sometimes i wonder if i do, but i really hate to be desperate, i dont want to be and thinking this way makes me like i am but hey in this world everything is open right they make it look so good when i know infact in reality it's not always so what do you think?
2007-03-11 18:11:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are looking for affirmation to the fact that you are obviously alone right now....well let me tell you, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that...sometimes, and more rather than not, it's when you aren't looking to be in a relationship that real ones open up for you....you need to be content with your life on your own before even considering hooking together with another person, if you are unhappy being single, you will find you are even more unhappy being a partner to someone....
take your time, figure out your own life, you have plenty of years to start something meaningful with someone...if you rush in the most likely case is you are doing it out of the fear of being all alone, and trust me, that will NOT bring any happiness or resolve to your issues, it will only put extra guilt/shame on you when it doesn't work out, or in the off chance that it drags on after fight after fight, it still will make you just miserable....
Even the "happiest" ppl in the world from the outside perspective have the twisted and sick little details hidden ...don't try and be like them, just do what is best for you and don't feel pressured or alone....
2007-03-11 18:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not all of us girls need a guy by our side and yes
sometimes being single I do wish that I had a
husband
And I am terrible when it comes to fixing something
and I do not know how and wish I had a hubby
to help me
And being single is not all that bad no
and yes I do get lonely for a man by my side
2007-03-12 01:19:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a was alone by myself...I used to have such good moments. Friends...dinners, parties,,But that happened when I stopped being worried about being solo----Then in my 30´s met a wonderful guy (my husband now) since then we are so happy, cause we had enough time to find the right person in our lives...Desperate people don´t make good choices..
2007-03-12 01:20:59 · answer #3 · answered by jackielafemme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutley right.. you dont need us any more than we need you... sometimes best bet is to live alone...
gotta admit though its fun to hang out with em once in awhile though...
Not everyone was cut out to be ralationship material.. and I can attest to that (and I'm a guy) dont do it just cuz mom told you thats the way it shoud be LOL
2007-03-12 01:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that while you are younger you dont need a man but when you have kids or married you should keep your man and keep him happy unless of abuse or addiction. Many women are on this whole women liberation stuff but why? They forget how to treat men and thus make there man leave them. You should treat a man with respect and love him and never talk bad about him they have feeling just like women do women tend to forget this information
2007-03-12 01:15:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
HELL NO! strong girls will not think that they need guys in their lives. desparate girls who think they need a guy to complete their lives all have more problems in their lives because they have to deal with guys! Just know that being single is great and you dont need to have a guy by your side. Girls are strong and can be independent.
2007-03-12 01:19:21 · answer #6 · answered by =D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to be in love, but it will make you a lot happier. Just meet as many guys as possible until you meet the right one.
2007-03-12 01:13:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship is suppose to add to your life, not be co dependent on one another. So NEED a man by my side NO. I am strong, confident, successful, happy, secure and I don't NEED someone by my side.... they're just nice gravy!
2007-03-12 01:15:49 · answer #8 · answered by KitKat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't need one by my side, I need one at the sink, washing dishes! haha
No really, you have to be happy and secure in yourself before you can be happy and secure in a relationship. Don't get into a relationship just because you want "someone" by your side, do it because you want "Guy X" by your side!
2007-03-12 01:16:28 · answer #9 · answered by calliope_13731 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i know exactly wat ur going through. i am thinking the same thing right now. i do want a bf...bad but the fact is is that we dont need them. they are just a luxury to life. yeah their nice but hey we can get along just fine with out them
2007-03-12 01:14:41 · answer #10 · answered by Lexi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋