Question for women who married as virgins regarding first phase of marriage?

Question

OK, I have a question for the ladies who had enough self respect to hold their virginity for their husbands:

Describe the first phase of your marriage, and how long did it last?

like, im sure the first couple of times it was awkward, but after how many times did you feel comforable with your husband in bed?

After how many times did you start enjoying sex,

and, finally how was life outside of the bedroom? like "can't take your hands of each other"? do you cling to him. or different?

please describe. soon to marry virgin girl and would like to know what to expect

thanks

please don't reply if your not answering the question

Im a virgin as well

Answer 1

I can't answer for ex-virginal women and their comfort levels with sex post marriage as I am a man.
But I think my friend that you are in for a wonderful journey of learning together. What happened with other women bares no consequence it's all about how your wife feels. She needs to know to expect it to be painful first and it is up to you to try and make it as best as possible.
I think lots of foreplay, lots of finger use are necessary for her to get used to the idea of sexual penetration. You need to talk about things during and afterward understand what she is feeling.
You will grow and learn together in this and if you're compassionate and gentle I'm sure she'll be happy to do it again soon in eagerness of it feeling great :)

Good luck buddy!

Answer 2

Not married yet, but I'd like to answer in adance if that's okay. Although first, I wonder if said virgin girl knows your asking this type of question.

But anyway, I don't anticipate it being very awkward at all. Perhaps just a bit, but most definitely worth the wait and amazing nevertheless. It works even better when the guy is a virgin too and you answer the question together instead of asking it on a silly website.

Answer 3

Yes, it is awkward at first and I was terribly shy. Nature does take it's course though and everything works out. Just be patient and don't expect too much and be very respectful Good luck.

Answer 4

well I'm a virgin and I'm planning on staying one until I'm married. but in all honesty will you let me know what you find out. I'm not sure if that sounds weird but I've been wondering about the same thing. will you please tell me what you find out. I'm sorry i couldn't help answer your question.

Answer 5

Does this mean you're not a virgin? Just curious. Congratulations on your nuptials.