I dont know when I shuld give it up! Maybe I should just go with it and let it happen or maybe I should just stop being so damn picky and just go get summ or maybe just do anything at all!! Im really really really young I think to be having sex but most of my freinds are so Idk..maybe its about time that i do it...but im not a follower so im tryna keep my goodies locked up but I really cant take this anymore!!should I wait...or should I go and do it!!
2007-03-11 22:50:33 · 14 answers · asked by Shy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wait til u're 50 lol, but seriously ... just wait til u find the right guy who's not using u just for the sex
2007-03-11 22:57:17 · answer #1 · answered by Tartlettes 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok how old r u first? if ur of a resonable age say between 16-18 then i think its natural that u are considering having sex. however if u do dont just randomly find someone to sleep with wait until ur in a situation where u love someone or care deeply about them that u think sleeping together is the next stage in ur relationship. it doesnt matter tht everyone else is doing it u just have to do it when u are ready. u seem like an independant gal who doesnt follow every1 else do whats right for u. and remember to use protection and make sure its at ur pace and ur in control.
x
2007-03-11 23:12:12 · answer #2 · answered by ingram1taylor 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No one is going to agree with me, but i'm speaking on a "real world" perspective. It doesn't matter if you do it today or 10 years from now. Lets just talk about the pro's and cons. You do it at a young age, guys will respect you less, but they'll chase you twice has hard. Your friends will change, drastically. And you will influence alot of other girls with your actions. If you wait, you will most likely find the WRONG guy, and feel attached. You will find yourself more suceptible to guys because your horomones will want sex and they will manipulate that. You are DEFINATLY more likely to succeed in life by waiting (thats a statistical fact) by waiting to have sex. If you wait till 15 to have sex, vs waiting till 25, you are about 60% less likely to be/have a professional career. So the option is up to you, but the best answer is to wait, yet you will Definatly be socially behind in alot of aspects, and more likely to have problems with relationships with men. But your life will be more on track and IMHO thats worth more.
2007-03-11 23:01:15 · answer #3 · answered by Kyle E 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would u want to sacrifice yourself just because your friends have? Keep them locked up as long as you can and choose someone special to share it with. Believe me you will regret it later if you do not choose the right person.
By the way there is no RIGHT age. It depends on when you feel most comfortable sharing yourself like that with a person.
2007-03-11 22:54:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
According to the Forty Year Old Virgin, the correct age to start having sex is forty years old. Now cheer up, you must maintain your virtue, and not go into this fashion just because your friends are doing it. The answer is wait. If you can't, promise me that you will practice it safely. If your partner doesn't want to, you should refuse having sex.
2007-03-11 22:56:03 · answer #5 · answered by Dowland 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're too young if you're even wondering about this. You're not ready if you just want to do it because your friends do - wait til you meet a good guy, wait til you're at least 18 and wait til you're ready to take on all the possible consequences (pregnancy, the risk of STD, heartbreak...)
2007-03-11 22:55:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hold on for your virginity for as long as possible.. It's better if you hold for it until you're married..
Don't let your friends bring you to a risks.. They're just your friends, they're not going to be the one to take care of you and your baby if you got pregnant..
Sex is supposed to be done to produce another human being and was not meant for pleasure..
I'm also in the same situation as yours, but it's not my friends who are influencing me, it's just me.. I just try to fight the urge and do other things..
2007-03-11 23:35:59 · answer #7 · answered by sample 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you still think that asking random people on the Internet whether or not you should have sex is a good way to get an answer to your problem, you are n ot ready
i would suggest waiting...
a LONG time
2007-03-11 22:56:01 · answer #8 · answered by curls 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is no right time or wrong time you have to be comfortable with the person you are with cos you are not telling your age it is hard . and you have to be ready and dont get pressured into doing something you are not ready to do
2007-03-11 22:57:38 · answer #9 · answered by krlgoddard 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait till your married..it would be quite stupid if you lose it early..obviously your wedding night wont be special and you'll feel like idiots
2007-03-11 22:54:48 · answer #10 · answered by IC4NDY_ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋