Family & Relationships - 11 March 2007

we are married now 8 years , the first was great sex all the time ,now maybe 1 time a week.if i am lucky.....What to do??? i am 35 he is 34

2007-03-11 17:45:37 · 8 answers · asked by bumpie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-11 17:45:34 · 8 answers · asked by i cant think of a nickname 1 in Family

I have people tell me that they dont like to hang around me because I bring them down - I have problems. Its true - I have problems - and it does seem like more than my share.
Does this mean that to have freinds that I cant talk about my life or feelings?

2007-03-11 17:45:23 · 12 answers · asked by freshbliss 6 in Friends

Does anyone have any pictures of Hacienda de las Flores in Moraga, CA? I'm looking at it as a possible wedding venue, and I wanted to check out some pictures before driving down to check it out. Thanks!

2007-03-11 17:45:21 · 2 answers · asked by clueless 1 in Weddings

I really enjoy receiving a massages.. I crave a women's touch.. and she doesn't want to do it... she doesnt have the energy/desire... she always turns it around on me, "Why don't you give me one??!?"... and I do.... but I feel like she should want to do that for me, as my potential life partner and someone who supposedly loves me so deeply... I'm in great shape and am a good looking guy!

2007-03-11 17:45:18 · 15 answers · asked by byroni 2 in Singles & Dating

How can I know to trust them?

2007-03-11 17:43:33 · 10 answers · asked by Butch Cassidy 2 in Family

I have known this guy for about a year and a half we stop talking then start back up, we have been talking for about 2 weeks every night until about 4 in the morning, and the past 3 days he hasnt really been talking, he just seems so distant. What can i do to make him want me more, do i just stop talking to him for a while???

2007-03-11 17:42:50 · 13 answers · asked by Nicolle 2 in Singles & Dating

suppose your 2 yrs partner loves you so god damn much and you equally love someone else that much. It has come to a point where you think you can't be happy without that someone. what will you do? would stay with your current partner, considering that s/he has been with you for 2 yrs and gave you nothing but love and loyalty and be unhappy for the rest of you life; or will you go after your that someone and try to be happy in your life?

2007-03-11 17:42:40 · 11 answers · asked by Danny's Not Cool 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

why do grown ups tell me i am beautiful but i am 17 and i havent had a date. and grown ups say that i am so muture, but my friends say i am not. i think that i am ok looking.... whatever, and i do act a little goofyer around my friends...... we is it just when i find that special someone, i'll find that special someone.... and how old were you when you found someone you liked?

2007-03-11 17:42:11 · 5 answers · asked by i havent all the answers 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 17:42:11 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we've had sex 3 times since aug. she says she just not into sex and her ex's had the same problem with her.my ex's that i talk to say she's crazy cause it's not my lack of sexuallity . should i tell her goodby?I thought eveyone liked sex. am i wrong?

2007-03-11 17:41:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my man have lived together for about 4 years. I love him very much but he never tells me that he loves me. He feels that the money he gives me and living with me should show me that he loves me. We have talked about it many times and I explained how it felt to me for him to never express his love to me,his excuse is that his mama told him that he is never to tell a woman that he loves her except for her. He kisses me good-bye only if no one is around to see him. Of course we do the normal sexual stuff. He doesn't spend anytime with me doing anything unless it is what he wants to do or if I fuss and complain until he will do something that I enjoy doing. He makes all his plans and clues me in on them later when he gets the time. I want to tell him to leave but I feel guilty for it because he quit drinking to be with me and moved from his family's home which he cheerishes like it is a throme and trust me it aint. How to I get out of this situation or is it a normal man thing?

2007-03-11 17:40:57 · 8 answers · asked by me 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm dating this guy, but before we started dating i liked someone else. The guy i liked before asked me out, and i said yes. however, im already dating someone .
i know what i did was wrong, but how can i correct my mistake?
I want to stay with my current boyfriend
What do i do?

2007-03-11 17:40:41 · 15 answers · asked by Stephanie C 2 in Singles & Dating

So me and my husband have been together for five years and we have a 8 month old son. My husband ever since two years ago went out with his buddies to drink and recently he went to the strip club twice. I let him go and I also let him go gambling with his buddies with his friends and drinking, but whenever I want to go out with my sisters he questions me and makes a big deal. What is wrong with him and does anyone think this is fair?

2007-03-11 17:40:32 · 10 answers · asked by tinamg_18 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i have this fren, and we been real tight since feb of 06. and we got real close and hes my best friend. and i love him more then that. and he knows it, he also feels the same about me. but he told me wen i graduated from high school. well i started workin and then he calls me one day i told me how he felt and i told him how i felt about him too. then i meet this other guy and we got together. and i fell in love wit him too. but now its like da other guy dont have time for me, and i really care about hime...but i also care about my best friend. and i really want to be with my best friend. we have more in common and he is someone that i can talk to about anything and he wont judge me on what i did. as for the other guy...i dont know what to do with him. we are still together, and every time i go and visit his page there is always females sayin "i had a great time last night" stuff like that. i need help.what should i do. am stuck between 2 guys i care for.

2007-03-11 17:39:34 · 7 answers · asked by lani_da_gr8t 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have no idea what to get my partner of 10 years for his 30th birthday does anyone have any ideas i need help

2007-03-11 17:39:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

For men did you know that women hate?
men
who confess their undying love for you over chatrooms
or text
or at first glance they would immediately tell you how beautiful you are and that they are your boyfriend
or that you mean the world and that you belong together

i just absolutely hate it i prefer men who can keep a secret, who are mysterious, who take things slowly
i just think that men underestimate womens intelligence by even expecting that we would fall for that crap
like do you even think that by doint that that you are going to get laid, dont you know that women love suspense

2007-03-11 17:38:55 · 1 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

my bf broke up with me 3 weeks ago. I know that it takes times to heal, but i've never felt that bad even i had some past relationships before.

he's just perfect for me and i love him a wholelot. I've been dreaming of him at least 20 nights in this 3 weeks after the breakup, how can i stop dreaming about him?

everyday i woke up with tons of images of our happy moments in my head, how can i get over these memories and forget about them? i try to distract myself by goign out with friends, watching movies, clubbing, etc, but just dont work.

we've traveld alot, we have very beautiful memories, how to get over them? how can i forget he was kissing me when we were under the stars in the greek isle??? how?????

anyone has the same feelings and how to feel better?????

:'(

2007-03-11 17:38:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went out with this guy for seven and a half months. he was my first love. i will honestly, never forget him. i love him more than he knows. still to this day. it affects my present and future relationships also. im always comparing guys to him. i try to replace him, he wasnt the greatest boyfriend... he was... sometimes verbally abusive, but i was in denial... didnt know. but now, every relationship i get in or have, i always find something wrong with them. it takes a while, but i do. then after a month or two, i get bored of them, find faults, then want my ex back. its been two years. and im still going insane over him. i want to be normal. forget about him. forget the memories. help. please

2007-03-11 17:36:26 · 6 answers · asked by needs_lost 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 17:36:07 · 32 answers · asked by KON 1 in Friends

koz i do cry a lot for my gf i miss her heaps but shes thinks am stupid,not strong and immature and tells me to grow up

2007-03-11 17:35:17 · 10 answers · asked by antish_r 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok So My Grandma Is Turning 90 Soon And I Don't Know What To Do For Her Or Get For Her. Any Ideas?

2007-03-11 17:34:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my ex was 44 and not i find myself falling for a guy 49. I find these guys are more mature and i have alot more in common with them. I like classic rock and anything that 40 year olds are into. I am 21. I like there company and theyre more fun. How can I stop this and why does it happen to me? Am I the only girl who is like this?

2007-03-11 17:34:20 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does anyone know where I can find skull and cross bone cuflinks or lipel pin? The less expensive the better but not a big deal.

2007-03-11 17:34:18 · 5 answers · asked by elbarto41920 2 in Weddings

There is this girl in one of my classes and i am pretty sure she likes me, but I am not quite sure how to ask her out. I know how, but I'd like some advice on specifics. Thanks!

2007-03-11 17:34:04 · 14 answers · asked by whitechocolate 1 in Singles & Dating

i have looked in the new jersey stripper's and made reservations and called, and no has responed, can anyonr tell me where else to look, i have looked in the internet and it comes up with do you want to take it home or everything else, except a bridal shower male stripper.

2007-03-11 17:34:04 · 13 answers · asked by ethie c 1 in Weddings

2007-03-11 17:33:57 · 7 answers · asked by Brunette Diamond 5 in Singles & Dating

ok so i have an amazing boyfriend but tonight my ex came over and tried to put a move on me, i said no but some how feel guilty, i have mixed feelings and emotions, am i guilty? should i talk to my boyfriend about this?

2007-03-11 17:33:53 · 12 answers · asked by TakeMyHand 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 17:33:25 · 1 answers · asked by Cunfused 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm not sure if a childhood friend of mine is Really my friend.For instance, I told her about this guy I met.I told him that he was 25 and he still lived with his parents, and that he was really religious, and he worked double shifts.And the only thing she has to say is Oh he's weirdo, Or Oh I don't like em" and I 'm thinking you don't even know him, and she goes on with her negativity saying I don't trust religious people because they're hiporcrties so how would you trust him" and then she abruptly ends the conversation and says we'll I gotta go now" and honeslty right now, I'm trying to figure out if this is my friend or foe, not just based on that one incident, but she always have something negative to say about all my friends, or anyone I'm dealing with, she'll just tell me" oh I don't like that person" for such and such reason, or just anything postive I tell her it's always negative, can anyone tell me what is going on..

2007-03-11 17:32:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends