I have lived away from home for a few years now but never actually by myself. i kept myself busy by visiting family on weekends or catching up with friends. sometimes i wear myself out keeping busy but if i stay at home on a day off I end up sleeping in, getting bored and feeling lonely.
I wanted to start foster care as its a dream of mine (see my questions) and it would keep me busy but thinking i'll wait a while yet. I am interested in finding the right man for me but not interested in simply having a boyfriend for the sake of it. I own a dog who lives with my parents and i love the companionship of a dog laying down next to me when studing or watching tv so i'm hoping to get myself a dog.
otherwise i find i can sit at home and just feel bored and lonely. I am extremely shy so not one to go out and join a sporting club(doesnt really interest me) but being alone makes me feel bonkers at times!i find i sit online chatting to friends or plan future dreams and time goes too fast.ideas?
2007-03-11 20:30:25 · 2 answers · asked by ppl_tell_me_im_insane 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I dont sit around by myself and i actually have about 4 guys wanting to be with me but i am being realistic and dont want to be with them when i dont feel anything. i see friends and family all the time if i can help it but even of an evening i feel lonely (ie night when the gym is closed and i have an hr or two to sit online and chat to friends instead). i find nothing wrong with chatting and dreaming, just want some ideas on combatting lonliness without giving myself to guys when i am simply not interested...and also not wearing myself out by being on the go all the time.
2007-03-11 20:42:39 · update #1
Well I do agree with you, we shouldn't find a partner for the sake of finding. Sometimes it depends on fate where you meet the right person at the right time, then the guy is the perfect choice for you but meeting a right guy at a wrong time or vice versa is not a happy thing to remember.
Chatting onlines is not wrong but just be careful and don't fall into the hidden trap that lies around
2007-03-12 01:53:55 · answer #1 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to gym. u don't need to join any club or communicate with anyone. but it consumes time, gives u health benefits and great appearance. this will raise your self esteem and u become more attractive for guys. i can't imagine that anyone can waste their life just sitting alone, without friends, children, men or hobbies. wake up, we live only once
2007-03-11 20:36:16 · answer #2 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋