Family & Relationships - 11 March 2007

I have lived away from home for a few years now but never actually by myself. i kept myself busy by visiting family on weekends or catching up with friends. sometimes i wear myself out keeping busy but if i stay at home on a day off I end up sleeping in, getting bored and feeling lonely.
I wanted to start foster care as its a dream of mine (see my questions) and it would keep me busy but thinking i'll wait a while yet. I am interested in finding the right man for me but not interested in simply having a boyfriend for the sake of it. I own a dog who lives with my parents and i love the companionship of a dog laying down next to me when studing or watching tv so i'm hoping to get myself a dog.
otherwise i find i can sit at home and just feel bored and lonely. I am extremely shy so not one to go out and join a sporting club(doesnt really interest me) but being alone makes me feel bonkers at times!i find i sit online chatting to friends or plan future dreams and time goes too fast.ideas?

2007-03-11 20:30:25 · 2 answers · asked by ppl_tell_me_im_insane 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i met this guy at a dance on saturday and just before he called on his home phone cause his phone isnt working. i missed the call accidently. wat do i do now, do i just wait for him to call again or ring bak?

2007-03-11 20:29:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

used to work with this cute chick at a callcenter. We went through training together copyed eachother on tests and sh*t. She was Dam* Sexy. I got her number and we used to text all the time. I used to tell her her ex should not have treated her the way he did cause she could not get over it.The on day I told her she was beautiful and she just said thanx and we texted for a lil more then went to sleep. The next day on my break I went over and was playin w/ her hair and talkin to her she was bein pretty cool. Then all the sudden right before we both quit she would start textin me and then stop for no reason no response and avoiding me at work. Well we both quit around the same time (actually I got fired) and she quit she started textin me and told me where she was workin now and stuff then same stuff no response. then all the sudden 2 mos later she text me some dumb chain letter I send back I hate those LOL. we text for a lil then again no ansewer. what did I do? I tried calling also!!!!

2007-03-11 20:29:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

"Distance never separates two hearts that really care, for our memories span the miles and in seconds we are there. But whenever I start feeling sad, because I miss you, I remind myself how lucky I am to have someone so special to miss."

2007-03-11 20:29:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How much do you think looks matter?
Example - Looks matter 65%.

どの位一見はパーセントの形態で、重要であるか。例- 一見の問題65% 。

Just wondering [=

2007-03-11 20:27:50 · 4 answers · asked by gossipgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

im in love with this boy but he moved away a few years ago. i know he loves me too i have a boyfriend right now, but i know i want to marry this other guy what do i do?

2007-03-11 20:27:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I need to know what is a good weight..

2007-03-11 20:25:42 · 13 answers · asked by allanackerman07 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 20:25:18 · 12 answers · asked by nicholas c 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 20:23:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cuz i am serectly dating him but my dad doesn't. i dont want to have to keep sneaking around my dad like this but i really like him. my mom doesn't see no problem with it but dad was like"if i catch u in a car with a guy drivng you will be grounded forever" "if u date ne2 with there license u wont see the light if day until u graduate" I want my dad to be ok with it. im turning 15 in a month and he just turned 17. I want my parents to meet him

2007-03-11 20:22:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well they were dating and stuff and he broke up with her because
he thought she was cheating on him. According to other girls
who have dated him, thats why he broke up with them too. Well
he asked me out but I said no because he was soo mean to my
friend and called her all these mean names and blah blah blah
but the point is that he is sooo sweet to me but I stopped
talking to him and he noticed and asked me why and I told him
cuz I didn't feel like talking to him and he has a girlfirend
but he said he still likes me and I told him that was pretty ******
up to his girlfriend and I'm was falling me since he first asked
me out
what should I do to forget him?

2007-03-11 20:22:19 · 7 answers · asked by Gelica 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 20:21:08 · 18 answers · asked by eikee_lenne 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 20:20:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you had a extreemly hard relationship with a person but at the same time there was so much love nomatter what happened.
And you and the girl would fight alote and everytime she would call you back and make it alright.

Then one day you messed up to bad, and after that nothing was the same and you treeted her bad becasue she dident want you anymore and she found someone else...

So you stated comeing around where she lived once or twice

But consider the fact this girl never stoped talking to you for longer then 1 weeks when you guys where broken up and now she hassent called you in like a mounth and one week!

What dose that mean...?
What dose that person want?
Do you think he still cares?
In you'r opengion what is going thought this guys mind?

2007-03-11 20:19:49 · 6 answers · asked by Jazz 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Life sucks rigt now and i want good help. I just want to go ot sleep and never wake up.

2007-03-11 20:19:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He didn't offer to pay for my lunch. he is the one who asked me for lunch and i thought he is a romantic guy....it doesn't mean i don't wanna pay.it was just very reasonable lunch. just because i felt he didn't have intension to treat me really well. we had a great time at park after lunch though.i think he started like me on that day. are you guys don't care much about what women feel if you didn't pay on first date? or shouldn't i feel like this way? what if he never offer to pay for my meal in future? i wanna be treated like a princess. please give me your opinion.

2007-03-11 20:18:34 · 13 answers · asked by hippieflower 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend I've been dating for 6 months, & we're DEEPLY in love & SERIOUSLY intimate with each other, as well as 100% faithful to each other. There have been guys who have been trying to flirt @ me, & I tell them I'm taken, & they tell me, "Your man doesn't have to know. Me & you can still get our groove on." I ask them, "What part of 'I'm taken' do you NOT understand?" It REALLY gets on my nerves. Why trade a man who treats me perfectly well & is understanding & caring for a guy who just wants to hit & run? He needs to go & find someone else. He shouldn't try to push the issue.

2007-03-11 20:18:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She asked me then if she should change her last name to mine. At the time I told her do what you want. Now it bothers me that I see her old marriage name. I've ask her to change it. For some reason she does not want to change it and we fight all the time about it. Is there something wrong with me or her?

2007-03-11 20:17:23 · 13 answers · asked by Mr. Fool 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-11 20:16:56 · 2 answers · asked by likeold74 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 20:16:38 · 21 answers · asked by Rohit 1 in Singles & Dating

his wife to be is 7 months pregnant and he has another son from someone else. i love him but i think its too late. he said he'll call me back tomorrow so we can talk about this.
what kind of advice can i give him to make sure he says "i do" on Saturday....pls i am desperate ....i still love him but he needs to move on with his life and i with mine....

2007-03-11 20:15:47 · 13 answers · asked by centralmite 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Don't you think that it sucks when your best friends of the opposite sex are dating someone else, even though you can find nothing wrong with their boyfriend/girlfriend?

2007-03-11 20:15:23 · 1 answers · asked by TheSilverBeetles 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 20:14:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my girl when i found out she was joining a sorority because from the day i met her i told her no i dislike them Thing is she promised to not do it. Now this sorority is a really disciplined one not those lets party they can't party 2 much. So when I broke up with her she begged me to take her back and she swore she wouldn't do it. I said no that I would take her back and she could go on and do it. I felt bad she's a really really good girl n yes iam really protective but its cause i care about her thats why i need advice. I've had my girls but only really cared about this one.Ok the pleadging procces is only on fri, sat Sleep over and such. but now it turns out to be 6 weeks So here i am on 2 weeks n dont understand why she goes through the pain. It has changed her some good some bad but she wont be there for my 21st birthday and she does all she can 2 see me, breaks the sisters rules and all 2 c me but i hate the fact that i am no longer the main priority in her life.

2007-03-11 20:14:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend told him that i love him. When he found out that i love him, he didn't avoid me but instead he kept picking on me about what i feel for him and my friends tell me that he likes me but i'm not really sure, he denies it.... what should i do?

2007-03-11 20:14:04 · 5 answers · asked by xai 2 in Singles & Dating

In the opposite sex what physical characteristics are an automatic plus?

2007-03-11 20:12:02 · 10 answers · asked by CollegeMeg 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so this is the thing... this girl from my church is really something else and i believe we could have something someday. we have gone on group dates, me and her have had our own lil talks we have had our laughs but she stopped talking to me all of a sudden one day. the only thing that i remember maybe doin wrong is that after church was over i would go over to her and just hang out with her and try to talk to her,maybe she got annoyed about it or she got scared or nervous with me around. but that definetly started the whole ignoring thing.i have asked her if i did something wrong and she hasnt told me anything.i havent asked her face to face though just through texts and messages on myspace, but either way hasnt answered. i dont really understand much of it, or why she is playin this lil hard to get game. whats the deal here? was i too forward? did i scare her away? is there a posibility that she might like me shes just to scared or nervous to let me know? good advice would help..

2007-03-11 20:11:23 · 7 answers · asked by Cj 3 in Singles & Dating

Here's one for the ages. In high school, I was friends with a girl I had met in band. She was in band also and we quickly became close friends and eventually became best friends. I was secretly in love with her but never had the courage to tell her because she was always in a relationship. A year after we graduated she was finally single and took a leap of faith. She didn't feel the same. It ruined our friendship. So we moved on, I stopped all comunication and just moved on. Now five years later, she finds me on myspace and wants to become a friend so I say yes. By the time I knew it all was forgiven and became friends again. Now I find myself in the same spot again. She is single but I feel like we've truely grown up. I know I'm not giving up much details, but does anyone have any suggestions? Should I take another leap of faith and hope she catches me? Any advice is appreciated.

2007-03-11 20:11:06 · 15 answers · asked by alex1983 2 in Singles & Dating

its a freakin borrin monday afternoon jus finished my exams ,lol wondering wht to do ....

2007-03-11 20:10:47 · 15 answers · asked by (omplExity _|_ 1 in Friends

ive stopped nagging and listened more, i massage his back on sunday afternoon, i cook him delicious meals, ive put past issues behind us and maintain a positive outlook, he doesnt know that ive made an effort to change its all so natural, and guess wat my change of attitude has done a world of good for my marriage, ive stopped complaining and started praising and now my husband cant get enough of me literally. ive apllied the principles and reaped the rewards , i became the change that i longed for in my spouse. what changes have you made and wat were the results. or will you start making changes, do tel

2007-03-11 20:09:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce