yr older to me.i live in banglore and he is in Mumbai.v meet once in 3 months.otherwise,v talk on phone everyday for one hour and also sms in between. V r a great pair and have been going on for 4 yrs (since college).v r committed towards marriage also. V were together for 2.5 yrs den he got a job in Mumbai and I in banglore. He loves me a lot. I too love him. No probems between us. Now, the problem is in my office one guy likes me .(actually lot of guys do, as I am little more than avg looking) v talk to each other some times but only friends..so, I have started to like him also.moreover, he is of the same caste as me and dat attracts me as my parents wil not oppose. My B.f and I r of different religion. Actually, I dont care about this but this is also a point. Wat to do? Shud I think of breaking my current relationship? I am too comfortable with my current BF. But I also want this guy in my life. Plz advice

2007-03-11 22:33:52 · 13 answers · asked by kamya aggarwal 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

a date that consists of a lot of deep conversations about feelings and family. dinner, walk around town, boring movie.

you didn't hold the girls' hands or anything at all. she touched you a little but nothing happened! even at the movies there was nothing!

the girl is not too bad looking.

is this a boring date?

2007-03-11 22:32:27 · 11 answers · asked by ll l 1 in Singles & Dating

we love a guy and sacrifise everything for them even our parents is that right are the boys really good

2007-03-11 22:30:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A girl really got sick and couldn't eat because she misses a guy she likes so much...the guy is in the army and can't take vacation much..(not in the US army nothing to do with IRAQ)

2007-03-11 22:28:39 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have.....Feels very free...TomScience 4

2007-03-11 22:26:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Tomorrow I have my physical therapist appointment. I have to go there three times a week. There is a very pretty receptionist there. I'm embarrassed about my car accident. Should I ask her out? What do i say? Will it be awkward if she says yes? What if she says no?

I'm real nervous.

2007-03-11 22:25:48 · 5 answers · asked by Phillip 4 in Singles & Dating

ive been with my partner along time but the spark has gone, and i find myself missing the buzz that you get when dating.

2007-03-11 22:23:30 · 30 answers · asked by Jo -Jo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-11 22:23:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ladies do you find a man who is dressed in formal clothing to be more attractive..like business men?

2007-03-11 22:22:58 · 12 answers · asked by IC4NDY_ 3 in Singles & Dating

me and my husband are going to make a go of our marriage, but im still feeling down, any nice sayings would be nice

2007-03-11 22:22:44 · 18 answers · asked by ssldavey2003 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I already asked this but i only got 2 answers, im hoping to get more. plz anyway:
There was this girl i was talkin to about 2 years ago. Sounds stupid but we were going out (Long distance) we had never even met in person. Yet i still loved her, and she did too at first, and we were 'together' for about a year. but towards the end she acted like such a ***** to me. i found out she was with some guy for a few months. then she told me how much she hates me and how she never really liked or loved me.

And now, between a year n 2 later, i feel like im over her. no feelings or nothing. but from time to time i just get these..images..in my head of things that remind me of her and it gives me chills sometimes. this happens just time after time very randomly. why is this haunting me so much?.

For example, ill just be on the computer, at work, watching tv, trying to go to sleep, doing anything, and suddenly im reminded of her from nothing, just outta nowhere. its like a haunting feeling..

2007-03-11 22:20:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Which works best? Ignoring or saying something witty back. I dont want to feed them but I dont want to be walked upon either.

2007-03-11 22:19:09 · 25 answers · asked by lozziebach 1 in Friends

My mate always stresses out from study, and i want to show her i like her, by getting her something that means i care for her in a more than friend way.....as i think shes really waiting for me to give her hints towards me liking her, she keeps giving me heaps of hints, and flirts heart out, but i think shes at a stage now where she may give up, and shes trying to make me jeolous etc....she looks into my phone to see what her display name is when it rings, she also put her photo as wallpaper in my phone, and likes to punch and touch me heaps, and also does this wierd thing of curling up into a ball, and acts as if shes sleeping, then wakes up after like a minute???wierd ay, we stayed up real late together at her place the other day, but i didnt do anything, maybe she thinks im not interested....well anyway, im having lunch with her tommorow, and want to buy her something to remind her that i care when she gets all stressed from study!, she really needs to know..

2007-03-11 22:18:09 · 5 answers · asked by d p 1 in Singles & Dating

My next door neighbours cousin is really HOT, but I don't know if he likes me or not i've tried to ask him but I cant find the courage to ask him because I don't want to make a fool of myself . PLEASE HELP!

2007-03-11 22:15:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 22:15:10 · 2 answers · asked by loida d 1 in Friends

I am trying to send him an SMS in respond to his beautiful and romantic message. I just don't know what to put in there. What he told me was something like I always make him smile and make him look forward to every day, bilionz os people in the world but only one love he has and it's me. I'm trying to respond to that please give me sentences! Thanks

2007-03-11 22:15:03 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating