Family & Relationships - 11 March 2007

well okayy i just got with this guy and everybody made a big deal out of it.. since i dont just go out with guys,, and well.. he's been with a lot of girls.. and so i guess my friends really cares about me. cuz she kept on messaging him saying "you dont love her you just think you do and you better not hurt her or im going to hurt you" well its bugging me because.. i want her to be happy for me and i guess she cant . i just told her that right now everythings going fine and not to worry that if he ever hurts me i will go straight to her and i told her to just be happy for me .. but it doesnt seem to work. what should i do?

2007-03-11 19:47:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please share your experience....i.e., when and how?

2007-03-11 19:47:38 · 5 answers · asked by aaryan 3 in Singles & Dating

to big breast, tight butts, and the like? Do most men like stick skinny girls or girls with a little meat on their bones and curves?

2007-03-11 19:47:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

any help for this would help

2007-03-11 19:44:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 19:43:55 · 9 answers · asked by mariel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

After many struggles, including seeing a therapist, we ended our relationship. He said he has hoped of me changing, and now it comes to realization that I am a selfish, dark, cold heart *****. I drove the car, and I broke it, and now I cannot drive it anymore. He said he has turned his life up side down for me and I ruined everything. He said I cannot be happy alone with myself and no relationship can work for me. I cried while he was telling me all this. He swore off the relationship,and kicked me out of his apt. Ever since then, we never contacted each other.
I miss him so much. I cannot believe he is doing this.Thinking about life w/o him, my stomach turns, my heart aches. I blame itall on myself. I am a love addict. but I tried everything to make this work. I hate myself not able to treasure him and love him appropriately, and I hate him not seeing my effort, but quitting it now. I still cannot believe this break up is real. How can love changes so fast?

2007-03-11 19:43:24 · 12 answers · asked by The confused one 2 in Singles & Dating

well anyways she feels weird saying i love you or holding hands or even kissing or hugging obviously to the second if she is to the first ...what should i make of this? she feels weird doing this in front of her family i can understand kissing or hugging but why cant i say i love you to her well i do but all i get back is yeah with a giggle and how about holding hands why does she feel weird about holding hands? what do i make of this?

2007-03-11 19:43:00 · 7 answers · asked by danwanman 1 in Singles & Dating

My 16th birthday is soon i have no idea what to wear tell me some made ideas!!!

2007-03-11 19:42:48 · 5 answers · asked by princess 4 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We've been friends since January, and started our relationship for all of february. She broke up with me [been two weeks]. We still talk just a little. She's been stressing alot.

She's 17 and i'm 17. She was a great girlfriend but she had a communcation problem. I was thinking of getting a box for her and putting like a 'depression box'. So when shes depressed she can reach in there grab a letter and read it [like goto starbucks and get a blah blah]. but is that overboard?
I dont think her parents approve of me shes turning 18[shes christian]
i still like her

2007-03-11 19:41:07 · 14 answers · asked by Luis G 1 in Singles & Dating

He broke up with me among other reasons because of the distance; I'm in New York; he's in Tokyo. We started dating in Tokyo, then I had to move to NY last Sep and we dated long dist. The break up was not mutual, but it was open ended, in that he did not completely rule out the possibility of getting back together once I moved back to Tokyo. I'm moving back to Tokyo to start work there in April; he doesn't know that yet. I should add that another major reason for breaking up was that he did not feel good enough for me due to his educational background, etc, a point of great frustration for me because I don't share in his opinion. He said he could not marry me because he could not make me happy, because he does not and could not have a proper, decent job. I wouldn't mind providing for him, and letting him do what he likes, but he doesn't like such a situation. Now he is being sincere, and I think this makes him even more difficult to read. When we were breaking up, he said his feelings

2007-03-11 19:40:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yes? And how did it go?

2007-03-11 19:40:18 · 8 answers · asked by AviTech 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 19:39:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 19:37:54 · 20 answers · asked by Debbie L 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm a very youthful looking adult of 35 and also very youthful at heart.I got divorced a year ago and have met a lady that we have fallen in love with each other in December the only problem is that My girlfrind and I adore each other and love each other although her parents are against us and her dad does also hit her from time to time and i want to know what is the legal age My girlfriend can leave home as I will support her every need as we really love each other but her dad is totally against our relationship. My girlfriend is still a virgin and I will keep it that way untill we are married as I love,honour and respect her well being.We have been together for 4 months however and have to sneek around all the time just to spend quality time together.My girlffriend is 17 but a very mature minded lady for her age and we really get along so very very well we communicate all the time and just know we meant for each other .Any suggestions and advise welcome.

2007-03-11 19:35:40 · 24 answers · asked by lekkerza 1 in Singles & Dating

money
good looks
nice car
muscles
cleanliness
popularity
security

and tell me if i forgot anything !

2007-03-11 19:35:21 · 13 answers · asked by michael 2 in Singles & Dating

She lied and said she wasn't seeing someone else, so I video taped her to get back at her. Is that ok?

2007-03-11 19:34:42 · 13 answers · asked by allanackerman07 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 19:34:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

clevage or A$s? Like if she wasn't like a D but had a really nice bum, would you be more attracted to her than a girl with a really huge top area and a flat as$? Assuming you can't have both. This is theoretical, I'm not in this situation, not that I would care. Plus I'm a girl and I'm straight so yeah.

2007-03-11 19:34:13 · 22 answers · asked by Bambi 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating this guy for 10 months, he has been previously married and divorced and has one son. He told me he doesn't have any plans of ever getting married again. Am I wasting my time, I am 20 years old, I don't plan on getting married now, but a girl likes to think that she at least have a future with a guy. Should I dump his a**???

2007-03-11 19:33:56 · 18 answers · asked by tha_best 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 19:33:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was wondering,based on my experience i have come to believe that some women out there really ought to be avoided,but i don't want to sound too generalizing,thus i was wondering do any of u guys believe that there are some women out there that should be avoided,if so what are the things or aspects of these women that make you feel that way?

2007-03-11 19:33:01 · 9 answers · asked by ericktravel 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend and I had been together for about 3 years and she broke up with me recently. The last 5 months were not very good. We argued alot and she just seemed to be holding back on me/ disinterested etc. So one day we get into an argument and she says im sorry i realize now I dont love you blah blah blah. Obviously I was heart broken. She claimed and still claims (its been abotu a week since we broke up) that she just has no feelings whatsoever and she only views me as a friend.

Im trying really hard to believe her and based on the way she had been acting it just seemed like she was changing and she really didnt have any feelings, but its real hard to comprehend that we were in love, had talked about marriage, and then she just magically stops having feelings. My friends all say 'she still has feelings she just doesnt realize or is trying to ignore them.' I dont know what to do. We were best friends and its hard to get over her when im also sitting hoping...

2007-03-11 19:32:16 · 8 answers · asked by Walty 4 in Singles & Dating

im in love with this tottally hot guy and i feel like there is a connection between us.when he looks at me i my stomache does flip flops,im just not sure if he likes me like i like him.help!!

2007-03-11 19:32:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend took plan B once and had her period a few days later. A couple weeks later she had to take it again. That time, it took two weeks for her to get the period. Now its been over a month and she still hasn't had one. Is it the plan B? Should I be worried? Should we go to a doctor?

2007-03-11 19:31:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Yes or no? if no why not

2007-03-11 19:31:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been dating for 2 years. we live together. he told me a long time ago that he wanted to marry me but neither of us wanted to jump into it. people ask all the time when we are getting married. he used to say 4 years from when we started dating, which would be in about 2 more years, but when i answer "maybe in like 2 or 3 years" he gets all... evasive and he's like "we'll see" whats the freakin' deal? to hear him talk about me, you would think i'm the greatest thing ever, people say we seem happy, it's the commitment phobia gonna be a huge issue?? we're young now, 20 and 21, but in 3 years we'll be 23 and 25 and we'll have been dating for more than 5 years... that doesnt seem like jumping the gun to me. i'm not in a rush to get married like now, but i'd like to sometime... while i'm still sort of young... we want kids at some point... much later

2007-03-11 19:31:04 · 9 answers · asked by MissCrys 5 in Weddings

2007-03-11 19:30:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 19:30:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been working out for a long time and look pretty fit.the only problem is my face is still chubby.My face used to be so thin.I still am quite a bit heavier than I was in high school(about 35 lbs)but not that much fatter.My percentage of bodyfat is around 11%.Why is my face still a little chubby.Is there anything I can do.Maybe facial exercises,lose more body fat ???

2007-03-11 19:29:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my best friend has changed into someone else since we hit High School. She is getting boyfriends, when frankly we all know she is to young. Everyone is different when it comes to pier pressure, but what can i say to make her change back to the way she was? Please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-11 19:29:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating