my best friend has changed into someone else since we hit High School. She is getting boyfriends, when frankly we all know she is to young. Everyone is different when it comes to pier pressure, but what can i say to make her change back to the way she was? Please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-11 19:29:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stay calm.. i know the feeling isnt good...
but you must understand that all of us will grow up.. let it be a test of your friendship... true friends will last til eternally! Let time do the saying... to stand by her always!..Be a good friend yourself and your good friend will.
2007-03-11 19:42:47 · answer #1 · answered by Josephine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry to hear this! I know how it feels! I lost my friends to pot! As soon as we started "toking" we all changed into diferent people. Some of us are different now some are not.
We all change as we grow there is no exception to that rule, and its very hard to watch the friends you knew slip away. My advise to you is to tell your friend exactly how you feel tell her you miss the old buddy that you liked so much! If that dosn't work then i don't know.
Remember that your just in high school! You have many many years to meet and make new friends! A childhood friend that lasts throughout teen years and into adulthood is VERY rare and a gift. Unfortunatly sometimes it just dont work like that.
Hope that is of some help?
2007-03-12 02:36:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, there isn't a lot you can do. People sometimes drift apart, especially during high school. Try to keep in contact with her and plan to spend time together. Maintaining the friendship is the most effective thing you can do.
2007-03-12 02:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people change. she is exploring different personalities and ways to be. It is good to try new and different things, why don't you do the same? You will always know where to find each other if you need to.
2007-03-12 02:32:49 · answer #4 · answered by MissDixie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of people change when the move to a different school
2007-03-12 02:33:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u sued to the old one but also u should know that as people grow they will change in every aspect you might even lose her as a friend,,its life
2007-03-12 02:38:02 · answer #6 · answered by broderm2k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look... your friend shouldn't be acting like that.. the same thing happened to me but i was the one that was changing i noticed it myself. just let time tell her that she isn't the same and let her know how u feel too.
2007-03-12 02:36:25 · answer #7 · answered by MIMI LOVES WHO?? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U cant do anything and trust me you will be the same way she is one day just let her be ... find herself.. find other friends
2007-03-12 02:34:22 · answer #8 · answered by chalebori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend is changing, you cant change that. just be there for her. it doesnt mean that she doesnt need you anymore. you could also try to widen your circle of friends..
2007-03-12 02:32:26 · answer #9 · answered by starshie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes growing up
2007-03-12 02:33:57 · answer #10 · answered by crengle60 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋