I'm talking about the type of attraction in which you see someone for the VERY first time and you're immediately blown away. Just blown away. And to add to that, the other person is blown away by you, too, as if both of you have this "It". And your life is never the same. Is that rare in a lifetime?
2007-03-11 23:00:21 · 17 answers · asked by purringout 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am talking about the attraction itself not the relationship after.
2007-03-11 23:05:26 · update #1
It happened to me once over a year ago. And yes, it was mutual severe attraction.
2007-03-11 23:12:06 · update #2
What a great question. I guess I would say that it is rare. I've seen women that have spiked the "lust" reaction. (I'm human, what can I say.) However, I've also seen women who provoke a different, "must get to know that person" reaction simply from a look, a glance, a small smile. When that person happens to find you the same way, I think we're going down the cliche "soul mates" road -- which I believe in, by the way. As a definitive answer, I would say, "yes, it is rare but possible."
Enjoy.
2007-03-11 23:06:03 · answer #1 · answered by maxheadshot 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't trust it, and yes it's very rare. In fact it's so rare that i wouldn't beleive or trust a person who said they felt the same way. If both people were single i'd suspect they were very lonely, and/or very lustful. Most extreme attraction is based on the LACK of something in a persons personal life. Be careful enjoy it, but seach with a fine toothed comb for the truth of the situation.
2007-03-11 23:09:32 · answer #2 · answered by Kyle E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very rare indeed. Some people never get to expirience it. I've expirienced it ONCE. I saw her when I was 19 and we were blown away by eachother. I didn't find her again til about a year and a half ago. We're dating now and very happy.
2007-03-11 23:05:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jazz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to me it's not that rare once you know you know it's like omg i need to spend the rest of my life with you and someway or the other you just know you feel so comfortable around them i think there's someone out there for all of us and i think we just need to find them first it might be today or tommorrow or in years to come but you will defo find one of those attractions where your just blown away from him or her
2007-03-11 23:04:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens, believe me it does. Enjoy the moment and watch out in case if it were an illusive attraction.
2007-03-11 23:10:20 · answer #5 · answered by RareBird 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 11:46:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very rare and obviously just based on the physical so even rarer that it would last.
2007-03-11 23:06:49 · answer #7 · answered by live.b4udie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it happens at least a couple of times in your life. the attraction.
2007-03-11 23:07:06 · answer #8 · answered by vulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its really rare..i mean seen some one and getting blowing up!!! woohhoohho its just like a dream come true ...having found your mr right at first glance....its soo rare...
2007-03-11 23:12:56 · answer #9 · answered by lilysweet_bhavya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. The likelihood of it happening grows exponentially depending on the last time you got laid.
2007-03-11 23:06:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋