ok so this is the thing... this girl from my church is really something else and i believe we could have something someday. we have gone on group dates, me and her have had our own lil talks we have had our laughs but she stopped talking to me all of a sudden one day. the only thing that i remember maybe doin wrong is that after church was over i would go over to her and just hang out with her and try to talk to her,maybe she got annoyed about it or she got scared or nervous with me around. but that definetly started the whole ignoring thing.i have asked her if i did something wrong and she hasnt told me anything.i havent asked her face to face though just through texts and messages on myspace, but either way hasnt answered. i dont really understand much of it, or why she is playin this lil hard to get game. whats the deal here? was i too forward? did i scare her away? is there a posibility that she might like me shes just to scared or nervous to let me know? good advice would help..
2007-03-11 20:11:23 · 7 answers · asked by Cj 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way , she does not have a bf. and isnt seein anyone. today after church ended we said hey to each other... i forgot to tell her that i needed to talk to her , so i textd her and asked when we could meet up and talk and she didnt respond.... whats the deal here?
2007-03-11 20:12:56 · update #1
Hmm, how into her faith is she? It may be that she just felt it in her heart that God is leading her somewhere else. Or she may of just felt you guys were getting too close.How are you in your faith?
If you search yourself, and you know you did nothing wrong then maybe its God's way of telling you he has someone better for you.
2007-03-11 20:17:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man I hate this. Same thing happened to me but i didnt have the balls to ask her straight up. Now u have to know the truth in you dont lie 2 yourself. You can def kno if she has a thing for you or not. Since u have gone out with her on a couple of dates you kinda kno her where u can just be honest with her and declare your intrest for her. but for whats goin on with the whole situation of ignoring man just ask straight up why she is ignoring you. Maybe she saw you were taking it seriously and she was like no no i dont want this. Maybe she likes you and is playing hard to get. you should just go kindley and ask for the truth but you should tell her how you feel.... God luck
2007-03-12 03:21:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry Dude, it sounds like she isn't interested.
So - play it cool - stop txt'n her and leaving messages on Myspace, don't call her, don't group date or anything else. Either two things will happen, (1) she'll wonder why you stopped chasing her and want to know why or (2) she really wasn't interested and you've already started to move on!
Good Luck, Bra!
Aloha!!
2007-03-12 03:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is just stupid,sorry to say that, leave her alone she will come around some day maybe she is on periods
2007-03-12 03:18:00 · answer #4 · answered by broderm2k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesnt like u that way.... back off dont text her or call her she'll contact u if she feels something.... erase her number
2007-03-12 03:16:57 · answer #5 · answered by chalebori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON she's probably not interested in you
2007-03-12 03:15:12 · answer #6 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is no more intrested in you. Forget her...!
2007-03-12 03:16:06 · answer #7 · answered by Raje 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋