Married ladies or ladies in a long term relationship whats the deal?

Question

Several of my married friends all complain about a lack of sex. Why is it that when you get married or enter into a long term relationship the sex dries up? I dated someone for nearly 10 years and in the beginning we had sex daily, after a few years I was lucky if I could be in the same bedroom with her. Why do women do this???

Answer 1

stress induced by daily activities causes low libido. Help out everyday with housework and compliment her without expecting sex. dont treat the help as a favor, let her know you want to help.

if you take control of some of the things she stresses out on, she will see you as a lifesaver, and will be forever in your debt :o)

Answer 2

Not a one sided issue--it is a two sided thing--you give no info--so here it goes--the pressures of life can be stressful--the demands are tough--can ruin anyones day--as you get older, it gets tougher---the problem is neither one of you had communications that would have helped--you know, listen to one another--how can you get together when you are so far apart?? See?? Got to be caring and sharing and be comforting--only takes a few minutes to relax a person--and the passion oftens results from being tender--women are emotional creatures--got to treat them right----they are not machines. Is it too late for you??? I don't know--but you can try--get some flowers and go to dinner--relax and have some fun--enjoy each other , laugh and giggle like kids--come on it doesn't hurt....be a nice guy everyday--smile and keep the warmth glowing--I mean everyday.....good luck

Answer 3

Because usually, I'm going off of the way I am and have been to x-long time boyfriends............ It just gets boring. There's only so many new things that you can do. It's kind of sad, but thats the way some of us women are.

Answer 4

well i was married 32 years and I dont remember a boring day...put some effort into it folks, life is meant to be fun....tvtop_toptv