alright so this guy i guess i can consider him a friend just told me he likes me and i dont know if i like him. then we were playing truth or dare and i picked dare and he dared me to hug him tomorrow(i have never hugged him before). then i picked truth and he asked me if i liked him and i said i dont know. then i picked dare and he dared me to kiss him. i have never kissed a guy before and i dont know if i want him to be my first kiss. well he's really nice and i dont want to hurt him. so i told him i would. i dont know what to do. please help me. thanks!
2007-03-11 17:55:56 · 10 answers · asked by samantha 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this must be fate!! You gotta follow the rules when you are in the game, girl. as of kissing him....just kiss him on his cheek (i dont think u wanna kiss him directly mouth to mouth). if you really dont like him, dont play the game. or you guys can be friends to c if things work out or not.
Hope this helps :)
2007-03-11 18:00:54 · answer #1 · answered by meme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Sam, life is full of little (and big) challenges. You will meet this one as you have met others in y our life. Remember, your first relationship is always with yourself. If you can honor yourself you will have no trouble handling these issues. Simply ask yourself how you would best honor yourself. Would it be by hugging him? Would it be by kissing him. Do you honor yourself by doing either or both? You mentioned that you're not sure if you want him to be your "first kiss". That's a good question to ask...or, to put it another way, will kissing him as your first kiss best honor you? Your answer seems to be "no". So be it. Honor yourself and look inside for your answers. Follow your instincts. You know what you should do.
2007-03-12 01:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him that hug tomorrow. Hugs are better than drugs! And you can kiss him on the cheek and it counts as a kiss. That's the easy way out and won't hurt either of you.
2007-03-12 01:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by froggsfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could try to hug him for a dare, but dont kiss him cause you dont want him to be your first kiss.
2007-03-12 01:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss him on the cheek and then take the time to think about the situation and if you like him or not.
2007-03-12 01:00:04 · answer #5 · answered by Hypocrite Hunter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.. hhhmm... i smell puppy love ...i don't know how old you are, but if you're a teenager, and everything seems right at the moment, then just go for it. Life is full of lessons, and experience teaches you a lot.
2007-03-12 01:02:38 · answer #6 · answered by oki doki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you really do like him but that you're not ready for any relationships right now. That way you won't hurt him. He'll understand.
2007-03-12 01:02:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
geez how old are you darl? your worried about hugging and kissing a guy! focus on your studies.... or the ABC... life is more important then worrying about silly things like that!
2007-03-12 00:59:57 · answer #8 · answered by just_jemma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your body belongs to you, and no one has a right to touch it in any way without your permission.
2007-03-12 01:02:15 · answer #9 · answered by LV-Therapist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you???
just tell him exactly what you wrote on here if you truly consider him your friend he will understand.
2007-03-12 00:59:32 · answer #10 · answered by Tania La Güera 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋