im in love with this boy but he moved away a few years ago. i know he loves me too i have a boyfriend right now, but i know i want to marry this other guy what do i do?
2007-03-11 20:27:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as it goes, the distance between the heart and the brain is FARTHER than the distance between the earth and the moon.
it proves a lot in your case..
your brain tells you:
be reasonable. if he really loves you why did he move out? far away from you...are you still part of his plans? is he still interested in you? forget him. move on, your new bf should be able to help you with that.
your heart reasons out:
would you be happy all your life if you're married to the wrong man? so how is he now? is he still in love with you despite the distance? is there a chance for both of you to be together again?
that must be very difficult. you alone have the answer. use both and weigh things out..best of luck!
2007-03-11 20:58:38 · answer #1 · answered by hypnotech 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you still in contact with your old boyfriend that moved away? If not, I think you're a little hung up on him and either need to move on or look him up asap. Meanwhile, I don't really think it's fair to keep your current boyfriend - he should be with someone that's with him 100% Sorry, that's a tough situation. Good luck.
2007-03-12 03:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by lovekoalas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breakup with your boyfriend because you're living a lie. Why hurt someone else if you're in love with another guy. Try to get in touch with the guy you think you love. Maybe it will work out. Never know until you try.
2007-03-12 03:32:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break-up with your current boyfriend...then discuss having a relationship with the other guy and move closer to him and have a relationship THEN y'all can talk about getting married
2007-03-12 03:31:09 · answer #4 · answered by oo_m_i_c_h_e_l_l_e_oo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got a rose-tinted view of the past, and your over-active imagination has been filling your head with delusions of happiness. Get around this person in the real world now and see what happens...
Yeah, you're screwed.
2007-03-12 03:34:07 · answer #5 · answered by no answers here 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with your boyfriend. Why should he invest his heart and time on a girlfriend whose heart and plans of the future belong to another guy? Be fair to your current boyfriend and let him go.
2007-03-12 03:30:45 · answer #6 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old r u don,t rush into marriage its a life long commitmant to some so slow down and realy look at what u want to do with the rest of your life who knows mister right might crash into you car!
2007-03-12 03:33:57 · answer #7 · answered by crengle60 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep doing what your doing until your other guy comes back to you.lol
2007-03-12 03:33:08 · answer #8 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play 'em both - get the best deal before you chuck one for the other.
2007-03-12 03:32:16 · answer #9 · answered by Life's a beach 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ha, simple, marry the other guy.
Why is this a problem?
2007-03-12 03:30:54 · answer #10 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋