I have a boyfriend I've been dating for 6 months, & we're DEEPLY in love & SERIOUSLY intimate with each other, as well as 100% faithful to each other. There have been guys who have been trying to flirt @ me, & I tell them I'm taken, & they tell me, "Your man doesn't have to know. Me & you can still get our groove on." I ask them, "What part of 'I'm taken' do you NOT understand?" It REALLY gets on my nerves. Why trade a man who treats me perfectly well & is understanding & caring for a guy who just wants to hit & run? He needs to go & find someone else. He shouldn't try to push the issue.
2007-03-11 20:18:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"I tell them I'm taken, & they tell me, "Your man doesn't have to know. Me & you can still get our groove on.""
Instead of telling them you are taken, tell them, "My boyfriend is gonna kick your player *** up and down the block if you don't leave me the hell alone, because I will tell him."
You got to be tough, be a team, and let the world know it.
Good luck, you sound like you got your head on straight, just be a bit more forceful.
2007-03-11 20:28:16 · answer #1 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right, of course.
Now, as a practical matter work on some lines. For example "If it was Brad PItt asking, I'd think it over and probably say 'No'. For you, I don't have to think about it." Then tolerate a couple of jokes, in which they compare themselves favorably to whichever celebrity you named, and you point out things they lack -- like $50 million bank accounts -- and finally tell them to get lost because they've tried long enough.
2007-03-12 02:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True, but obviously some girls do fool around. See if you respond in exactly the same way after 5 years. Or after 10. maybe you will, but the odds are that anyone would not feel the exact same way.
2007-03-11 20:24:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn the art of ignoring someone and nothing can stand in your way. Just dont waste time talking to them
2007-03-11 20:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by MafiaGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say exactly the whole thing you wrote there and bored them down for an answer to that and your problem solved.
2007-03-11 20:24:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ur prob very attractive and the guy was prob a sleeze u go chicky
2007-03-11 20:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say " As if, Not desperate"
2007-03-11 20:22:51 · answer #7 · answered by nena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋