I'm dating this guy, but before we started dating i liked someone else. The guy i liked before asked me out, and i said yes. however, im already dating someone .
i know what i did was wrong, but how can i correct my mistake?
I want to stay with my current boyfriend
What do i do?
2007-03-11 17:40:41 · 15 answers · asked by Stephanie C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but the new guy didnt know that i was dating someone, he thought i was single.
so do i tell him
i lied?
2007-03-11 17:48:49 · update #1
so i go to school tomorrow...
who do i talk to first?
2007-03-11 18:00:24 · update #2
Tell them both that you weren't thinking. It was just a gut reaction since you liked him before, but you are happy where you are right now and that you would like to keep it that way.
I hope this helps! Good luck!
2007-03-11 17:45:42 · answer #1 · answered by um yea hi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the guy and back out of your date with him. If you want to continue with your present relationship, do not cheat. You will not only hurt your guy but yourself too. How would you feel if your guy had a date with someone else? When you call you don't even need to say why. Just that you can't go out with him, tell him thank you anyway and hang up.
2007-03-12 00:45:24 · answer #2 · answered by loves_being_outside 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh hey.
so u wanna stay with ur current bf, and let this before guy go?? All u do is tell this before guy, that u made a mistake, that u have a boyfriend &u happy with the relationship.
I wouldnt say u should tell ur current bf about this little incedent though, cause u'll just end up single.
2007-03-12 00:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW.....you're such a LADY. You sure are a loyal and honest girl & a perfect match for a nice guy.
(lol)
YOU KNEW IT WAS'NT RIGHT WHEN YOU SAID "YES"!
......but "YOU" did it ANYWAY!
Either way, they'll both find you out sooner or later and you won't have either one of them in time. If the last guy is smart enough he'll figure that "if she'd cheat on him for ME"....sooner or later ,..."she'd cheat on ME for somebody else"!
LEARN FROM THIS
If not,.... we'll all be watching you in a few years on Jerry Springer
2007-03-12 00:58:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell this new guy that you dont want a relationship, and make sure he knows your serious or he'll keep asking you.
Better hope also, that your current bf doesnt find out about that....
good luck hun
2007-03-12 00:44:32 · answer #5 · answered by Savannah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't already gone out, just tell the guy you changed your mind. And if you have already gone out with him, tell your current boyfriend and hope he forgives you for being honest, because honesty is very important in a relationship.
2007-03-12 00:47:02 · answer #6 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you say yes? Just tell him the truth and that now isnt a good time and you were talking to someone and now your developing feelings for this guy. Next time, say no.:)
2007-03-12 00:54:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay with the current guy and don't deal with the other one and forget it happened.
2007-03-12 00:43:58 · answer #8 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just don't see that other guy anymore. if you feel that you love that guy in your past then you should dump this new guy... If you have no feelings for the other guy and you love the new guy, then just stop all contact with the old guy.. hope that helps
2007-03-12 00:43:57 · answer #9 · answered by Rain L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with the one you dont want to be with! but it seems that you have some attachment to the one you dont want to be with...take a walk and figure out what you really want.
2007-03-12 00:45:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋