well okayy i just got with this guy and everybody made a big deal out of it.. since i dont just go out with guys,, and well.. he's been with a lot of girls.. and so i guess my friends really cares about me. cuz she kept on messaging him saying "you dont love her you just think you do and you better not hurt her or im going to hurt you" well its bugging me because.. i want her to be happy for me and i guess she cant . i just told her that right now everythings going fine and not to worry that if he ever hurts me i will go straight to her and i told her to just be happy for me .. but it doesnt seem to work. what should i do?
2007-03-11 19:47:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your friend is jealous, and I think you should take things slow wih this guy. if you are happy, go with it, if he starts to show any signs of a bad guy, dump him immmediatley before it escalates...otherwise, do what you want, shes not a friend.
2007-03-11 19:51:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 21:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by lewan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this problem with my ex best friend. Although i was the one who couldn't "be happy for her". She's just worried about you, like i was about my friend. I think you should make a deal with her. Ask her if she can try to get along with him for you and if that doesn't work, when you're with your friend, don't even mention the guy. Just have fun and be happy. Forget about him. Divide your time equally between them. And at the end of the day, guys come and go but friends are forever. Don't ruin it because they can't get along. Just compromise.
2007-03-11 19:56:11 · answer #3 · answered by Acid 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what your friend did was wrong but caring. tell your friend thank you for caring but i can take care of my own business, if i need your help i will ask for it so butt out. then test this guy to see how he really is if you don't know already, and if you really like him then give it a shot and don't worry about what everybody thinks about it.
2007-03-11 19:54:04 · answer #4 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your suposedly friend to but out of your life and get one of her own and tell the supossedly boyfreind to change to an unlusted number if hes not willing to do that go hunting 4 anew find
2007-03-11 19:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by crengle60 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good God, stop talking about it--your choice--your decision--not anyone elses business-find something to talk about or stay off the computer
2007-03-11 19:52:10 · answer #6 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her hey ,maybe your right but i truly would like to find out on my own... i mean whats the worst that can happen okay ill cry about it but eventually move on......
ps: i think she has a lil crush on him
2007-03-11 19:53:07 · answer #7 · answered by chalebori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't talk to him anymore.
2007-03-11 19:53:54 · answer #8 · answered by roy_marzoed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋