i have this fren, and we been real tight since feb of 06. and we got real close and hes my best friend. and i love him more then that. and he knows it, he also feels the same about me. but he told me wen i graduated from high school. well i started workin and then he calls me one day i told me how he felt and i told him how i felt about him too. then i meet this other guy and we got together. and i fell in love wit him too. but now its like da other guy dont have time for me, and i really care about hime...but i also care about my best friend. and i really want to be with my best friend. we have more in common and he is someone that i can talk to about anything and he wont judge me on what i did. as for the other guy...i dont know what to do with him. we are still together, and every time i go and visit his page there is always females sayin "i had a great time last night" stuff like that. i need help.what should i do. am stuck between 2 guys i care for.
2007-03-11 17:39:34 · 7 answers · asked by lani_da_gr8t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like you need to grow up and figure out what LOVE really is...
I don't get it, if you are with this really great guy who is your friend and the two of you have feelings for one another then WHY are you now with this other guy? Because he made you "feel good"?
Here is my advice to you and you may not like it but I hope you listen to it anyway.: Quit thinking about just YOURSELF.
Before you can have any real relationship, really love someone and have someone love you....you have to know that LOVE is not just an emotion you feel, that is infatuation or lust.
Love is commitment. It is Trust. It is loyalty. It is compromising. It is giving of yourself and It is compatibility....do you see what I am trying to say here. You are part of the problem. Until you can appreciate your friend...stick with the player, your two of a kind.
I see a Player and a Friend....figure out which one is REAL and which one is FAKE...
Sorry to be so "rough" and "blunt" but just trying to help you avoid years of heart ache because you screwed up the best think in your life looking for something better.
2007-03-11 17:57:17 · answer #1 · answered by deb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are stuck you stuck yourself.You must remember what ever you do comes back to you later on.Do you want to be
dishonest about your feelings,you are wanting to settle for either guy.You know your best friend is whom you want to be with so what's up with the other fellow?
You are maybe trying to stir up jealousy or get a reaction.If your B.F. is seeing other women you better jump in there and
get it straight on whom you love the most.I vote B.F.
2007-03-11 17:49:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think u should lose this guy and get together with ur best friend. Ur best friend sounds more trustworthy and loyal. U can still be good friends with the guy your dating now, but to me he just doesn't seem like your type.
2007-03-11 17:45:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sound like you are stuck to me,this other guy is out doing his thing and not giving you a though,so how can you be stuck,get with it are you will lose the other guy.
2007-03-11 17:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want? something that can be real or booty-call?
Answer that, and you'll have your answer.
2007-03-11 17:50:10 · answer #5 · answered by namojaro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to read this --- http://www.relationship-affairs.com/Unfaithfulness.html
2007-03-11 17:46:49 · answer #6 · answered by Sofia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enjoy it while you can.
2007-03-11 17:42:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋