Family & Relationships - 11 March 2007

Im 25 years old, pretty good looking, smart, have freinds, a masters degree and a well paying job. Im shy and tend to drag my feet when it comes to girls. Im also a virgin and never had a girlfreind. When dating new girls should I not tell them about the fact Im a virgin and never had a girlfreind? im afraid it might scare them away.

2007-03-11 23:15:19 · 3 answers · asked by timdadevilsfan 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 23:14:41 · 6 answers · asked by aimee 1 in Singles & Dating

What color matches pink for a semi formal February evening wedding

2007-03-11 23:14:06 · 6 answers · asked by lizzie 1 in Weddings

over the past month me and my friend becca have gotten really close. then my other friend naomi has asked me, becca and hannah over (this has been going on for the past week) and we all said yes. during this week becca had been asking me for advise about her boyfriend and stuff and i have been there for her no matter what. then the day of the party me and her met up in town and she was like oh yeah im still going. the party starts at 6 and at half for her bf texted her saying we need to talk and i was there for her then and i was being sympathic saying its ok hes not going to break up with you and that everything it fine. i was there until half six making me miss the first half part of the party and had been a shoulder to cry on when they broke up and i told her to still come to the party and she was like ill see. i could understand if she couldn't go cause hey her boyfriend just broke up with her but whn i arrived at naomis house i told her the sitution and she understood 2 hours

2007-03-11 23:13:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've been dating my girlfriend for nearly two years. I'd known her for 8 months before we started dating and she's my best friend as well as my girlfriend. We've had distance between us before - we spent almost four months apart in 2005 but stayed together as a couple and it wasn't a problem and was well worth it.
Now, we've both had to go on study abroad programs and will be apart for around 5 months, although we're only an hour's flight/7 hour train ride away from each other.
The first week was fine, then after a week she called out of the blue & said she wanted a break until we got back home. I was devastated but there's not much I can do.
I asked her if she's been with anyone and she said there's a guy she lives with that she's been seeing. When I asked if she'd slept with him she didn't answer. I would never think she would sleep with another guy so quickly but she's been acting differently, drinking and taking drugs since she arrived so I don't know.
What should I do?

2007-03-11 23:11:50 · 18 answers · asked by Irish21 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 23:10:04 · 2 answers · asked by Bharat N 1 in Friends

2007-03-11 23:08:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There this guy I like alot and we're great friends and can talk about anything and everything, we even live next door to each other, anyways, his girlfriend of 4 years died 3 years ago, he hasnt dated anyone else since and is still very upset daily over it,...he gives signs that hes interested in me like that, but i think he feels almost guilty, its like we both like each other but his gf is preventing us both from pursuing anything (she really was a great fantastic woman, I only knew her in passing, but from what he says..wow..she was great) Anyways, should i pursue it w/ him? I mean its been 3 years, right?..or is that being completely insensitive? I dont think he'll ever pursue it, because he still feels he has to be loyal to her ( and i completely understand that)..but hes 24, he has to move on, right? Its like 1/2 of him wants to move on and the other 1/2 feels like if he moves on then shes really gone.

2007-03-11 23:08:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 23:05:39 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi i was putting stuff in the boot of my hubbys car over the weekend and found some men only mags, im totally lost on why he has them i dont want to ask him as i may not like his reply, weve been married for 4 years , things in the bedroom dept arent great i always have to make the first move and it only works well if i dress up for him then i feel a right idiot, any advice would be great please

2007-03-11 23:05:17 · 20 answers · asked by JANET W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-11 23:04:53 · 9 answers · asked by just mee 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 23:01:40 · 4 answers · asked by ChatJ 2 in Family

I didnt realise this was a major problem, until she broke up with me two weeks ago. I love her to death and im completely devastated. She was my 1st ever gf and we have been together since high school. I understand she needs space, but i dont want to lose her without a fight. I have been told if i proposed to her 2 or 3 months ago she would have said yes.

I really dont understand how she can go from wanting to spend the rest of her life with me to not wanting me at all now!!

Please help me with some decent advice, should i give her space or should i keep persisting, what would you girls want????

2007-03-11 23:01:28 · 13 answers · asked by N. Andrews 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm talking about the type of attraction in which you see someone for the VERY first time and you're immediately blown away. Just blown away. And to add to that, the other person is blown away by you, too, as if both of you have this "It". And your life is never the same. Is that rare in a lifetime?

2007-03-11 23:00:21 · 17 answers · asked by purringout 3 in Singles & Dating

There this guy I like alot and we're great friends and can talk about anything and everything, we even live next door to each other, anyways, his girlfriend of 4 years died 3 years ago, he hasnt dated anyone else since and is still very upset daily over it,...he gives signs that hes interested in me like that, but i think he feels almost guilty, its like we both like each other but his gf is preventing us both from pursuing anything (she really was a great fantastic woman, I only knew her in passing, but from what he says..wow..she was great) Anyways, should i pursue it w/ him? I mean its been 3 years, right?..or is that being completely insensitive? I dont think he'll ever pursue it, because he still feels he has to be loyal to her ( and i completely understand that)..but hes 24, he has to move on, right?

2007-03-11 22:59:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do people give compliments for no reason?

2007-03-11 22:59:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why are you doing it?
Do u think youll get caught?
Whats your plan if you do?
Are you sorry?

2007-03-11 22:59:25 · 14 answers · asked by Tom M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay so theres a couple and the guy wants a divorce, but the woman doesn't want to get a divorce.. umm and they haven't live together for almost 2 years...so whats going to happen to those couple.. are they just going to stay marry without loving each other.?? what happens if the guy wants to get remarried to someother girl, but the women that shes trying to divorce is still disagree for a divorce..? what happens now?

2007-03-11 22:59:05 · 3 answers · asked by mike s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-11 22:58:57 · 8 answers · asked by THECATSMEOW 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 22:58:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I ran into my ex in a bar last week. We were only together for a few months but it was intense and I really liked him. He'd only been single for a couple of months when we met. He kind of ended things in January and I realised I had been his rebound, but at the same time I felt he was making himself pull away from me because he didn't want to get so involved with someone else so soon.

Anyway, I saw him in this bar and we chatted like old times. I could tell by the way he looked at me that he still likes me, and obviously I still like him! Later on in the night he came over to me again and asked me to get in touch with him.

Later that week, I sent him a friendly text to see how he was but he hasn't replied. He's a nice guy by the way, and I know his confidence really suffered after the break up of his last relationship. I just can't believe he's not replied!! I'm 26, he's 27 so we're not kids!! What's going on?

2007-03-11 22:57:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Let's admit one fact, most men would drag in any nice looking chick in to a public bathroom and "do it" without remorse. Why are women different in this matter, i think the world would be a greater place if women also is more easy going. I hate the "ritual" with flowers, dinners, lying to her how qute and smart she is just to get her where i think she belongs, on her back or knees.

2007-03-11 22:57:29 · 11 answers · asked by . 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 22:56:00 · 11 answers · asked by just mee 1 in Singles & Dating

I saw this guy in a party last year and I really liked him...theni never saw him again after a year... isaw him again last week after a year i still have the same feelings towards him... he kept looking at me and smilling.... i didnt have the courage to go and talk to him cause i want him to do that as he ios the guy....so i really want to know him and i dont know were to find him....i really really lke him...i dont want to wait for another year or a party to see him again.... can anyone HELP.......

2007-03-11 22:55:51 · 10 answers · asked by Candice R 1 in Singles & Dating

So there was such thing: there was a big party in a club where I made out with a guy (that I don't even like!!!) and everybody saw it. Now everybody's making fun at me and I feel very ashamed... Had something like that ever happened to you? What do you think of me??

2007-03-11 22:54:09 · 12 answers · asked by BeHH 1 in Singles & Dating

there this guy, that i like and he knows that i like him,
and the guy likes me, and i know he likes me,
but how do i convince him to ask me out,?
with out actually saying the words can u ask me out?

2007-03-11 22:53:46 · 8 answers · asked by emzisebastain 1 in Singles & Dating

love is blessings of god, and it creats always new for life. But to-day love is going to a different way by which the main meaning of love is becoming changed. So the main things are depends the difference between love & sex.

2007-03-11 22:52:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont know when I shuld give it up! Maybe I should just go with it and let it happen or maybe I should just stop being so damn picky and just go get summ or maybe just do anything at all!! Im really really really young I think to be having sex but most of my freinds are so Idk..maybe its about time that i do it...but im not a follower so im tryna keep my goodies locked up but I really cant take this anymore!!should I wait...or should I go and do it!!

2007-03-11 22:50:33 · 14 answers · asked by Shy 2 in Singles & Dating

He broke up with me among other reasons because of the distance; I'm in New York; he's in Tokyo. We started dating in Tokyo, then I had to move to NY last Sep and we dated long dist. The break up was not mutual, but it was open ended, in that he did not completely rule out the possibility of getting back together once I moved back to Tokyo. I'm moving back to Tokyo to start work there in April; he doesn't know that yet. I should add that another major reason for breaking up was that he did not feel good enough for me due to his educational background, etc, a point of great frustration for me because I don't share in his opinion. He said he could not marry me because he could not make me happy, because he does not and could not have a proper, decent job. I wouldn't mind providing for him, and letting him do what he likes, but he doesn't like such a situation. Now he is being sincere, and I think this makes him even more difficult to read. When we were breaking up, he said his feelings

2007-03-11 22:49:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 22:47:37 · 16 answers · asked by ill take it straight with no ice 3 in Singles & Dating