WHAT would you do in my situation?

Question

i have this boyfriend that gets high all the time then later he gets all hungry for junk food and sends me to the store to buy junk food and i do, what do you think ?should i stop getting his munchies and send him to the store high or go to the store for him? i don't like him smoking in the first place, but i like to keep him happy. what would you do?

you people say dump him, but i love him. and he gives me the money to buy the junk food, it does not come out of my pocket. he is a good guy i just don't know what to do, and im not a drug user!

Answer 1

If you were smart, you wouldn't enable him...You need to leave him, he needs to get himself together before he dates anyone...If you truly love him, you would stop this now....

Answer 2

Maybe you're not a drug user but you are an enabler which is just as bad. You make it okay for him to do drugs. Tell him to get his own munchies...and while he's at it keep on going and never come back. If you are living together WHO pays the rent? Will you be able to pay the entire rent as well as bills when he "forgets" or when he doesn't have the money to pay his share because he smoked it? What if you become pregnant? IF you can become pregnant because pot messes with the reproductive system of BOTH sexes...So in essence you are just as bad because you enable him to do this.

Answer 3

You might want to think about moving on.... I mean you said you don't like him smoking in the first place. That probably isn't going to quit. In considering the fact that marijuana gives you the munchies... soon he's going to be fat.

Interestingly enough drug companies are trying to extract the part in marijuana and it gives you the munchies (but does not supply the high). They plan on making this available to people with eating disorders in interestingly enough people on chemotherapy (cancer) that usually will lose a great deal of weight because of the therapy.

Mark
author GirlsTellAll.com

Answer 4

If the problem is that he sends you to the store for junk food order in a pizza. If you don't like him getting getting high then you're going to have to decide if you love him enough to deal with his smoking habits because he's not going to give it up for anyone but himself.

Answer 5

Have junk food at home 24-7 so you can relax a little too.
Maybe you could tell him you can't see the real person through all His getting high, and you may need to make other plans if he doesn't stop getting high,but you do love him and want him to be happy.Just not High all the time.
Do whatever you want, he is.He needs some counseling,because he wants to stay oblivated.Why?
he's not facing reality. He uses something to cope & it's illegal.So,you go down too, if he gets busted at home.

Answer 6

Lady, you're only fooling yourself. Your BF is a hophead and the drug use will ALWAYS escalate into stronger and stronger drugs. You haven't got a prayer unless he gets clean and sober and stays that way.

Don't take my word for it. Educate yourself. Get some help from your local family social worker. They're the ones can tell you a few tales about "recreational" drug users who turned into absolute monsters in a very short time. Thinking it can't happen to you because you're too lazy to do anything about it is a sure recipe for disaster. You need to act NOW.

Answer 7

How nice of you to be dating a druggie--you must be the pride of your family--and what a future this guy offers. You are buying food for a junkie??? All you are is a cash cow---all girls like you wind up broke and diseased from associating with the drug users---can't you do any better than him--I think you must be a user too--your brain sounds fried--why else would you be in this relationship??How sweet of you to keep the druggie happy--are you his mom??? You better get straight here before your life is completely ruined--but I guess everyone already told you this. If you were my kid you wouldn't have to worry about him any longer--he'd be gone for good

Answer 8

I don't think you are focusing on the real problem here. Its not about the junk food and who does and doesn't buy it. The issue is that you are dating a druggie. Solution to both the problems is to dump him. Stop trying to make him happy, make yourself happy and then look for someone that will add to that happiness. Don't waste time on this guy.
Good luck.

Answer 9

You certainly do not want to send him to the store high. He could injure himself or someone else on the way, and that would be a terrible thing to have known you could have prevented. About him getting high, if you don't like it, tell him you would like him to stop. Sometimes you have to make an ultimatum between his drugs or you. If you feel you can do it and back it up with action, I would.

Answer 10

I would not want someone who gets high all the time. Right now he's sending you to the store to get his junk food, next, he'll send you to "the man" to buy his dope using your money. You may get busted getting his dope and you might land up going down with him if and when your home gets raided by the police--and it can happen. Dope is bad news, and the people who use it are nothing but trouble.

Answer 11

I would tell him to buy his own munchies before you gets high. You say you like to keep him happy, but if he were happy wouldn't be smoking pot in the first place. Most people use drug's to get away from their problems. I don't know what else to tell you but I wouldn't support him in doing this, I wouldn't run his errands either. I definitely would make sure he does NOT drive high!