me and my husband are going to make a go of our marriage, but im still feeling down, any nice sayings would be nice
2007-03-11 22:22:44 · 18 answers · asked by ssldavey2003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i know what u r going through hun,iv been there,it doesnt happen over night,when i got back wiv my bloke i thought it would be easy,i was always thinking what if...just try and take each day as it comes,appreciate one another,you have one life hunny and their is always someone worst off than yourself,be happy!
2007-03-11 22:41:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for a run. I've read that exorcise helps with stress. I found that singing, or should i say screaming along with a Slayer song also helps. Ive been down for the last few months. Yeah, months. It really sucks. I've always been the life of the party. Now my friends are telling me that I'm no longer fun to hang with. They are right. Look at it this way, your still alive, that's all that matters. Call up an old sibling. I've learned that if you bight down on a pencil, can help. Watch the Bench Warmers.
2007-03-12 07:17:18 · answer #2 · answered by spine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all God loves you today:) I am so sorry you are feeling down so here comes lots of hugs your way and keep your chin up as things will get better even though you dont see it now. Have you both tried marrriage counseling yet? What is going on in your marriage if i may ask? I am here to talk with you if you need to talk to someone. Good luck to you and to your husband in saving and working on your marriage.
2007-03-12 06:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody's Free
(to wear sunscreen)
Mary Schmich
Chicago Tribune
Ladies and Gentlemen of the class of '97... wear sunscreen.
If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be IT.
The long term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable than my own meandering experience.
I will dispense this advice now.
Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth. Never mind. You will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they have faded. But trust me, in 20 years you'll look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you can't grasp now how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked.
You are NOT as fat as you imagine.
Don't worry about the future; or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubblegum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind; the kind that blindside you at 4pm on some idle Tuesday.
Do one thing every day that scares you.
Sing.
Don't be reckless with other people's hearts, don't put up with people who are reckless with yours.
Floss.
Don't waste your time on jealousy; sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind. The race is long, and in the end, it's only with yourself.
Remember compliments you receive, forget the insults; if you succeed in doing this, tell me how.
Keep your old love letters, throw away your old bank statements.
Stretch.
Don't feel guilty if you don't know what you want to do with your life. The most interesting people I know didn't know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives, some of the most interesting 40 year olds I know still don't.
Get plenty of calcium.
Be kind to your knees, you'll miss them when they're gone.
Maybe you'll marry, maybe you won't, maybe you'll have children, maybe you won't, maybe you'll divorce at 40, maybe you'll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary. Whatever you do, don't congratulate yourself too much or berate yourself, either. Your choices are half chance, so are everybody else's. Enjoy your body, use it every way you can. Don't be afraid of it, or what other people think of it, it's the greatest instrument you'll ever own.
Dance. Even if you have nowhere to do it but in your own living room.
Read the directions, even if you don't follow them.
Do NOT read beauty magazines, they will only make you feel ugly.
Get to know your parents, you never know when they'll be gone for good.
Be nice to your siblings; they are your best link to your past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future.
Understand that friends come and go, but for the precious few you should hold on. Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography in lifestyle because the older you get, the more you need the people you knew when you were young.
Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard; live in Northern California once, but leave before it makes you soft.
Travel.
Accept certain inalienable truths, prices will rise, politicians will philander, you too will get old, and when you do you'll fantasize that when you were young prices were reasonable, politicians were noble and children respected their elders.
Respect your elders.
Don't expect anyone else to support you. Maybe you have a trust fund, maybe you'll have a wealthy spouse; but you never know when either one might run out.
Don't mess too much with your hair, or by the time you're 40, it will look 85.
Be careful whose advice you buy, but, be patient with those who supply it. Advice is a form of nostalgia, dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than it's worth.
But trust me on the sunscreen.
2007-03-12 05:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by SHEMH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Two men look through the same bars
One sees the mud, and on the stars"
"The butterfly counts not months but moments and has time enough."
"I meant to do my work today
but a brown bird sang in the apple tree,
and a butterfly flitted across the field,
and all the leaves were calling me.
And the wind went sighing over the land.
tossing the grasses to and fro,
and a rainbow held out its shining hand -
so what could I do but laugh and go."
2007-03-12 05:50:54 · answer #5 · answered by NEIL B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The lowest ebb is the turn of the tide
Onwards and upwards
Today is the start of a beautiful new day.
Things dont get better unless there is change
etc.
The sun is out, look forward and have a lovely day.
2007-03-12 05:34:27 · answer #6 · answered by worriedmum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,cheer up hon.me &er indoors have been going through bad time lately(my fault mostly cause i am a pleb sometimes) have you tried doing more things together.we gym together& i swear the best is when everynite we have our evening stroll,its great we chat about our day and it really helps.be happy and remember more often than not they are your best mate.sorry your feeling down but we all get the blues sometime hope i helped you bye.
2007-03-12 05:52:57 · answer #7 · answered by yanto1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry I dont have any sayings or what but let me tell you something, anything that God let's us do or whatever happens their will be a better and real purpose. I know how you feel and do not be sad. Please!
I do not like people to be sad even though I don't know that preson or even though she or he is good or bad. I hope I helped. Thank you for your time!
2007-03-12 05:41:33 · answer #8 · answered by tash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lost: Yesterday, somewhere between sunrise and sunset. There is no reward for it can never be recovered. Use this little saying to forget the past and the two of you walk into the future hand in hand....best of luck to you both....tvtop_toptv
2007-03-12 05:33:26 · answer #9 · answered by Marsh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep working at it. Me and my hubby nearly split up 7 yrs ago... but we plodded on and now its fab. We have a great relationship.. and i've had post natal depression since then ... But you have to want to work at it and both be committed. Have nice weekend away somewhere together.. no kids no hassles etc.x Good luck.x
2007-03-12 05:30:50 · answer #10 · answered by JustJem 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋