I already asked this but i only got 2 answers, im hoping to get more. plz anyway:
There was this girl i was talkin to about 2 years ago. Sounds stupid but we were going out (Long distance) we had never even met in person. Yet i still loved her, and she did too at first, and we were 'together' for about a year. but towards the end she acted like such a ***** to me. i found out she was with some guy for a few months. then she told me how much she hates me and how she never really liked or loved me.
And now, between a year n 2 later, i feel like im over her. no feelings or nothing. but from time to time i just get these..images..in my head of things that remind me of her and it gives me chills sometimes. this happens just time after time very randomly. why is this haunting me so much?.
For example, ill just be on the computer, at work, watching tv, trying to go to sleep, doing anything, and suddenly im reminded of her from nothing, just outta nowhere. its like a haunting feeling..
2007-03-11 22:20:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have gotten a new girl. and i really like her alot too. but still...
2007-03-11 22:24:18 · update #1
dear sweet friend ..ever heard - NOONE CAN FORGET FIRST LOVE!!!!!!!!!
i think this is really the case with you ..that gal used you..i mean not for a purpose but timepass ..mayb she just wanted to break your heart in a worst manner .,..she made a mockery of you....she never ever loved you !!!! brealise the truth ..and u get dis images and faint memories because ....there are 2 reasons ...first ..she is ur first true love....and it a true love ....second ..she ditched you ..she played with your emotions ..all her understanding i mean her so called understanding for you was nothing ..but a total joke ...a total **** stuff ..and she wanted you to belive her ....maybe she loved you earlier but it was just infetutaion i guess cuz after some months she found some one new ....and ditched you .........U NEED TO COME OVER THIS ....U HAVE TO !!!!!!! DON LET HER SPOIL YOUR CURRENT RELATIONSHIP .......if this new gal truely loves u and u also love her ..truley even though if u love her little less than the first one ////u need to tell her about ur past so that she can handle it ....if she is erally understanding she will help you come over it .....
AND DEAR FREIND ...AFETR ALL ,,THE BEST OPTION IS TO SEE A COUNSELLOR ..WHU CAN REALLY GUIDE YOU ..BUT DONT HIDE ANYTHING FROM UR CURRENT PARTENER ...
life is long ..when u dont wanty to li8ve it or if sumthin very dear to you is missing in ur life ...oderiwse if u have everything ...life will always be SHORT ...and u must hv everything ..i mean ur mind shud be concerened with it ...that u ahve everything ...and den u willb realise that life is short and u have to live it to the fulllesstttt!!!!!! ....... if u make ur mind with determination that you have everything ..it will help you ...to live life to the fullesst and not waste it in d the dreams of that old bi***....your new partenet wil be helpful but if she too leaves you or doesnt cope up ..dont worry ...just take help ..go to a counsellor ...and it will soothe u ..make ur mind ..tyel ur mind that u ghave lost nothing and soon ur real princess wil come to ur home
ALL D BEST FRIEND !!!!!!!:)
2007-03-11 23:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by kamya aggarwal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be over her, but when you have feelings for someone that much and they were a part of your life for that long, that is going to happen. Little things may also be triggering your memory and you just don't realize it. Maybe you see a commercial and you were talking to her when you saw it once. Or maybe when your're on the computer you think of here because maybe you two messaged each other. Any little thing could trigger that and with that much time, it is completely normal. Eventually, when you meet someone else, those memories will slowly fade away and you will focus on that person. This is why breakups are so tough!
2007-03-12 05:26:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man, you just got what millions of guys have gotten--taken !! What can you expect from the relationship as you described it?? It wasn't good and they don't work---but your imagination runs wild anyway---just a natural thing--so relax. Make this new girl a top priority---show her the respect and class you have--you'll forget about this other one--or maybe you won't---I am 59 and still think about the ones from 40 years ago--so what?? Hey man, enjoy your life--make each day count--make the most of it---have fun and relax---smile and be nice---good luck.
2007-03-12 05:39:34 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is perfectly normal man. Even over her, you'll never forget her because you loved her. Im over my ex but I'll always love her and things will always remind me of her. It's just the way it is when you love someone no matter how bad they treated you -- there will always be times you remember them for no reason at all.
2007-03-12 05:27:51 · answer #4 · answered by Jazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you loved this girl and you havent got completly over her or you would have stopped thinking right now if you havent completly gotten over her you need to think are you with this other girl just to prove yourself that your not in love with the other girl or is she just the rebound is it fair to carry her on like that you need to ask your self are you with this girl now because you love her or are u just with her because your using her on a rebound you do need to ask yourself this
2007-03-12 05:59:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new girl
2007-03-12 05:23:16 · answer #6 · answered by BROK3NLI3Z20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋