Family & Relationships - 11 March 2007

My boyfriend is harmful to me, he has a problem with drinking and drugs but i just can't seem to bring myself to gather up his things and get him out the door. I feel compeled to call him, when i know i shouldn't and don't even want to. i miss him, the old him, but i've been trying to change this habit of his for 4 years and it's just getting worse. today he said he doesn't want to be with a girl like me. wtf is that suposed to mean? I'm trying to help him but i just want to give up now. this is going no where and he is dragging me down with him. it's like a disease, i want to be with him, i want to sleep with him and wake up with him, spend my days with him, but he doesn't. it's so hard for me to stop calling him. so yesterday i went out with friends and came home to find him here in my bed, after me begging him to come home for a week. i realised he only wants me when i'm not here. how do people break up and stop thinking about them?

2007-03-11 17:56:41 · 2 answers · asked by k D 1 in Singles & Dating

i LOVE mine, but i mean ur best friend is someone who you tell details such as, for example, ur last sexual experiences and could you tell ur mom that?would u feel akward?
well of course you can tell ur mom certain things, but u know.

2007-03-11 17:56:13 · 7 answers · asked by upgrade u 2 in Family

alright so this guy i guess i can consider him a friend just told me he likes me and i dont know if i like him. then we were playing truth or dare and i picked dare and he dared me to hug him tomorrow(i have never hugged him before). then i picked truth and he asked me if i liked him and i said i dont know. then i picked dare and he dared me to kiss him. i have never kissed a guy before and i dont know if i want him to be my first kiss. well he's really nice and i dont want to hurt him. so i told him i would. i dont know what to do. please help me. thanks!

2007-03-11 17:55:56 · 10 answers · asked by samantha 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 17:55:54 · 10 answers · asked by Hard Rocker 3 in Singles & Dating

I am married with two kids and I need to ask everyone a few questions I need to know should I leave him or stay with him he says he doesnt love me anymore and just recently after four years Last September when he started college he started talking to all these girls I questioned one she said nothing was going on and i just found and old text message he wrote her saying he loved her???help

2007-03-11 17:55:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7 yrs wat should i do

2007-03-11 17:54:40 · 7 answers · asked by princess rox ya world r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Families aren't perfect, if there was a such thing, what would yours be?

2007-03-11 17:54:20 · 7 answers · asked by xlilazngrylx 4 in Family

2007-03-11 17:54:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the best way to make friends , I a good friend and she died and ever since ai have had friends but they was not a true friend .

2007-03-11 17:53:15 · 8 answers · asked by dee d 3 in Friends

i'm having a long distance relationship, we just started January this year, we were together for 3 weeks since he went to visit me here in my country. some problems of miscommunications started to show up afterwards, we don't get to catch up online much which frustrates me 'coz i miss him but he often chooses to do something else rather than catching up, when i try to open up my feelings he reassures me about our relationship again but then he still gives no importance to what we have talked about. whenever i try to stay away from him and even initiated to breakup because i get confused with his words and actions he wouldn't want to give up on me and says he loves me completely. he doesn't stick up with his words on making up time for me, when we do have time after a short while he'll make excuses to do something else like he needs to attend to his buds, they just came in and etc., right now i just feel like teaching myself not to crave for his attention and probably seek others'

2007-03-11 17:53:02 · 3 answers · asked by kaatje 3 in Singles & Dating

In other words, not like you women that give it up to anybody that you run in to.

How can I teach her to have respect for herself so she doesn't end up like you women? Bitter, vindictive, selfish. Purely rotten.

2007-03-11 17:52:22 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Every little thing I do for him seems to delight him.
He bounces over and gives me a giant hug! I spent a whopping 14 cents
at a discount bin store and got him fingernail clippers with a knife and a bottle opener.

He said he was tickled I had thought about him while I was out shopping.

So I guess, here comes the question...

He's the guy I got it bad for.
Do you think he's "catching on" considering all the hugging and sweet talk?
Would most guys know by now?

Especially considering he knows how stingy I am with a dime.


Oh, I picked nail clippers because he mentioned last week he needed a pair.
When I gave them to him, he said "Oh, good. I need to cut my toenails!"
I was like..."Don't let me see your feet!"
He said "You'd like my feet." (Is that flirting???)
{voice was sexy}

I just write kinda flowery so don't hold "delight","bounces", and "giant hug" against him..I write like a girl..damn..I am a girl..Well that explains that! And he's not gay.

2007-03-11 17:52:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive moved to another department so i dnt see the guy i like anymore..We used to check eachother out but it never led to anything,he always just starred @me..I miss him like crazee but why should i make the first move?Hes a white guy,im indian is that the reason why he hasnt ask me out?Should i 4get bout it?

2007-03-11 17:51:59 · 5 answers · asked by Cassý 1 in Singles & Dating

Years ago I was divorced. My ex wife went to court and told all kinds preposterous lies about me. Fortunately the judge didn't believe her, even though she continued to say them. The divorce was final and I moved on. Flash forward a few years. I've remarried, I have a son on the way, and my relationship withm y daughter is strng as ever. Now my ex wife is trying to pick fights with me. She yelled at me a few nights ago, and last week when I went to pick up my daughter's backpack from school, I found out that my ex wife had taken it to her home. At a school conference, she tried to blame my wife for the things that she herself has done. She keeps saying I'm a horrible person and all this garbage, but then why does she keep trying to pick fights with me? I just want to live in peace, be the best I can be for my daughter and unborn son, and wife. Why can't she just move on?

2007-03-11 17:51:12 · 10 answers · asked by tranquility_base3@yahoo.com 5 in Marriage & Divorce

What's the most embarassing thing that's ever happened to you? Make it funny please!

2007-03-11 17:50:59 · 18 answers · asked by gtest11 1 in Friends

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2007-03-11 17:50:34 · 3 answers · asked by ... 3 in Friends

I personally witnessed myself whereby my gf had a heat up conversation over the phone but was back to normal smiling face after hung up.

2007-03-11 17:50:28 · 10 answers · asked by KLeos 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Theres a girl that i really like that goes to my school, that is in 1 grade lower than me, its kinda weird talking to people in lower grades randomly..
I've known her over IM for years, know what she looks like goes to my school too
So how should i introduce my self and when would be a good time, i'd perfer it when people aren't around

2007-03-11 17:49:50 · 8 answers · asked by anotherguy 1 in Singles & Dating

my boy friend cheated he feels very bad and say he won't do it ever again can i believe him

2007-03-11 17:49:13 · 9 answers · asked by Amber W 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been going out for a year. The problem is that he still loves his dead girlfriend. He blames himself for her death because she was with a tipsy driver, she told him that and he told her he would come pick her up, but she said no. She thought she would be ok. She ended up in a car crash. She was in a coma for a while before she died. They were engaged.
He still loves her and I'm so afraid to tell him that I love him. I know that was such a tramatic event for him and I don't want to push him in any way because he is just starting to open up to me about it.
He tells me he feels dead inside sometimes and I just want to cry for him. I love him and I don't want to see him hurting like this.
I'm afraid if I tell him I love him he may not feel the same way or not be ready to love again just yet. Someone please help me.

2007-03-11 17:49:02 · 8 answers · asked by Mandy J 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 17:48:21 · 2 answers · asked by princess rox ya world r 1 in Singles & Dating

how can i stop my gf from smoking? she says she tried before but it didnt work and she just gave up i really wanna help her stop and everytime i take em away she gets angry at me. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!

2007-03-11 17:48:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have only been together for a few months...well, since November, but I truly love him, and I'm positive he's the one I want to marry in the future. He feels the same way. Anyways, I'm currently attending a college, but transferring to a smaller college after this semester and moving out of the university apartments and into a rental house with my boyfriend. I have a really good relationship with my parents, and they really like him, but I have to find a way to tell them that we are moving in together. I am completely financially independent from them, and have a nice job along with being a full time student, but I still want them to support my decisions. Any suggestions?

2007-03-11 17:47:26 · 8 answers · asked by meg 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-11 17:47:20 · 7 answers · asked by haha 2 in Singles & Dating

we have been togeather for 5 years!

2007-03-11 17:46:49 · 10 answers · asked by Kris G 1 in Weddings

i totally spaced it

2007-03-11 17:46:43 · 26 answers · asked by bleh 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so my best friend just broke up with her boyfriend ( well he broke up with her) and he told me that the only reason that they were together was becasue his friend dared him to go out with her and he is now telling me that I cant tell my friend about it cuz his religion tells him that he needs to be in peace with every one and if i tell her about the dare she will hate him. i need to tell my friend but he is just telling me that i dont understand and he is like " how can u care more aobut ur friend than about a religion" help please i have tried to convince him to tell me but what else should i say to convince him???

2007-03-11 17:46:25 · 7 answers · asked by jessicaaaa 2 in Friends

I met him, liked him, and he liked me. We flirted, and he said that he should take me out sometime then the very next week he ignores me?? We share a class and I try to avoid him to give him his space.Even though I still like him. But, now there's a dance coming up and I really want to go with him. Would he want to go with me or should I just let him be?

2007-03-11 17:46:22 · 4 answers · asked by a*m*c 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you become top contributer with only 5% best answers?

2007-03-11 17:46:09 · 4 answers · asked by night_lilly66 2 in Friends

So me and my husband have been together for five years almost and married for one. When we first got together we were in 11th grade and I told him I only had one bf before him because he doesn't like girls that had a lot. I liked him since 9th grade so I lied to him so that I can be with him. He was my first but not my first kiss. I finally got the courage to tell him after my son was about 5 months and he is mad at me like I cheated on him. I think he should get over it because it's not like i had sex with them but he won't and he says he just can't believe I had so many bf. 13. what do you think he should do? and what do you think i should have done?

2007-03-11 17:45:43 · 8 answers · asked by tinamg_18 3 in Marriage & Divorce