how to forget about the past and get over him??????

Question

my bf broke up with me 3 weeks ago. I know that it takes times to heal, but i've never felt that bad even i had some past relationships before.

he's just perfect for me and i love him a wholelot. I've been dreaming of him at least 20 nights in this 3 weeks after the breakup, how can i stop dreaming about him?

everyday i woke up with tons of images of our happy moments in my head, how can i get over these memories and forget about them? i try to distract myself by goign out with friends, watching movies, clubbing, etc, but just dont work.

we've traveld alot, we have very beautiful memories, how to get over them? how can i forget he was kissing me when we were under the stars in the greek isle??? how?????

anyone has the same feelings and how to feel better?????

:'(

Answer 1

TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS.... it seems you guys were happy together... y did you break up????

Answer 2

Hey you: I´m going through the same thing and I totally know how you feel, something that helped me a lot was stop talking to him or having any kind of contact with him, a lot of people suggested that, and the first month I didn´t took this advice and tried keep talking to him, the only thing that happened was that I ended up crying every time ´cause I realized that things weren´t the same. Another thing that you have to do is let him go, give him some time to think about what he wants, the phrase "if you love something let it go..." it´s totally true. Go out with your friends, make a list of the things you didn´t like about him, don´t try to focus only on the good things that you had ´cause that will make it really hard to forget about him; don´t blame yourself, it wasn´t your fault, it´s just that maybe you weren´t meant to be together and it´s better to realize about it now and no later, ´cause that would be even more painful. Good luck and remember there´s always a rainbow after the rain ;)

Answer 3

I sympathize with you, I really do but the pain you feel is not going to go away right away. Whatever you do, don't date anyone at this time it can cause more pain in you and the next person. Do you write? if not try writng a poem. some of the greatest poems were written in heartache, post it on a website. www.poetry.com they have some really inspiring stuff, or you could read a romance novel it helps to escape some of those feelings, I suggest Nora Roberts. She helped me through some pretty bad moments. Take this bad experience and turn it into just that, an experience and learn from it, grow with it. Take this time to get to know yourself, you'll grow and when your fully healed and have learned to love yourself more you'll find someone even more perfect.

Answer 4

im going through the same thing it hurt really bad i know curl up on the cough pop in your favorite movie eat chocolat or popcorn or whatever you like and cry. you need some time to cry. let it all out. and then try something new do something in life youve never done before. try to get your mind off of him and if your thinking about him let yourself cry holding it in doesnt help. im here whenever you need me, good luck sweetie

Answer 5

You say that your boyfriend broke up with you three weeks ago. What you should do is go out and meet other people this way you will get over what your boyfriend has done to you.

Answer 6

I think you need to run 5 miles a day

Answer 7

hang with friends and throw away things that remind of him.
Listen tp songs about moving on from a breakup you know, empowerment songs.

Answer 8

EASILY MY BOYFRIEND PUT ME AND CHILD OUT SO I THOUGHTT ABOUT WHAT HIS GOOD QUALITIES WERE HMM NONE AND THEN I SAID I AM BEAUTIFUL I LOVE MYSELF FORGET HIM I CAN BE HAPPY AND DO BAD BY MY DAMN SELF.

Answer 9

I'm very sorry about that. I hope this article will help you get over him - http://www.relationship-affairs.com/your-ex.html

Answer 10

you wont ever get over it, when you love someone, its always there.