Family & Relationships - 11 March 2007

OK, I have a question for the ladies who had enough self respect to hold their virginity for their husbands:

Describe the first phase of your marriage, and how long did it last?

like, im sure the first couple of times it was awkward, but after how many times did you feel comforable with your husband in bed?

After how many times did you start enjoying sex,

and, finally how was life outside of the bedroom? like "can't take your hands of each other"? do you cling to him. or different?

please describe. soon to marry virgin girl and would like to know what to expect

thanks

please don't reply if your not answering the question

2007-03-11 18:23:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, I went out with this girl I really like,even though it took me a couple months to build enough courage to ask her out. Well, we went out a couple weeks ago, and it seemed she had a good time. But here's the thing while at the movies, when she was leaning on me she kept looking up at me, so I had a feeling she wanted me to kiss her so I did. And we kissed here and there throughout the night. but I somthin is bothering her about going on a second date alone with me. Long story short, her friend told me that she said things are moving to fast and that we really dont know each other,even though I believe she made the first move.So to make her feel comfortable I told her lets go to sixflags with her friends next week,so it would take some pressure off her. But do you guys think its ok to hold her hand at least, or is that still moving to fast. And When she says things are moving to fast where are the boundaries between fast and not so fast.

2007-03-11 18:23:29 · 12 answers · asked by 619 1 in Singles & Dating

IF he/she got deformed in some way or d other??

one o my frnds met with an accident and he had a cheek scraped onto the road...he will have a scar the size of an egg on his cheek forever and his gf left him coz he looked a lil repulsive to her...duh...

2007-03-11 18:23:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He broke up with me among other reasons because of the distance; I'm in New York; he's in Tokyo. We started dating in Tokyo, then I had to move to NY last Sep and we dated long dist. The break up was not mutual, but it was open ended, in that he did not completely rule out the possibility of getting back together once I moved back to Tokyo. I'm moving back to Tokyo to start work there in April; he doesn't know that yet. I should add that another major reason for breaking up was that he did not feel good enough for me due to his educational background, etc, a point of great frustration for me because I don't share in his opinion. He said he could not marry me because he could not make me happy, because he does not and could not have a proper, decent job. I wouldn't mind providing for him, and letting him do what he likes, but he doesn't like such a situation. Now he is being sincere, and I think this makes him even more difficult to read. When we were breaking up, he said his feelings

2007-03-11 18:22:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 18:22:28 · 22 answers · asked by Elizabeth 2 in Singles & Dating

This is really disturbing to me as a law abiding, non-felon, non-thuggish, non gold toothed and educated black man. I notice from others and from my own personal experience of rejection, that asian women only or primarily date white men and sometimes moreso than asian men. Have they forgotten the 2 atomic bombs dropped on them by white men during World War 2? They turn us down and turn right around and go date and take chances with white men that started racial slurs such as "jap", "slant eyes" or just want a slave or mail order bride. These asian women are willing to put theirselves through that just because a man has white skin but they want even look at a black man. The cultures are so different and most white people think they are better than any race not "pure" and they haved proved that through their track record in dealing with minorities throughout history..you know..the Indian genocide..black slavery..starting a war with Mexico to get Texas..Iraq & Afhganistan..sound familiar?

2007-03-11 18:22:19 · 14 answers · asked by Shawn 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok,well i'm thinking of something like for example:
A girl likes a guy.she falls in love with him and he loves her.then,the parents meet each other and want to get married after their very long relationship.when they get married,does the guy and girl become bro and sis?

2007-03-11 18:19:21 · 15 answers · asked by Deanna 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

okayy so i really like this guy and my parents are gonna be out this weekend and i was gonna have him over for dinner....and i wanted to know what i should cook, what music i should have playing and anything else i can do to make it perfect and what movies to rent...?And what should i say to ask him over....?And i know he likes me too cause he told me.

2007-03-11 18:18:20 · 6 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 18:18:15 · 9 answers · asked by sudhir p 1 in Singles & Dating

btw...he's in the navy.

2007-03-11 18:17:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I ordered truffle boxes as one of the party favors for my guests. The theme colors that my fiance and I had chosen for the occasion are red and gold. However, the boxes are white. I don't want to return them because we received a really great bargain, but we would like to know if there is a way we can somehow paint these boxes in red or gold. Please keep in mind that these boxes are fairly lightweight and are only 3x2x1. Any advice or are there alternative solutions?

2007-03-11 18:17:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My little sister is EVIL she is only seven years old and is almost as tall as me and is heavier than me ever since she was born we have never gotten along because she is......
EVIL!!! She cut my head open TWICE!!!it was no accident.

2007-03-11 18:17:26 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

Id like both guys n dolls to answer, either giving a time frame e.g 1 day ?.... or by stating events that should take place before you have sex.......

2007-03-11 18:17:25 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was w this wonderful person for 5 years. We started young & we were both our first loves. 5 weeks ago she decided to end it due to unresolved issues, hectic schedule & the imminent decision for her to leave the country next year indefinitely. Over the course of the past month, I've come to terms with the situation.

I found new ambitions to somehow work my career so dat our paths may cross again. I wanted to move on, in a way where I'd let go of her, but keep my feelings for her withheld within me. I indulged myself in healthy sports & old interests readily as a result.

Last week, I got to know dat she was in a state of confusion. Confusion about what exactly, I'm not sure. A near accident drove me to visit her last night to say things before I might never have the chance to. Unfortunately, she was tired & talking seemed ptless. I left then, but I realise I too had no feelings left for her. It didn't matter if I had spoken to her last night.

I've become what I tried to not be. Why?

2007-03-11 18:17:21 · 5 answers · asked by Kryed 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 18:16:17 · 15 answers · asked by Soon2beMrs.B 1 in Weddings

My best friend and I used to be together. Now he is married (but claims he is getting divorced) and I am married too. Even though I love my husband, a part of me still loves my ex, and I feel that he feels that way too. I also keep having dreams where he tells me he still loves me and that the biggest mistake of his life was breaking up with me. He tells me I am the only woman for him. Is this dream coming from a fantasy of mine or is it quite possible that he still loves me? Gut-reactions only please. No mean or stupid comments please.

2007-03-11 18:16:13 · 11 answers · asked by waterlily750 4 in Marriage & Divorce

its really annoying me that i wanna break up but i cant stand the idea of being with someone i guess. is this normal

2007-03-11 18:15:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter says she say a really sexy indian guy at her high school and when I saw him personally, I was blown away?

2007-03-11 18:14:58 · 2 answers · asked by Backoff 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 18:14:10 · 19 answers · asked by Amelie Evangeline 1 in Singles & Dating

i was really feeling the vibe with this girl. our intense but short lived romance flowed like a love letter full of all the sweetness that is not always without some degree of self-generated obsession. anyhow, this girl is somewhat of a jealous possessor, keeps questioning me about "booty calls". so i told her out of respect and dignity for the situation that i have had some hook-ups but don't treat it like a crime sugarpuss--i was single and by sheer act of thoughtful impulse pulled off some consensual fun legit-like. nxt thing you know, she text me and says she's working full time a day job and a night job, can't chill no more. what kind of taurine-defecation is this? so i was quick to give her the classic proverbial "f**k you". but since i'm philosophical about the ups and downs of my life, i would like to invite you to tell me just what's up with this chick? everything was cool until i told her about my pass hook-ups. just cuz i was honest she had to dis me? or something else?

2007-03-11 18:14:09 · 5 answers · asked by PicTaker 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm lonely and i'd like to meet some skinheads or punks on my area. i live close to lancaster, sometimes i go to philly. anybody know any skinhead hangouts in philly?

2007-03-11 18:13:12 · 8 answers · asked by Sheena 1 in Friends

Is it totally bad to just to completely end a relationship by ignoring them until they get the point, i.e. the person's calls and text messages and avoid them at all costs with no explanation when you have been dating them for several months.

2007-03-11 18:12:54 · 26 answers · asked by Eisbär 7 in Singles & Dating

Is wife swapping a good idea??
Ive been happily married for 3 years and there is this strange urge i have to watch my wife with another man,along with the normal urge of wanting to be with another woman.I am confussed because I love my wife both pyshically and mentally but would like to fufill these urges.Has anyone done this before and what did you think.

2007-03-11 18:12:02 · 12 answers · asked by cbelmote 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

sometimes i wonder if i do, but i really hate to be desperate, i dont want to be and thinking this way makes me like i am but hey in this world everything is open right they make it look so good when i know infact in reality it's not always so what do you think?

2007-03-11 18:11:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can passion & emotions rekindled

2007-03-11 18:11:01 · 10 answers · asked by core helps 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-11 18:09:36 · 24 answers · asked by meme 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex boyfriend once remarked while he was feeling me up (which i then slapped his hand to get off me), but he said "wow your breasts are firm". what is that supposed to mean? is that bad?

2007-03-11 18:09:17 · 6 answers · asked by E_J 2 in Singles & Dating

help me they are hott and i cant pic

they r both my friends and asked me out
i dont wanna hurt there feelings either
cause were all friends

there is kelly
funny
honest

and there is keira
cool
funny
honest and a real romantic

2007-03-11 18:08:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a guy friend that all he wanted in the past was sex or close to it but now he cant have it he starting to know how much i care..I will always love him but how can i trust him again?

2007-03-11 18:08:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Although I had some real reservations at first, I've now been seeing a girl who happens to be 14 years younger than I for a few months. I honestly don't think about it as much as I did as first, but it's still very strange to think that when I was in high school, she was a toddler.

I really adore this girl and feel closer to her than I have to anyone in a long time, but the age difference thing really does stay in the back of my mind. It seems that we would be in two completely different places in our lives, and that it just wouldn't be practical or realistic to think that we could have a stable, lasting long-term relationship.

Does anyone have an opinion about this?

2007-03-11 18:08:40 · 27 answers · asked by Misunderst00d 2 in Singles & Dating