This is really disturbing to me as a law abiding, non-felon, non-thuggish, non gold toothed and educated black man. I notice from others and from my own personal experience of rejection, that asian women only or primarily date white men and sometimes moreso than asian men. Have they forgotten the 2 atomic bombs dropped on them by white men during World War 2? They turn us down and turn right around and go date and take chances with white men that started racial slurs such as "jap", "slant eyes" or just want a slave or mail order bride. These asian women are willing to put theirselves through that just because a man has white skin but they want even look at a black man. The cultures are so different and most white people think they are better than any race not "pure" and they haved proved that through their track record in dealing with minorities throughout history..you know..the Indian genocide..black slavery..starting a war with Mexico to get Texas..Iraq & Afhganistan..sound familiar?
2007-03-11 18:22:19 · 14 answers · asked by Shawn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a Japanese woman, I've noticed that asian women tend not to date black men, nor do asian men tend to date black women. I think the reason could be that cultural differences make the chemistry difficult. Perhaps the two cultures are just so different. Black culture is different than white american culture...black culture isn't bad...just different. But I don't think this is due to asian racism. But if you like asian women, maybe your personality is already more suited to asian culture, and you might have better chemistry. Good luck to you and don't give up, maybe you can be the exception.
2007-03-11 18:29:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 2⤋
Just because you have experience some rejection or heard the same thing from others doesn't mean that all Saian woman are racists toward black men and that white men are god's gift.
I live in China and I know a few Black guy who hang out with Chinese girls.
And you are really out of argument when you write that the fact that white men launched the 2 atomic bombs could have a real relation between Asian with White persons.
Then how could you explain there are a lot of white / couple in the states or western countries even though WE the whites are enslaved the Black continents for decades ? Explain me ?
And the fact that I am white doesn't mean that I think that I am superiour to anybody on this Earth.
2007-03-11 18:32:25 · answer #2 · answered by kl55000 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think it is a very tragic situation, that Asian women think that the way to higher social status is through a white man's pants. And believe me, a lot of them are getting burned this way. I think you should forget about them. Lots of black women are starting to act this way also-staying celibate until they find a white guy.
If it is a particular woman you are after, maybe try to find some way of proving to her that you are accepting of Asians in general. Don't overdo it. They hate being acknowledged as an Asian. Like being placed in a file.
I offer this, because in the inner cities, and other places, Blacks are often very mean to Asians. They pick on them more than they would Whites. I don't know why they do it, but ask any Asian person you meet, and I guarantee they have had something Anti asian said to them by a Black person.
2007-03-12 10:58:17 · answer #3 · answered by Menga M 1 · 7⤊ 2⤋
I don't understand them very much. I've met a few good ones, but they just seem to dislike Black people in general. Some have never even personally spoken to one, but go with the norm. Don't worry about it. Anyone who measures happiness through money, status, color, and material things is not worth your time. Love through God is my first priority, but for the ones I've seen it's different. I think mixed couples are beautiful, but when I see those white/asian couples I have mixed feelings. It just seems like it's about exploitation to me. I cannot speak for every white/asian couple but it's seems like their parents program them to do this. Most people call it a trend anyway.
2007-03-14 05:50:19 · answer #4 · answered by Do_As_Infinity 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
U generalizing. The thing that i picked up, is that they afraid of the unfamiliar (just like any other race is to the other).
The complexion of a person plays a major role within their cultures( esp. Indian), it has the ability to put u within a certain class: the lighter u are, the more upper class u are-fact. Because white man WAS considered the pure race. unfortunately some of those views still exists.
But if u ever see a Asian women amongst her friends: &they consist of multi-cultured people, rest assured that she has the ablity to change the view of whom she dates.
2007-03-11 18:39:30 · answer #5 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Maybe they are! You can't go telling a woman how or who to like! Where are you from?We're from where to chose who you want!! Got That!!!
2007-03-11 18:41:33 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey hey hey my boyfriend's black and i love him and i respect his culture and so does he. don't sterotype asians like that;.
2014-07-16 20:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by kimberly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it has something to do with the size of the winie
2007-03-12 00:22:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I hear you bro. MOST asian women think they are white anyway.
2007-03-12 06:35:41 · answer #9 · answered by uthamanj 4 · 6⤊ 1⤋
seems like u just got rejected by an azn woman
dont be messed up now
2007-03-14 11:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by Billy 5 · 6⤊ 2⤋