Years ago I was divorced. My ex wife went to court and told all kinds preposterous lies about me. Fortunately the judge didn't believe her, even though she continued to say them. The divorce was final and I moved on. Flash forward a few years. I've remarried, I have a son on the way, and my relationship withm y daughter is strng as ever. Now my ex wife is trying to pick fights with me. She yelled at me a few nights ago, and last week when I went to pick up my daughter's backpack from school, I found out that my ex wife had taken it to her home. At a school conference, she tried to blame my wife for the things that she herself has done. She keeps saying I'm a horrible person and all this garbage, but then why does she keep trying to pick fights with me? I just want to live in peace, be the best I can be for my daughter and unborn son, and wife. Why can't she just move on?
2007-03-11 17:51:12 · 10 answers · asked by tranquility_base3@yahoo.com 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because you were supposed to be completely lost and dependent on her for your daily dose of abuse and reticule. You future of being a homeless person with a "will work for food" wasn't followed through. You fault by the way. You haven't really given her many options have you?
2007-03-11 17:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by ckgene 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sorry man you have a ex jealous wife on your hands in the
life she wants you are miserable and lonely and hate life. Well you have proved you can live without her and carry on with your life and be happt\y again she is stuck in a life that she wanted you to be having. Suggest she seek counselling
and just dont have a power struggle with her that what she wants if she sees that she is getting on your nerves and driving you nuts it makes her happy. Just ignore her if she starts a fight just calmly tell her that you are not going to talk to her when she is like this if she wants to be civilized and calm then you can talk but other then that you do not have the time for it you have carried on and are remarried and happy and at this point in time that is all that is important to you.
You must make the point that you will not take her crap and stand up for your new wife she deserves it. Tell her the only reason you talk to her is to spend time with your daughter period. You have a new life stop living in the past.
2007-03-12 01:19:18 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with everyone else's answers. She is bitter and feels very scorned and will not forgive you and it sounds like she wants your daughter to feel towards you the way she does. You could take her to family court and have the judge order her to stop making spiteful remarks about you and your new wife and it might just do the trick. I think you need to be strong and forceful to get her off of your back and live a peaceful life.....wishing you the best of luck.
2007-03-12 01:13:32 · answer #3 · answered by shellybear0925 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be the bigger person. Show your daughter how to be a decent person with your behavior. Don't trash talk mom and correct any misinformation you know about. Eventually your ex may move on but some people thrive on this stuff. I guess you could sue for slander but I wouldn't recomend it. Your daughter will just end up caught in the middle. Good Luck and Peace!
2007-03-12 01:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by Chrissy #1 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because you are doing the best thing you can do. Living well and taking care of yourself and family. Sounds like she's pissed she didnt break you or something to that effect. I think a womens point of view on this will be better, but shes probably mad you are doing well without her. Let me guess, nothing is ever her fault and she was/is always the victim? Do not let her get to you, and if she does dont give her the satisfaction of knowing she did. minimize contact with her and keep doing what you are doing
2007-03-12 01:15:18 · answer #5 · answered by hlind28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she should be jealous of your new family.... You kids and your wife........ i also think that she should be a psycho... She got divorce by saying all crap about you... which shows that she doesn't like u or doesn't want ot stay with you......... but when you got a new family she couldn't bear it and wants to irritate you and take off your peace of mind..... always be alert and stay away from her.... you wont get any proper answer even if you think of talking to her and finding a solution for this problem.... by now everyone would have come to know about her character.... so don't worry you wont loose your image in ur society.... so try to be even happier with ur family........ just enjoy ur life..... but will in turn make her even mad..... but for that reason you cannot sacrifice your happiness right??
so stop thinking about her...... OK be happy and have fun...
May God Bless U and Ur family...:)
Good Luck!!!!
2007-03-12 01:31:44 · answer #6 · answered by Raj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because some people, men and women, are just vindictive. They want people to listen to them and if that fails, they'll take even more aggressive actions.
About the only thing you can do is an eye for an eye. Collect evidence and take it to either the police or a judge. People like that usually don't like to be exposed or caught red-handed.
2007-03-12 01:10:33 · answer #7 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ckgene, said it all! You are suppose to have been lost without her and it didn't go that way for her. People will soon if not already get tired of listen to her. That's what happen to my ex- husband. She also wants the chance to converse with you. Keep your head up and tell her to stop the harassment or else you will charge her with deformation of character.
2007-03-12 03:07:29 · answer #8 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a nag and you need to revise things with a lawyer so you can avoid her ugliness. Thank your stars you don't have to look at that nag every day. She'll get hers someday!
2007-03-12 07:28:22 · answer #9 · answered by jacquie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's bitter....
suggest therapy for her or ignore her
2007-03-12 00:59:12 · answer #10 · answered by casj2006 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋