over the past month me and my friend becca have gotten really close. then my other friend naomi has asked me, becca and hannah over (this has been going on for the past week) and we all said yes. during this week becca had been asking me for advise about her boyfriend and stuff and i have been there for her no matter what. then the day of the party me and her met up in town and she was like oh yeah im still going. the party starts at 6 and at half for her bf texted her saying we need to talk and i was there for her then and i was being sympathic saying its ok hes not going to break up with you and that everything it fine. i was there until half six making me miss the first half part of the party and had been a shoulder to cry on when they broke up and i told her to still come to the party and she was like ill see. i could understand if she couldn't go cause hey her boyfriend just broke up with her but whn i arrived at naomis house i told her the sitution and she understood 2 hours
2007-03-11 23:13:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hours later i phoned her to see if she was ok and making sure she wasnt crying her eyes out. then i found out that her and her bf got back together and i was like great y dont you come round and she was like no i rather be with my bf for now and i was like wtf when she needed me i was there for her but now when i need her shes chooses her bf over her friends. i hated the fact that she did that and i also hate the fact that shes only been seeing this guy for a month and she choose him over us we were all there for her and now shes done this.
do u think im over reacting and forgive and forget or should i tell her what she did was unacceptable.
2007-03-11 23:17:30 · update #1
Your friend doesn't seem genuine to me. If she was a true friend then she would make it to your party. She sounds like she is selfish and wants to be more adult than she can handle. You should drift from her because if push came to shove she would choose him over you in a life/death situation. Friends should have your back not stab it!
2007-03-11 23:36:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so you saying that she is not a firend because she had a problem with her boy friend and you stayed with her and missed the start of the aprty... i dont think it is her fault. of corse you could of left and pulled her along with you,
I dont think she is the one with the problem. and I think you have to see if missing half an hour of a party is wroth losing a friend?>
2007-03-11 23:20:57 · answer #2 · answered by Leah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have the problem, not her. go on with your life and don't make such a big deal over nothing....thats her and take it from there, she only cares about one thing, HERSELF. stay friends but don't put yourself out, you know what she will do before hand. TAKE PEOPLE AS THEY ARE, NOT HOW YOU WANT THEM TO BE...but learn from this.....thats the point....
2007-03-11 23:23:38 · answer #3 · answered by brown eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a good friend, by putting this girl ahead of your own personal enjoyment. She is a friend who needed you and you were there for her.
2007-03-11 23:17:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-03-11 23:18:58 · answer #5 · answered by alharbi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds to me like lil jr high drama.. im sure yall will all be firends again lol
2007-03-11 23:17:25 · answer #6 · answered by Morgan 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋