So me and my husband have been together for five years almost and married for one. When we first got together we were in 11th grade and I told him I only had one bf before him because he doesn't like girls that had a lot. I liked him since 9th grade so I lied to him so that I can be with him. He was my first but not my first kiss. I finally got the courage to tell him after my son was about 5 months and he is mad at me like I cheated on him. I think he should get over it because it's not like i had sex with them but he won't and he says he just can't believe I had so many bf. 13. what do you think he should do? and what do you think i should have done?
2007-03-11 17:45:43 · 8 answers · asked by tinamg_18 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You may want to remind him that it was only a kiss before you were married. You both have a child together and have established a life together. The other person does not matter now because you loved your husband enough to lay all others aside to be with him. Maybe you need to sit him down and let him know that you were not perfect but you were not promiscuous either. Let him know that you have always respected yourself and still do.
2007-03-11 17:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by Maybe I am a smartass..so what 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man. You kissed them?!?! In this day and age, how you conducted yourself was very admirable and your husband should be proud. Most men don't get to marry women who are virgins anymore. That is very special, and your hubby is a very lucky man. I don't know what you tell him....hopefully he'll put it all in perspective soon.
2007-03-12 01:06:17 · answer #2 · answered by Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the hammer. I mean tell him about the "more than kissing" bed sheet rolling times you had before him, and I bet he will want to go back to the days when he just thought you had kissed them.
2007-03-12 00:51:08 · answer #3 · answered by ckgene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get over himself, he's not the only guy there was back then nor is he the only guy there is now. Tell him to keep this up and he'll drive you to another man's arms.
2007-03-12 01:39:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does it matter now?And why did you even tell him about it after so many years.What was the point in that ?Just to cause a fight?
2007-03-12 01:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by damarony896 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so here's the deal-NEVER TELL!-one more time-NEVER TELL! generally if you have slept around you zip your lips-in your case you were REALLY YOUNG and simply smooched but your man seems to have his boxers in a twist-being that you are trying to stay married-NEVER TELL-especially if prefaced by"just tell me, I so won't be mad, I just want to know..."
2007-03-12 01:09:02 · answer #6 · answered by bikinibabewannabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you both need to understand that we all have a past we did different things that we regret i am shore you don't know everything he has done in his past and if he said that to you he is lying you just need to discuss it with him and make the point i just mad to you good luck!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-12 01:18:00 · answer #7 · answered by blackrose8684 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should both grow up
2007-03-12 00:49:41 · answer #8 · answered by abc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋