ok so i have an amazing boyfriend but tonight my ex came over and tried to put a move on me, i said no but some how feel guilty, i have mixed feelings and emotions, am i guilty? should i talk to my boyfriend about this?
2007-03-11 17:33:53 · 12 answers · asked by TakeMyHand 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh. been a victim of this one. as long as you didnt do anything, and didnt show you were interested again, or send any signals sayn go for it, then your fine. mixed feelings and emotions are normal. talk to your boyfriend about this if you think it will make you feel better.
2007-03-11 17:39:51 · answer #1 · answered by needs_lost 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you did not respond to him you have nothing to feel guilty about. Next time though do not let your ex in and stay away from him. He is playing with you and it's better to stay out of the situation! You should also talk with your boyfriend and explain what happened so it doesn't come back on you. If he is a good guy he will understand that you did nothing wrong and your going to stay away from the ex from now on!
2007-03-12 00:42:07 · answer #2 · answered by Flipp 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mention the fact that your ex came over to pressure you. And that it left you feeling upset.
If you didn't do anything with your ex, you have no reason to feel guilty. Even the best of husbands and wives in committed marriages still look and fantasize at/about others.
It would only cloud the issue to get REALLY specific about your feelings.
2007-03-12 00:38:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know why you feel guilty because you said no when your ex made a move. well unless you are starting to have feelings for your ex, then it would be "emotional cheating." You should tell your bf about your ex making a move on you anyway because you dont want him to jump to conclusions about you and your ex if he finds this out.
2007-03-12 00:41:06 · answer #4 · answered by =D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you aren't. You are only guilty of cheating when you did something which you would not either do in front of your boyfriend or tell him about beforehand.
2007-03-12 00:45:26 · answer #5 · answered by Rabble Rouser 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honesty is the best policy, sweetie. if nothing happened, talk about it and dont feel guilty. or, does the bf know you still hang out w/ your ex? bc, esp if he's kewl w/ that, it shouldnt be an issue.
2007-03-12 00:39:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why is your ex still spending time with you? Of course your boyfriend should know about it...
2007-03-12 00:37:29 · answer #7 · answered by beenabytch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people people people! get rid of the EXS! his your EX 4 a reason! and yes your BF should know but get prepared for drama
2007-03-12 00:39:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as it is only feelings, it is ok.
Just don't do the real thing.
Everyone is influenced by others. All are tempted at times.
2007-03-12 00:38:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, you are cheating. Don't tell the new bf a thing. If you do it will end soon.
2007-03-12 00:39:34 · answer #10 · answered by dinomon70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋