cuz i am serectly dating him but my dad doesn't. i dont want to have to keep sneaking around my dad like this but i really like him. my mom doesn't see no problem with it but dad was like"if i catch u in a car with a guy drivng you will be grounded forever" "if u date ne2 with there license u wont see the light if day until u graduate" I want my dad to be ok with it. im turning 15 in a month and he just turned 17. I want my parents to meet him
2007-03-11 20:22:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but my dad doesn know*
2007-03-11 20:22:57 · update #1
Dad's rule is final...get over it..
2007-03-11 20:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by allanackerman07 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think pops is just looking out for your safety because the guy is a young driver. Plus a lot of stuff happens in a car and the thought of a daughter doing "stuff" in a car is similar to the thoughts of your mom and dad doing "stuff." (something you NEVER want to think about)
I'd take dads advice because its better to maintain your trust with your dad rather than take a risk dating a guy who could very well dump you tomorrow. I'm not in any way saying that should happen in your relationship, its just that since youre young in age, try to respect your father just a bit longer. When youre 18, you can go nuts. If youre dad distrusts you now, it wont be good in the long run.
Think about it.
2007-03-11 20:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by Quite Frankly with TheFokalist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that you haven't handled the situation the right way, otherwise you wouldn't feel guilty about sneaking around behind your father's back. What you need to do now is, have your boyfriend over your house and introduce him to your parents. I would hope for the best, but I wouldn't go against your parent's wishes. If they say think he is too old for you, I'd listen to them. Parents are not stupid, they were young once too ya know. Whatever decision they make, I'm sure they will do whatever is in your best interest. Keep the lines of communication open, they love you and you owe them your honesty.
2007-03-11 20:34:01 · answer #3 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show your Father a little bit of respect and tell him. He will trust you more if you stop sneaking around.
Remember, he was a young man once also so, he KNOWS what young men with cars are like.
He cares about you and doesnt want to see you get hurt emotionally or physically (i.e. pregnant or broken hearted).
You are his baby...please understand he is trying in his own way to protect you.
You have many years ahead of you to go cruising around in cars with men.
Honor your dad and give him the respect he deserves.
2007-03-11 20:32:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its best for you to listen to your dad. He is probably just trying to take care of you. You never know when somebody will get into an accident. Also, I'm pretty sure its hard for any father to think about a guy all over his daughter. It's a father thing that's hard to explain. I just don't think he wants to think about his 'little girl' with a guy. Especially older guys who tend to try to take advantage of younger girls. I know this advice is kind of dull, but maybe you should try to get interaction between your friend and your dad. If he is a good guy he would want to pay his respects to your father. But maybe it's just an experimental type of thing. Typical relationship kind of stuff. No love involved. If it's love, you'll know what to do. Good luck.
2007-03-11 20:34:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep calling your Dad up from the Mall or a friends house when you know he is watching his favourite show on tv, or at really difficult times. Keep doing it constantly and play Daddy's lost little girl.
He'll soon wish that some one else with a car was at your beck and call instead of him!
Make it seem like his idea that you should find a "friend" with their own transport. . . . .
2007-03-11 20:29:02 · answer #6 · answered by Life's a beach 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think of the question is that in case you dad might permit you date him in case you probably did no longer holiday in his motor vehicle. I under no circumstances wanted my "little female" to be killed by technique of a young person that has in user-friendly terms been using for a three hundred and sixty 5 days. Why? because of the fact I observed my superb acquaintances sister killed that way. yet i ultimately permit in while my daughters have been 15... very just about sixteen. in certainty a 17 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous does not have that sturdy of judgment and in case you get a 14 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous with him, his judgment is even much less. evaluate your self fortunate being in user-friendly terms grounded for existence. one among my daughters have been given a spanking at 14 for doing in basic terms that and he or she might have relatively been grounded for existence. you're his little infant. once you get approximately 25 you will as quickly as back like to be his little infant.
2016-09-30 13:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so u let them meet him in a quick setting such as a school thing or passing in the mall a few times then once they buy hes a nice young man u spring the age thing on them
worked for my ex when i was 19 and she was 17
2007-03-11 20:29:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if your dad makes a rule. you have to accept...
if you parents are together. your mom will tame your dad to change the mind for letting you to have a date on a car.
hehe, good idea.
2007-03-11 20:47:39 · answer #9 · answered by gadgetki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just promise your dad that you wont give him head in the car and he will allow you!
2007-03-11 20:26:58 · answer #10 · answered by Shiv 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋