We've been friends since January, and started our relationship for all of february. She broke up with me [been two weeks]. We still talk just a little. She's been stressing alot.
She's 17 and i'm 17. She was a great girlfriend but she had a communcation problem. I was thinking of getting a box for her and putting like a 'depression box'. So when shes depressed she can reach in there grab a letter and read it [like goto starbucks and get a blah blah]. but is that overboard?
I dont think her parents approve of me shes turning 18[shes christian]
i still like her
2007-03-11 19:41:07 · 14 answers · asked by Luis G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she deserves a gift......
give her anything you want......
2007-03-11 19:45:39 · answer #1 · answered by importer911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say not to get her anything, and definitely not something as sentimental as what you were thinking. If it was just a gift card to Starbucks or something very non-commital, it wouldn't be a big deal, but gifts with more thought in them obviously mean more and can therefore imply that you still have lingering feelings. It may make you appear a bit desperate, which I'm sure you aren't and don't want to appear to be.
If you guys are still pretty good friends and talk regularly, then I'd suggest getting her a more low key gift that shows that you still care about her, at least at a friend level, and remembered her birthday, but not more than that.
2007-03-11 19:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by Christine M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he's doing must be regarded upon as an harmless gesture different than for the sneaky thoughtless way he's behaving. His obvious lies are making him out to be somebody who you will possibly be able to desire to evaluate if he's rather properly worth marrying. as properly the certainty that he won't be able to keep in mind while your birthday is, enormously given the size of time you 2 have been mutually, is much extra reason to question the validity of this courting. it kind of feels rather insulting that he won't be able to keep in mind while yours is, yet has made a desperate attempt to deliver vegetation and a image to a pair ex female buddy who he lies approximately and says he hasn't heard from her in extra beneficial than 2 years. None of this may be so undesirable different than for the deceit he's making use of by making use of attempting to pull the wool over your eyes that's digging him a deeper hollow. that's undesirable sufficient he won't be able to deliver you vegetation or presents. however the lies! He did no longer purely pass away out the certainty, he blatantly lied to you which of them is the section that's so no longer ordinary to reckon with. Frankly, you does no longer be blamed for no longer trusting him and you're actually not being overly gentle for doing so the two. as a count of certainty this marriage is in hardship even before it has had a wager to get off the floor. in case you have been to do something it would be to snatch carry of him and seem him immediately interior the attention and ask him one extra time what's rather occurring. not extra "probing questions" that provides him a wager to weasel out it. If he would not come stunning out and allow you realize, then tell him you 2 are by way of. that's somewhat useful to evaluate this characteristic besides given which you have invested too lots of the previous 12 months and a 0.5 to verify now that he's enjoying video games and treating you with disrespect. he's already taken you with none attention yet now he's crossing the line. that's time now which you tell him what's on your recommendations and which you're uninterested and not going to tolerate it. this may be his final danger which will set the process ways your destiny will substitute into, no count if it includes him or no longer.
2016-10-18 04:14:16 · answer #3 · answered by balick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doubt so. Would be good to stay away for a little while longer, maybe a Christmas present, as a friend, but not for her birthday. That would be too soon, and might result in many unhealthy and unwanted entanglements.
2007-03-11 19:46:09 · answer #4 · answered by rawr8512 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you've parted ways but still in good terms, why not. if you think that your little "box" can help, you should definitely give her your present. its not like your giving her a diamond necklace.
i dont think being christian is a reason why her parents dont approve of you. you're still human, right?
if you still like her then nothing can deter you in pursuing her. it is a way to measure your feelings for her. if you truly like her so much then do what you think is right.
goodluck
2007-03-11 19:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by biboy1437 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok getting her something like "depression box" may be a tad overboard. you guys have broken up she may not take it the way you think she will if you do want to get her something get her something nice like a frame with a photo of the two of you in it something that will make her happy.
2007-03-11 19:45:41 · answer #6 · answered by carolyn t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol dont even worry about it. the fact that shes christian kinda ruins it. it aint a big deal, shes an ex whether you still like her or not. you under no obligation, and you dont even wanna deal with her family.. just make it easier for you and look elsewhere
2007-03-11 19:47:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you should if you like her still but ease back into a relationship don't just pick up where you left off.
2007-03-11 19:46:40 · answer #8 · answered by problems 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd get her something to show you care that's what gifts are for and it might buy you some points with her too. Good luck!
2007-03-11 19:43:53 · answer #9 · answered by sinfulkitten 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save yourself grief. Don't get her anything you'll have to explain later to you next girlfriend. This one isn't coming back.
2007-03-11 19:47:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. if you still like her then go ahead !
but i dont think it's such a good idea since u already broke up !
2007-03-12 08:27:38 · answer #11 · answered by Meamz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋