I'm an 18 yr. old guy, and I feel I'm gonna 'die' when I'm with them.. I just can't stand their presence.. not in a bad way.. but not in a good way either.. It's just that I don't know how to act when they're around.. You might suggest .. "just be yourself" or anything else related to that, but i need a more concrete answer.. Please help.. thanks in advance.. :p
2007-03-11 22:44:33 · 12 answers · asked by phicopacko 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its simple, your a guy, they are women, this feeling happens to all of us men, sorry to say, you might want to focus on just one or two girls at a time, this way you get a starting point, just smile and look as if it the most natural thing in the world, its easy to be overwhelmed even just being around a lot of girls or sometimes just s few, best advice, ask your self what happens when your with them? do they talk to you, do you talk to them, is there a positive or negative reaction? don't worry tho, its natural ether way...
2007-03-11 22:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by Kickback 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you had a g/f yet? have you tried being in a mixed group and observing how people interact?
maybe you need confidence building classes or something?
i dont think you're gay, my gay mates usually love hanging out with girls! i'm sure by now you know which way you wanna swing, but if not some counselling or therapy groups can help you too.
if you're really shy (i used to be). its gonna be hell for a while!! i'd get a b/f, but then hardly utter a word on dates as i was so self conscious!
so dont stress, that'll make things worse.
stay in mixed groups, learn how to chat without even thinking of chatting up (most girls hate chat up lines), research advice on websites etc, and soon you wil get over it, i promise!
good luck
2007-03-11 22:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by hedgewitch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may feel intimidated by females, but ask yourself this question, are you afraid of rejection? if you are, then that is your problem that you have to deal with. It's ok to feel rejected, besides there are more females out there who beg for attention. Do yourself a favor and talk to females as if they were one of the guys, and you'll see that when you are surrounded by girls, it's really no different then being surrounded by guys.
2007-03-11 22:56:11 · answer #3 · answered by dippset211@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just nervous, probably because your not sure how to react. Just try to stay calm and be normal - Oh and I doubt your gay - if you were you wouldn't be asking this question 'cause you wouldn't care enough to get nervous in the first place
2007-03-11 23:16:16 · answer #4 · answered by Soul Reason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get really drunk at a party and pash one of them. then don't call them the next day and i'm sure that all of the nervousness will be gone.
(sorry if the legal drinking age in your country isn't 18 scrap all of that and wait until you are 21)
2007-03-11 22:53:01 · answer #5 · answered by miss jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im kinda the same, its more so that i worry about how they think of me when i say and do things, uv just gotta accept the fact that they will either like you or they wont, u cant please everybody so just act like you would asthough you do when you are with any other person you are comfortable around
2007-03-11 22:51:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do u mean?
Do they attract u sexually?
It is very normal in this age to fell like this.
Ur sexually things are coming out, ur body is changing.
Every one fells like this.
2007-03-11 22:49:39 · answer #7 · answered by iona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be strong and get away from girls.Juz be urself.
2007-03-14 02:13:32 · answer #8 · answered by Blur Blur Gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not nervous, excited. start counting or simply ask them out or omg you are gay.
2007-03-11 22:49:53 · answer #9 · answered by vulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it.s naturel.don.t worry.think of them ;as having no cloths on. that will work it will put you at ease.
2007-03-11 22:52:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋