I like the receptionist at my physical therapist's office. Should I ask her on a date? What if she says yes?

Question

Tomorrow I have my physical therapist appointment. I have to go there three times a week. There is a very pretty receptionist there. I'm embarrassed about my car accident. Should I ask her out? What do i say? Will it be awkward if she says yes? What if she says no?

I'm real nervous.

Answer 1

Were you drunk or high because of your accident? You may want her to drive. Dont ask for a date so to speak, ask to grab lunch sometime. That way it gives her a "out" and doesnt put her on the spot and that way you can "feel" her out if she has a husband or boyfriend or just doenst want to go. They may lnot like employees to date patients too. Don't sweat it!!! Ask!!! And Good Luck!

Answer 2

Being nervous will NOT help you there! Just be confident, or at least do your best to look and sound like one, and tell her that the only good thing about you having that painful accident is that you saw her, and that seeing her helped more than any medicines, and that you would love to go out with her, simply because you have a lot to say!

Take it from there. If she said yes "which is a high possibility if she was not taken" then just take her to a nice place, better to be a relatively private yet amusing one, and just tell her there how did she make you feel whenever you went to the therapist, and that you wish to keep this happiness after you stop going there, tell her that you think she means something to you "BUT IF YOU DON'T MEAN THIS DON'T THE HELL SAY IT PLEASEEEEE."

If She said no, be like "Oh, I know what I'll miss, I hope you do too, but still happy to see you." Wish her a good day and act later as if nothing happened at att, be nice to her but not too nice, and do't avoid her. Do I really need to say more?

Answer 3

I'm not the expert, but i have been studying this subject for several years now...
are you sure she's single?
ok, if she is...
Do Not "ask her out" like you have been taught by society in general...as in asking her permission..bad news may surely follow just because you put her in control of the situation...then it starts to get uncomfortable before the next thing comes out of your mouth...follow?
no compliments yet either...makes her wonder and creates mystery in you as the man(hmmm? what's he thinking, she may be wondering?)
next; remember this first and foremost..attraction is NOT a choice..if she is not attracted to you in any way dont feel bad..it is not a choice..
that said, it's possible you can create attraction by being what's called cocky and funny ..more way below...
keep it short, with indifference as if you could care less that she talks to you or not and be confident and show confidence, lower your voice a bit and stand tall and dont figet or twitch! lol..really...
now the high points..
just say Hi, make a funny comment on something she is doing or wearing, or ask her opinion on something and if she laughs, makes eye contact all the times you have been there and converses with you on her own, then she may possibly be interested...body language should tell you a lot, but you have to be pretty sharp to sometimes read it..can't go into that here as I know not much on that myself.
by now she already knows that you are attracted to her and maybe are wanting to ask her out..this is second nature to all but the dumbest and most clueless women.
The best thing to do is say " I'm going to do or(go to the) ______________ then say would you like to come along or meet me there...this is the absolute best approach used by the best of the best in the field of dating
(fill in the blank with what you intend to do or go to, such as a cup of coffee, sandwich, anything but dinner and a movie.. too cliche' no, no, no)
Ok, now before you do any of this, go to David DeAngelo on the web and read, read, + read some more and maybe order some of his programs and definately sign up for the newsletters..you will not be sorry and possibly save yourself some real embarrassment at the most real heartache if things dont go the way you plan.
if you dont feel comfortable with any of this yet, then dont worry, maybe she isn't going anywhere for a while while you learn more and build your confidence a bit..
just smile and say hello and see ya next time..
thats a primer..good luck..

Answer 4

Ask her. If she says no, grin and walk off, if she says yes give her ur cell no. and then ask for hers.

Answer 5

Come onnnn!!!!!
If she says no, you know that shell say it another way..and youll understand..!!! Come on mennnnnn
help us out!
Ask her