Ive been seeing a gal naw for four months.... we were talkin away last night about the summer holidays.. and what we wanted to do..etc etc... and she asked me if i wanted to go on hols with her, in august (she goes to this place every year) august is 5-6 months away... is she seeing me as a possible long term.?
I am finding hard to make plans that far in advance B/C i dont know what she wants...? can i start making more long term plans with her naw..? like booking tickets to go see bands, that are playing a few months away.. ect..?!?!
2007-03-11 22:42:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is thinking long term otherwise she wouldn't suggest something so far away.
if you like her don't freak out, just go along with things and everything will work itself out.
2007-03-11 22:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by miss jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she's thinking long term. 4 months is already a pretty established relationship, normally, and so she seems to think it's reasonable to ask if you'd like to spend August with her. If she asked it casually it might mean that there's not a question in her mind that you'll still be together by then.
So sure, start booking for concerts and stuff -perhaps not the wedding reception just yet though...
2007-03-12 05:47:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm it depends really. Do you want to be with her in 4 months from now? if you say yes then start planning but if you say I dont know then dont. Talk to her out right about this. Tell her you want to know where she stands with this relationship and how she feels about you right now. You def have a prob with rejection because you dont want her to be gone when you made plans in advance.
2007-03-12 05:47:54 · answer #3 · answered by I hate stupid ppl like you 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...can't see why not. Worst case you break up before hand and you take someone else. I don't really understand the reasons behind taking things slow...its either happening or its not. Start making plans!
2007-03-12 05:47:02 · answer #4 · answered by bundy_bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all check out this girl, who is she ?
Otherwise she will make u bankrupt and will make u aside.
U will be left alone with nothing.
2007-03-12 05:49:56 · answer #5 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋