I have met a nice guy and I do think that he likes me and be serious to me.
the problem here is: he less contact me, e.g doesnt chase me like he did.
I am thinking of reasons for this. Wife: no, he is not married. Girls: he doesnt have a GF and he is a good man. He is not interested in me anymore: perhaps.
he is foreigner manager working in my town for 1 year already. Until now, he has not made up his mind whether he will stay forever in my country or move to work in another country, or even he has no idea about it now.
Is that the reason he is not interested in going further in our relation?
What shoud l do now?
2007-03-11 22:40:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sit down and talk to him, ask him abt his plans cuz you don't want to be left in the middle of nowhere in the end
2007-03-11 22:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by faiza_t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him time to make up his mind about his future. Be supportive and don't try to force the pace. Even in this age of equality, some men like to make the first move. So, just wait and watch.
2007-03-12 05:47:43 · answer #2 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes--indecision--coupled with the thrill of the chase and he finally got you---better move on--this won't work and you know it. plenty of better men out there--and local men who would love to meet you and have a meaningful, warm relationship. Relax, be honest, the choice is YOURS--smile and have a nice life--good luck
2007-03-12 05:48:03 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should leave him alone for a while....maybe he likes/loves u but he need some time to think about it....moving from a country to another country is a big thing...dont push it..or maybe...hes just not interested in you....maybe ure just a happy fun time for him... but anyway...dont push him.
2007-03-12 05:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by q.reous.c.t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen just open Ur mouth! tell him how u thought he felt. tell him he got 2 get back on plan A or begone! y worry bout all that other B.S. it's all bout u till y'all establish a relationship! get it...my way r u road kill on the highway!
2007-03-12 05:50:10 · answer #5 · answered by sitting_in_th3_cut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better search for another guy........U r saying tat he doeasnt hav any idea of how long he is goin to be there.... better search for another nice guy instead of goin behind him and getting depressed after he leaves....
2007-03-12 05:48:57 · answer #6 · answered by goin gud!!!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe. While he's making up his mind, date other people.
2007-03-12 05:46:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋