Family & Relationships - 11 March 2007

my ex & i were in a long distance relationship for 3 yrs. when we hooked up i had to migrate so we never really spent time 2gether we stayed 2gether for 2 yrs on & off i was always the 1 who ended it dont get me wrong I LUVED HIM but i just cudnt deal w the distance; the 3rd yr of our relationship i broke up w. him for good. i cudnt take it anymore, we werent seeing each other at all, the phone calls got further & further apart, we grew apart also, when we did speak to each other, nothing was there, just boring "hey, how r u?" conversations. i didnt luv him like i used to; so i broke up w. him & decided dat i'd relax for a while i've been going good for abt a yr now even tho i'm still single. recently i got a little lonely & i spoke w. him & somehow we started talkin abt gettin back 2gether. thing is i dont wanna get bk w. him but i took advantage of him when i was down i kno i'm wrong i feel bad b/c i kno he luvs me he's obsessed which scares me - 1 of da reasons i broke up w. him 2

2007-03-11 18:39:58 · 10 answers · asked by delicious_d 1 in Singles & Dating

yester day we both were in park when he suddenly get up ,held me frm my waist and gave me a tight hug and a kiss ( on cheeks).........was it wrong?? how shud i react if he again commits that??

2007-03-11 18:39:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 18:39:06 · 7 answers · asked by Brenna 1 in Singles & Dating

that includes air flight ticket, hotel accomodation, food and occassional night out. i plan to stay for two weeks or three. thanks!

2007-03-11 18:37:26 · 3 answers · asked by dimmy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 18:37:23 · 8 answers · asked by Limbani T 1 in Singles & Dating

How soon after meeting your husband or wife did you know that this was the person you wanted to spend the rest of your life with?

2007-03-11 18:36:08 · 19 answers · asked by The Ministry of Common Sense 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been going out for a month and we have known each other for a year. We spend a lot of time together and I have fallen for him hard. He tells me he loves me. I am waiting for marriage and he knows this. He has had sex before and he respects the fact that I want to wait. The other night things got out of hand and he started to move my hand down towards his "area" and he started to "dry hump" me. Afterwards I felt bad and then he felt bad seeing as how I felt. He has told me that he honestly wants to have sex, because he is a male, but because he loves me he doesn't want to have sex until I am ready (obviously that would be marriage). Is it unfair for me to expect or hope that he will wait for me? Honest opinions much appreciated. Thanks!

2007-03-11 18:36:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex an I had a mutual break up. He brought it up the " Im not ready for a serious relationship" break up. I agree with him. I felt he wasnt. But at the same time he told me he didnt want to lose me. So we agreed to stay friends and date. When we were going out, he would always call me or text me around 3pm. The usual.... how are you? I hope your having a great day...and our conversations would last about 8 minutes 10 max. After the "break up" He text me early in the day around 9am. " Hey! Rise and shine I hope your having a great day sweetie. Talk to you later.." I was suprised. Then he calls me later and we spend over a half hour talking. Why? Why are we having a better relationship after the break up and it feels a though we are still together. What do you think is going on in hes head???

2007-03-11 18:35:36 · 13 answers · asked by chalebori 2 in Singles & Dating

does that mean im getting old?

2007-03-11 18:35:30 · 8 answers · asked by sara m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

don't deny it.

2007-03-11 18:35:24 · 12 answers · asked by sadi carnot 1 in Singles & Dating

i have this boyfriend that gets high all the time then later he gets all hungry for junk food and sends me to the store to buy junk food and i do, what do you think ?should i stop getting his munchies and send him to the store high or go to the store for him? i don't like him smoking in the first place, but i like to keep him happy. what would you do?

2007-03-11 18:33:28 · 27 answers · asked by bonni 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-11 18:33:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

if a girl you've never talked to from school stares or glances at you when your not looking ...like everyday...but then stops completely the next week....does it mean shes lost interest? or becoming shy or something

2007-03-11 18:32:57 · 10 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

I went to school and fell in love with Brett. Now I have moved 3000 miles away to attend the school of my dreams. Brett and I didn't think long distance was for us, but we have seen eachother a few times since, and each time fell more and more in love. Now it is absolutly heart breaking everytime we seperate. The Problem is, we don't want to do a long distance relationship because we don't think we can make it work, yet we are not really single either because if we were to date anyone else, it would be heartbreaking. Does anyone have an suggestions on how to solve this problem?

2007-03-11 18:32:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well latley I have met three different guys and they all have done the same thing. They come over and we hang out for a little while, everything seems great and that make plans with me to go out some time. They call me the next day and then after that I never hear from them agian. They don't call, pick up the phone , e-mail nothing they justcan't tell me they don't want to go out.

What do ya'll think ????

2007-03-11 18:31:47 · 11 answers · asked by BLUEBUNNY21 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 18:31:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to go to graduate school in history so i need language experiences. i love travelling and seeing new countries and some of the happiest times of my life have been while travelling. i have been living abroad for the past year and i am planning on living a broad for at least the next year if not the next two years. but i miss my family and my dogs. i am home on vacation and feel sad that i have to go back halfway across the world soon. at the same time i know nobody ever accomplished anything by staying at home. sometimes i just wish i could go back to being a child and not having to make such hard decisions. but please help me it is just tearing me up inside knowing i am going to spend the next few years so far away from home, even though i know the experience will in the end be really valuable.

2007-03-11 18:31:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

When u go & see a girl for the first time for your arranged marriage, what type of question you must ask. When u like each other and get to know each other wat conversation is to be made. Pls somebody help me......

2007-03-11 18:29:35 · 15 answers · asked by raj dude 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my new bf says he's not really into recieving oral, it does nothing for him.
He really likes giving oral, and sex.
should I just continue this pattern or ask if he wants me to try it on him, or what?

2007-03-11 18:28:40 · 19 answers · asked by Sammy 5 in Singles & Dating

I have known him for about 4 yrs. There has always been an attraction b/w us but he was in a relationship. That relationship ended over 1 1/2 yrs ago. We began dating in October and became engaged in December. We plan on getting married July of 2008. Am I crazy or does love at 1st sight really exist?

2007-03-11 18:27:48 · 24 answers · asked by momatendofrope 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 18:27:45 · 12 answers · asked by hazarath r 1 in Friends

2007-03-11 18:27:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is my long lost aunt that my family thinks is dead cause she left the house in Mexico and never returned or something like that. Her eldest sister was called Carmen and youngest half sister was called Claudia.

2007-03-11 18:27:15 · 1 answers · asked by pennys2cute 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-11 18:26:47 · 2 answers · asked by dubi4u 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I generally get along but we just got into this fight and I really wonder how I ended up with this person. We don't fight that often but when we do I feel like I hate him and don't care about him at all.

2007-03-11 18:26:26 · 13 answers · asked by THATgirl 6 in Marriage & Divorce

if a guy likes you...he wont IM you or text you on his own? You have to start the conversation first....

but if you see him around, he'll say hi back like its no big deal?

2007-03-11 18:26:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 18:25:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I do not hav any girlfriend but trying to make one, so please help me out like how to behave, what to conversate, etc etc....... Please help out

2007-03-11 18:25:32 · 9 answers · asked by raj dude 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 18:25:26 · 12 answers · asked by Skyyla 2 in Weddings

Recently I came to a great realization- I have a greater potential of finding happiness seeking companionship in people I call friends, rather than in people who say I am indebted to them. I know this makes sense, but it goes against everything I have ever been taught. My dad always says, "Blood is thicker than water," and what he means is that family is stronger than friendship. Do you agree with him? Why or why not? All answers are welcome!!!

2007-03-11 18:24:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships