Is wife swapping a good idea??
Ive been happily married for 3 years and there is this strange urge i have to watch my wife with another man,along with the normal urge of wanting to be with another woman.I am confussed because I love my wife both pyshically and mentally but would like to fufill these urges.Has anyone done this before and what did you think.
2007-03-11 18:12:02 · 12 answers · asked by cbelmote 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
In this day and age with the social norms the way they are and how you may have been indoctrinated as a child?
You might end up feeling regretful over it.
Biologically?
There are a number of research articles describing many human behavioral traits that suggest humans are not really built for monogamy (in the strict sense) and that explain a number of these urges.
More practically, if the two of you are both very secure and you turn out to be a much better lover, by comparison, for her AND she doesn't turn out wanting something you can't possibly give her...
...then, if you don't force her to or freak her out by suggesting it, you might come out of it OK.
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2007-03-11 18:34:42 · answer #1 · answered by Deathbunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Couple Swapping Wives
2016-12-12 06:27:56 · answer #2 · answered by josepa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you for asking opinions! Because no it is not a good idea for a happy couple to do.
Just fantasize about it, maybe talk about it in bed to get your rocks off, but no don't do it.
Then you'll always be wondering if she like the guy better than you, even if not, it will open a whole can of worms that will not be safe for a happy marriage.
If you are happily married then keep your fantasies between you and your wife and don't go there for real! You will be sorry!
2007-03-11 18:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by MissDixie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We actually had a "couple" we were friends with ask me and my husband to do this. If you were happily married I don't think you would even be asking this question. It's no wonder the divorce rate is sky rocketing. Marriage was/is ordained of God. I don't see why people want to marry when they aren't mature enough to realize the reason for getting married. Isn't it to spend your life with that ONE person? I would suggest this as being nothing more than a fantasy on your part and get over it. TRUST ME.. nothing good will come from it!
2007-03-11 18:19:42 · answer #4 · answered by Amy 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-03 23:26:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never tried it. But I have heard nothing good ever comes of it. Been told that "someone always ends up getting hurt".
2007-03-11 18:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by Jon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not swap wife unless your wife insists that she demands that. If you cannot swap, aks your wife to get refreshed.
2007-03-15 17:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by sensekonomikx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a good idea. how can u even think of sharing ur love?
2007-03-11 18:30:05 · answer #8 · answered by kevo m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok if that is what you would like to do. Sounds kinda interesting to me.....
2007-03-11 18:20:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like your wife, no
2007-03-11 18:16:17 · answer #10 · answered by slicexbread 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋